Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How do you know the healthcare system is to blame? It sounds like she stopped taking her meds. She is a legal adult and nobody can force her to take them.
She should have been taken to a psychiatric facility when her symptoms became alarming, and then not been stigmatized for it. Her boyfriend (any live-in partner) should have gone to a therapy appointment with her to be educated on what kind of support she needs, warning signs, etc. It's like how you would go to a doctor's appointment with your spouse to learn what you will need to do for them when they have metastatic cancer. There should be public health workers in communities who can help direct people to care and resources.
It's never all the fault of X or Y but our healthcare system does absolutely nothing at all to foster a support system beyond prescribing pills and watching people ruin their lives.
Anonymous wrote:How do you know the healthcare system is to blame? It sounds like she stopped taking her meds. She is a legal adult and nobody can force her to take them.
She screams at producers and on videos online (Janelle) and looks unhinged.
Anonymous wrote:Andrew now has custody of James.
*Gary apparently showed up in court to support Amber, which I think is sweet.
Anonymous wrote:She doesn’t even look sad in her mugshot.
I’d be devastated. She’s already served hard time for the same thing. A prior isn’t good. Doing that in front of police while your boyfriend is holding your child isn’t good. The possibility she will go away again IS good.
Anonymous wrote:How was her behavior hidden? We’ve known of her BPD diagnosis long before she was pregnant with their baby.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Amber's boyfriend Andrew is now aiming to get sole custody of James. So if that goes through Amber would have TWO children she wouldn't have custody of.
How is this not a wakeup call for her?
These kids are getting old enough to get unmonitored screen time - they are going to start googling themselves and seeing "Oh, my mom got arrested for the same thing she did to Daddy" or "Oh, my dad was in jail and rehab."
The lack of shame blows my mind.
She has borderline personality disorder. There is no such thing as a wake up call for her. While I hope Andrew does succeed with full custody, he was a fool to have had a child with her to begin with. Her behavior was hidden to him.
He never seemed like the brightest bulb. But obviously, neither is Gary. Amber clearly has a "type." Physically large men with marginal intelligence.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Amber's boyfriend Andrew is now aiming to get sole custody of James. So if that goes through Amber would have TWO children she wouldn't have custody of.
How is this not a wakeup call for her?
These kids are getting old enough to get unmonitored screen time - they are going to start googling themselves and seeing "Oh, my mom got arrested for the same thing she did to Daddy" or "Oh, my dad was in jail and rehab."
The lack of shame blows my mind.
She has borderline personality disorder. There is no such thing as a wake up call for her. While I hope Andrew does succeed with full custody, he was a fool to have had a child with her to begin with. Her behavior was hidden to him.