Anonymous wrote:I think a lot of women assume getting approached is about attractiveness but I don’t think thats usually the case. Of my friends, the one that gets hit on the most is ordinary looking but outgoing and has a very flirtatious way about her (just her way of speaking, holding eye contact for a long time etc). I have another friend who is genuinely beautiful and, while she gets checked out often, she never gets hit on unless we are at a bar. A lot of it has to do with approachability and the amount of interest the the woman is returning, in my opinion.

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My mother was like this. She’d get hit on by everyone on planet Earth.

She was objectively unattractive, but she was highly approachable in exactly the way you describe. She made people feel good.

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Anonymous wrote:^Who said they want the attention? But we get it anyway. That's what happens when you're attractive. You wouldn't get it, and youre obviously bitter about that. Stay mad.

Cool. It's pretty clear we are in very different circles surrounded by very different types of people. Enjoy your life on the other side of the tracks. I'm good.

Yep. One person living in a very upscale, expensive urban area (me) with lots of attention for their looks, the other being a weird misfit that probably doesn't have many social connections. Stay in that lane, babe.

You can pretend to be anyone on the internet these days. Doesn’t make you believable.

The fact that you think any woman saying she gets hit on is "pretending" is what lets me KNOW you're an unattractive, ugly shut in. Oh well. Stinks to stink.

It’s cute you are getting so mad. You don’t come across as very mature. Don’t you have homework to do?

It's cute that you really are choosing to stick to this story of "no woman gets hit on in public" and "Men never throw BBQs" as your hill to die on to protect your fragile ego from admitting YOU dont get hit on cause you're not that cute. Anyway, keep coping.

Keep trying new insults maybe you’ll finally get one right. Because I don’t GAF what someone like you thinks.

Sure you don't, clown. Your continued whining says otherwise

It's adorns. Really. You are so bent out of shape. Why so angry?

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Anonymous wrote:^Who said they want the attention? But we get it anyway. That's what happens when you're attractive. You wouldn't get it, and youre obviously bitter about that. Stay mad.

Cool. It's pretty clear we are in very different circles surrounded by very different types of people. Enjoy your life on the other side of the tracks. I'm good.

Yep. One person living in a very upscale, expensive urban area (me) with lots of attention for their looks, the other being a weird misfit that probably doesn't have many social connections. Stay in that lane, babe.

You can pretend to be anyone on the internet these days. Doesn’t make you believable.

The fact that you think any woman saying she gets hit on is "pretending" is what lets me KNOW you're an unattractive, ugly shut in. Oh well. Stinks to stink.

It’s cute you are getting so mad. You don’t come across as very mature. Don’t you have homework to do?

It's cute that you really are choosing to stick to this story of "no woman gets hit on in public" and "Men never throw BBQs" as your hill to die on to protect your fragile ego from admitting YOU dont get hit on cause you're not that cute. Anyway, keep coping.

Keep trying new insults maybe you’ll finally get one right. Because I don’t GAF what someone like you thinks.

Sure you don't, clown. Your continued whining says otherwise

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Anonymous wrote:^Who said they want the attention? But we get it anyway. That's what happens when you're attractive. You wouldn't get it, and youre obviously bitter about that. Stay mad.

Cool. It's pretty clear we are in very different circles surrounded by very different types of people. Enjoy your life on the other side of the tracks. I'm good.

Yep. One person living in a very upscale, expensive urban area (me) with lots of attention for their looks, the other being a weird misfit that probably doesn't have many social connections. Stay in that lane, babe.

You can pretend to be anyone on the internet these days. Doesn’t make you believable.

The fact that you think any woman saying she gets hit on is "pretending" is what lets me KNOW you're an unattractive, ugly shut in. Oh well. Stinks to stink.

It’s cute you are getting so mad. You don’t come across as very mature. Don’t you have homework to do?

It's cute that you really are choosing to stick to this story of "no woman gets hit on in public" and "Men never throw BBQs" as your hill to die on to protect your fragile ego from admitting YOU dont get hit on cause you're not that cute. Anyway, keep coping.

Keep trying new insults maybe you’ll finally get one right. Because I don’t GAF what someone like you thinks.

Why are you so angry it’s sad.

I think a lot of women assume getting approached is about attractiveness but I don’t think thats usually the case. Of my friends, the one that gets hit on the most is ordinary looking but outgoing and has a very flirtatious way about her (just her way of speaking, holding eye contact for a long time etc). I have another friend who is genuinely beautiful and, while she gets checked out often, she never gets hit on unless we are at a bar. A lot of it has to do with approachability and the amount of interest the the woman is returning, in my opinion.

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Anonymous wrote:^Who said they want the attention? But we get it anyway. That's what happens when you're attractive. You wouldn't get it, and youre obviously bitter about that. Stay mad.

Cool. It's pretty clear we are in very different circles surrounded by very different types of people. Enjoy your life on the other side of the tracks. I'm good.

Yep. One person living in a very upscale, expensive urban area (me) with lots of attention for their looks, the other being a weird misfit that probably doesn't have many social connections. Stay in that lane, babe.

You can pretend to be anyone on the internet these days. Doesn’t make you believable.

The fact that you think any woman saying she gets hit on is "pretending" is what lets me KNOW you're an unattractive, ugly shut in. Oh well. Stinks to stink.

It’s cute you are getting so mad. You don’t come across as very mature. Don’t you have homework to do?

It's cute that you really are choosing to stick to this story of "no woman gets hit on in public" and "Men never throw BBQs" as your hill to die on to protect your fragile ego from admitting YOU dont get hit on cause you're not that cute. Anyway, keep coping.

Keep trying new insults maybe you’ll finally get one right. Because I don’t GAF what someone like you thinks.

Anonymous wrote:^Who said they want the attention? But we get it anyway. That's what happens when you're attractive. You wouldn't get it, and youre obviously bitter about that. Stay mad.

I’m the hot dog lady

I don’t like the attention especially at work.

I’m kind though, you never know what somebody is going through. Maybe he’s a widow, or his dog just died. I always am kind to strangers.

I had a guy hit on me at a bar because he just got his PhD and he literally had nobody to celebrate with. He moved for a job, finished his thesis and sat in a bar alone. So I was like well I’m not interested but you can’t drink alone so he joined our group. We had fun. I don’t even remember his name. He dated one of my friends for a few months.

I think I’m just approachable. My brother is approachable too. He has about 6 people a year approach him for help … hey my car won’t start can you give me a jump. He y I can’t reach this can you help me. My SIL cracks up. “Where’s Mike” oh somebody in the store needed help he’ll be out in a few. What?

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Anonymous wrote:^Who said they want the attention? But we get it anyway. That's what happens when you're attractive. You wouldn't get it, and youre obviously bitter about that. Stay mad.

Cool. It's pretty clear we are in very different circles surrounded by very different types of people. Enjoy your life on the other side of the tracks. I'm good.

Yep. One person living in a very upscale, expensive urban area (me) with lots of attention for their looks, the other being a weird misfit that probably doesn't have many social connections. Stay in that lane, babe.

You can pretend to be anyone on the internet these days. Doesn’t make you believable.

The fact that you think any woman saying she gets hit on is "pretending" is what lets me KNOW you're an unattractive, ugly shut in. Oh well. Stinks to stink.

It’s cute you are getting so mad. You don’t come across as very mature. Don’t you have homework to do?

It's cute that you really are choosing to stick to this story of "no woman gets hit on in public" and "Men never throw BBQs" as your hill to die on to protect your fragile ego from admitting YOU dont get hit on cause you're not that cute. Anyway, keep coping.

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Anonymous wrote:A lot of big egos in here. Men rarely ask a woman out in person now- I find all these claiming to be "hit on" all the time either exaggerations, imaginary/preceived, or gross men cat calling that make no distinction between beautiful woman and other.

Agreed. I don't see this happening anywhere. Random strangers aren't chatting each other up in any grocery store I'm in. Even on the dating sites people complain about people just wanting to text constantly without ever meeting in person. Who are all these people asking strangers on dates and actually going on dates? This does not make a lot of sense. Or are people remembering the good old days decades ago because none of this matches the dating reality of today.

Well, I am someone who got asked out at Wegman's last year, during the pandemic. I can't help it if I am adorable and friendly! Maybe you should try it?!

You must have had your mask on since this probably never happened to you pre-pandemic.

Look at you, being mean to strangers on the internet! This Bitter Betty act is why no one approaches you in public...

Are you new here?

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Anonymous wrote:A lot of big egos in here. Men rarely ask a woman out in person now- I find all these claiming to be "hit on" all the time either exaggerations, imaginary/preceived, or gross men cat calling that make no distinction between beautiful woman and other.

Agreed. I don't see this happening anywhere. Random strangers aren't chatting each other up in any grocery store I'm in. Even on the dating sites people complain about people just wanting to text constantly without ever meeting in person. Who are all these people asking strangers on dates and actually going on dates? This does not make a lot of sense. Or are people remembering the good old days decades ago because none of this matches the dating reality of today.

Well, I am someone who got asked out at Wegman's last year, during the pandemic. I can't help it if I am adorable and friendly! Maybe you should try it?!

You must have had your mask on since this probably never happened to you pre-pandemic.

Look at you, being mean to strangers on the internet! This Bitter Betty act is why no one approaches you in public...

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Anonymous wrote:A lot of big egos in here. Men rarely ask a woman out in person now- I find all these claiming to be "hit on" all the time either exaggerations, imaginary/preceived, or gross men cat calling that make no distinction between beautiful woman and other.

Agreed. I don't see this happening anywhere. Random strangers aren't chatting each other up in any grocery store I'm in. Even on the dating sites people complain about people just wanting to text constantly without ever meeting in person. Who are all these people asking strangers on dates and actually going on dates? This does not make a lot of sense. Or are people remembering the good old days decades ago because none of this matches the dating reality of today.

Well, I am someone who got asked out at Wegman's last year, during the pandemic. I can't help it if I am adorable and friendly! Maybe you should try it?!

Well I'm not single so, no, cheating isn't really for me. Which is why I said I never see *strangers* chatting it up. But if cheating is your thing, then go for it.

What on earth are you talking about? I swear, the people on this site who don't believe things happen unless it has happened to them just boggles my mind...

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Anonymous wrote:A lot of big egos in here. Men rarely ask a woman out in person now- I find all these claiming to be "hit on" all the time either exaggerations, imaginary/preceived, or gross men cat calling that make no distinction between beautiful woman and other.

Agreed. I don't see this happening anywhere. Random strangers aren't chatting each other up in any grocery store I'm in. Even on the dating sites people complain about people just wanting to text constantly without ever meeting in person. Who are all these people asking strangers on dates and actually going on dates? This does not make a lot of sense. Or are people remembering the good old days decades ago because none of this matches the dating reality of today.

Well, I am someone who got asked out at Wegman's last year, during the pandemic. I can't help it if I am adorable and friendly! Maybe you should try it?!

Were you standing by the wine section when it happened? If you had been standing by the canned beans you might not have been asked out. Location, location, location...

No, she was standing in the fresh produce section admiring the 8” cucumbers. Location, location, location

Mine was in the hot dog/sausage section.

The guy said he was supposed to bring hotdogs/sausage to a cookout and didn’t know what to get.

I helped him pick hotdogs for kids, sausage for adults and the best rolls for each.

I was looking at bacon at the time.

Then he invited me to go to the cookout.

"Hey friends! Meet this chick I just met at the grocery store 5 minutes ago. Hope you don't mind I brought a complete stranger to your house!"

Sure, this happens all the time. I'm sure he was just kidding, but you took him literally

Um, I'm not PP but I've been invited to a BBQ by someone in a grocery store before. A man, who was hitting on me. And I had given him my number to be polite and he also texted me several times trying to convince me to go. Why would someone joke about that, lol? Some of you are so sheltered and nothing even vaguely interesting happens to you

Because it makes little sense. The dude buying all the food for the kids and the adults probably owns the house the BBQ is happening at and the kids are probably his. The single guy isn't tasked with that. Use your brain. His wife probably sent him to the store.

Wow! You don’t have friends do you. Everybody brings something and hotdogs are not the main meal, BBQ is.

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Anonymous wrote:A lot of big egos in here. Men rarely ask a woman out in person now- I find all these claiming to be "hit on" all the time either exaggerations, imaginary/preceived, or gross men cat calling that make no distinction between beautiful woman and other.

Agreed. I don't see this happening anywhere. Random strangers aren't chatting each other up in any grocery store I'm in. Even on the dating sites people complain about people just wanting to text constantly without ever meeting in person. Who are all these people asking strangers on dates and actually going on dates? This does not make a lot of sense. Or are people remembering the good old days decades ago because none of this matches the dating reality of today.

Well, I am someone who got asked out at Wegman's last year, during the pandemic. I can't help it if I am adorable and friendly! Maybe you should try it?!

Were you standing by the wine section when it happened? If you had been standing by the canned beans you might not have been asked out. Location, location, location...

No, I was leaving the seltzer aisle, and he came around the corner and our carts almost collided. We laughed and started chatting about why we were there at lunch time (I had a salad in my cart), where we work, etc. After I walked away he ran after me and asked for my number.

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Anonymous wrote:A lot of big egos in here. Men rarely ask a woman out in person now- I find all these claiming to be "hit on" all the time either exaggerations, imaginary/preceived, or gross men cat calling that make no distinction between beautiful woman and other.

Agreed. I don't see this happening anywhere. Random strangers aren't chatting each other up in any grocery store I'm in. Even on the dating sites people complain about people just wanting to text constantly without ever meeting in person. Who are all these people asking strangers on dates and actually going on dates? This does not make a lot of sense. Or are people remembering the good old days decades ago because none of this matches the dating reality of today.

Well, I am someone who got asked out at Wegman's last year, during the pandemic. I can't help it if I am adorable and friendly! Maybe you should try it?!

Were you standing by the wine section when it happened? If you had been standing by the canned beans you might not have been asked out. Location, location, location...

No, she was standing in the fresh produce section admiring the 8” cucumbers. Location, location, location

Mine was in the hot dog/sausage section.

The guy said he was supposed to bring hotdogs/sausage to a cookout and didn’t know what to get.

I helped him pick hotdogs for kids, sausage for adults and the best rolls for each.

I was looking at bacon at the time.

Then he invited me to go to the cookout.

"Hey friends! Meet this chick I just met at the grocery store 5 minutes ago. Hope you don't mind I brought a complete stranger to your house!"

Sure, this happens all the time. I'm sure he was just kidding, but you took him literally

My friends bring guys they met that week to our gatherings all the time. Odd you seem so formal maybe you are just unapproachable.

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Anonymous wrote:^Who said they want the attention? But we get it anyway. That's what happens when you're attractive. You wouldn't get it, and youre obviously bitter about that. Stay mad.

Cool. It's pretty clear we are in very different circles surrounded by very different types of people. Enjoy your life on the other side of the tracks. I'm good.

Yep. One person living in a very upscale, expensive urban area (me) with lots of attention for their looks, the other being a weird misfit that probably doesn't have many social connections. Stay in that lane, babe.

You can pretend to be anyone on the internet these days. Doesn’t make you believable.

The fact that you think any woman saying she gets hit on is "pretending" is what lets me KNOW you're an unattractive, ugly shut in. Oh well. Stinks to stink.

It’s cute you are getting so mad. You don’t come across as very mature. Don’t you have homework to do?