Anonymous wrote:Poor baby big 3 douchenozzles got sad. [/quote
Sad in Palo Alto so will be ok.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:These universities have been around for a long time and have seen many students from the nations public and private high schools come and go. They are familiar with many of these high schools and are able to interpret the different transcripts.
So, they have experience with interpreting transcripts from a pandemic year in which some kids were in class full time and some were learning (and being tested) via zoom? Do tell.
No but they do have all of freshman and sophomore year and half of junior year before the virus struck so that is not nothing. And I have not seen anything to indicate that for the most part, the class of 2025 is radically different from the class of 2024, or 2023.
Anonymous wrote:Poor baby big 3 douchenozzles got sad.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Is it just me or do a whole lot of these posts read as "I paid a ton of money for my privileged kid to go to private high school with the expectation that they'd get into a fancy-ass college and I am big mad that they are being lapped by a bunch of public school kids I do not know who I assume are undeserving and not as worthy as my precious darling."
YIKES.
I feel that this is true, and SOME of these parents on DCUM do not even try to hide their disdain for public school kids and talk about them like they are totally unmotivated, undeserving morons.
And then, there are other Big 3 parents who are completely kind and normal and seem to get that you can be gifted and deserving from a public high school.
Product of public school, parent of a kid in private school here. I see very little disdain for public school kids vs the incredible vitriol that public school parents like to heap upon private school kids. You never see private school parents posting in the public school forums to sneer, but you see public school parents coming to the private school forums all the time to explicitly detail all the ways in which they think that private school kids are inferior. It's weird.
It was a no-brainer that this thread was going to end up populated by gleeful public school parents who are rubbing their hands together, delighted by any perceived disadvantage for private school kids. It's not a good look.
Anonymous wrote:From what I've observed as a parent at one of the 3 mentioned in this thread, it looks like it was more unpredictable but everyone is going to end up doing ok. Meaning, a kid who wanted Yale might end up at Williams. Or a kid who wanted Harvard ends up at Northwestern. Or a kid who wanted Duke or Stanford or Princeton ends up at Cornell or UChicago or Middlebury. Or a kid who wanted Cornell goes to Washington University, or a kid who wanted Tufts goes to Northeastern. Or a kid who wanted Amherst goes to Bowdoin or Wesleyan. The results are perhaps not as good as expected, and kids might be initially disappointed, but it's not like they're getting shut out. And the waitlist situation is absurd. If those start to move, kids might still end up where they had hoped initially to go. That's my 2 cents.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Is it just me or do a whole lot of these posts read as "I paid a ton of money for my privileged kid to go to private high school with the expectation that they'd get into a fancy-ass college and I am big mad that they are being lapped by a bunch of public school kids I do not know who I assume are undeserving and not as worthy as my precious darling."
YIKES.
I feel that this is true, and SOME of these parents on DCUM do not even try to hide their disdain for public school kids and talk about them like they are totally unmotivated, undeserving morons.
And then, there are other Big 3 parents who are completely kind and normal and seem to get that you can be gifted and deserving from a public high school.
Product of public school, parent of a kid in private school here. I see very little disdain for public school kids vs the incredible vitriol that public school parents like to heap upon private school kids. You never see private school parents posting in the public school forums to sneer, but you see public school parents coming to the private school forums all the time to explicitly detail all the ways in which they think that private school kids are inferior. It's weird.
It was a no-brainer that this thread was going to end up populated by gleeful public school parents who are rubbing their hands together, delighted by any perceived disadvantage for private school kids. It's not a good look.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:These universities have been around for a long time and have seen many students from the nations public and private high schools come and go. They are familiar with many of these high schools and are able to interpret the different transcripts.
So, they have experience with interpreting transcripts from a pandemic year in which some kids were in class full time and some were learning (and being tested) via zoom? Do tell.
No but they do have all of freshman and sophomore year and half of junior year before the virus struck so that is not nothing. And I have not seen anything to indicate that for the most part, the class of 2025 is radically different from the class of 2024, or 2023.
Anonymous wrote:From what I've observed as a parent at one of the 3 mentioned in this thread, it looks like it was more unpredictable but everyone is going to end up doing ok. Meaning, a kid who wanted Yale might end up at Williams. Or a kid who wanted Harvard ends up at Northwestern. Or a kid who wanted Duke or Stanford or Princeton ends up at Cornell or UChicago or Middlebury. Or a kid who wanted Cornell goes to Washington University, or a kid who wanted Tufts goes to Northeastern. Or a kid who wanted Amherst goes to Bowdoin or Wesleyan. The results are perhaps not as good as expected, and kids might be initially disappointed, but it's not like they're getting shut out. And the waitlist situation is absurd. If those start to move, kids might still end up where they had hoped initially to go. That's my 2 cents.