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Anonymous wrote:Does it really matter if the woman is younger, older, married, not married? Point it still the same, your husband doesn’t want to be in an exclusive relationship. It is cheating, no matter who it is with.

I don’t agree with vilifying the other affair person though. Not in the context of your own marriage. They obviously have their own issues and personal flaws, but that is beside the point. A marriage is between two people- those two people are solely responsibly for the survival of the marriage. A person committed to their spouse and marriage doesn’t cheat. You can’t blame someone else (other than your spouse or yourself) for the the breakdown on your marriage.

Most cheating (husbands) though is due to a sexless marriage. So the "breakdown" is not the cheating, it's the sexlessness which precedes the cheating.

That, or another marriage issue, or a personal flaw of the cheating spouse...but the “other” person is not the reason or where to put the blame. I don’t get why women get so hung up on the other woman when the problem is actually their husband.

So I don’t know why it’s not possible to say that the husband is definitely at fault but also say that the other woman is also at fault. I don’t get why this is a big issue?

Well because then these APs would have to assume some moral responsibility. No, no they are good character.

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Anonymous wrote:Does it really matter if the woman is younger, older, married, not married? Point it still the same, your husband doesn’t want to be in an exclusive relationship. It is cheating, no matter who it is with.

I don’t agree with vilifying the other affair person though. Not in the context of your own marriage. They obviously have their own issues and personal flaws, but that is beside the point. A marriage is between two people- those two people are solely responsibly for the survival of the marriage. A person committed to their spouse and marriage doesn’t cheat. You can’t blame someone else (other than your spouse or yourself) for the the breakdown on your marriage.

Most cheating (husbands) though is due to a sexless marriage. So the "breakdown" is not the cheating, it's the sexlessness which precedes the cheating.

That, or another marriage issue, or a personal flaw of the cheating spouse...but the “other” person is not the reason or where to put the blame. I don’t get why women get so hung up on the other woman when the problem is actually their husband.

Because they go after the wife the entire affair. Cyber stalking her and her friends and her kids. It’s pretty frickin scary to learn some crazy b@tch with her sites on your husband has been watching your every man and positioning herself accordingly when you didn’t even know she existed. They make it about a competition with the wife who doesn’t even know she’s in one. So every time I read these OW say it wasn’t personal that they wished no ill-will: bullsh@t.

But it the cheating spouse the facilitates the relationship. Spouse could not engage at all with this person and no affair would happen.

True and, as pointed out repeatedly, she is also at fault for being a shit person: knowing he’s married, stalking the wife while pretending she is such a good, empathetic person. She knows what’s she is doing will cause irreparable harm to an innocent woman and her kids. If she can look herself in the mirror every day and still think she’s an innocent, the delusion is too big to be fixed.

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Anonymous wrote:Does it really matter if the woman is younger, older, married, not married? Point it still the same, your husband doesn’t want to be in an exclusive relationship. It is cheating, no matter who it is with.

I don’t agree with vilifying the other affair person though. Not in the context of your own marriage. They obviously have their own issues and personal flaws, but that is beside the point. A marriage is between two people- those two people are solely responsibly for the survival of the marriage. A person committed to their spouse and marriage doesn’t cheat. You can’t blame someone else (other than your spouse or yourself) for the the breakdown on your marriage.

Most cheating (husbands) though is due to a sexless marriage. So the "breakdown" is not the cheating, it's the sexlessness which precedes the cheating.

That, or another marriage issue, or a personal flaw of the cheating spouse...but the “other” person is not the reason or where to put the blame. I don’t get why women get so hung up on the other woman when the problem is actually their husband.

So I don’t know why it’s not possible to say that the husband is definitely at fault but also say that the other woman is also at fault. I don’t get why this is a big issue?

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Anonymous wrote:Does it really matter if the woman is younger, older, married, not married? Point it still the same, your husband doesn’t want to be in an exclusive relationship. It is cheating, no matter who it is with.

I don’t agree with vilifying the other affair person though. Not in the context of your own marriage. They obviously have their own issues and personal flaws, but that is beside the point. A marriage is between two people- those two people are solely responsibly for the survival of the marriage. A person committed to their spouse and marriage doesn’t cheat. You can’t blame someone else (other than your spouse or yourself) for the the breakdown on your marriage.

Most cheating (husbands) though is due to a sexless marriage. So the "breakdown" is not the cheating, it's the sexlessness which precedes the cheating.

That, or another marriage issue, or a personal flaw of the cheating spouse...but the “other” person is not the reason or where to put the blame. I don’t get why women get so hung up on the other woman when the problem is actually their husband.

Because they go after the wife the entire affair. Cyber stalking her and her friends and her kids. It’s pretty frickin scary to learn some crazy b@tch with her sites on your husband has been watching your every man and positioning herself accordingly when you didn’t even know she existed. They make it about a competition with the wife who doesn’t even know she’s in one. So every time I read these OW say it wasn’t personal that they wished no ill-will: bullsh@t.

But it the cheating spouse the facilitates the relationship. Spouse could not engage at all with this person and no affair would happen.

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Anonymous wrote:Does it really matter if the woman is younger, older, married, not married? Point it still the same, your husband doesn’t want to be in an exclusive relationship. It is cheating, no matter who it is with.

I don’t agree with vilifying the other affair person though. Not in the context of your own marriage. They obviously have their own issues and personal flaws, but that is beside the point. A marriage is between two people- those two people are solely responsibly for the survival of the marriage. A person committed to their spouse and marriage doesn’t cheat. You can’t blame someone else (other than your spouse or yourself) for the the breakdown on your marriage.

Most cheating (husbands) though is due to a sexless marriage. So the "breakdown" is not the cheating, it's the sexlessness which precedes the cheating.

That, or another marriage issue, or a personal flaw of the cheating spouse...but the “other” person is not the reason or where to put the blame. I don’t get why women get so hung up on the other woman when the problem is actually their husband.

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Anonymous wrote:Does it really matter if the woman is younger, older, married, not married? Point it still the same, your husband doesn’t want to be in an exclusive relationship. It is cheating, no matter who it is with.

I don’t agree with vilifying the other affair person though. Not in the context of your own marriage. They obviously have their own issues and personal flaws, but that is beside the point. A marriage is between two people- those two people are solely responsibly for the survival of the marriage. A person committed to their spouse and marriage doesn’t cheat. You can’t blame someone else (other than your spouse or yourself) for the the breakdown on your marriage.

Most cheating (husbands) though is due to a sexless marriage. So the "breakdown" is not the cheating, it's the sexlessness which precedes the cheating.

That, or another marriage issue, or a personal flaw of the cheating spouse...but the “other” person is not the reason or where to put the blame. I don’t get why women get so hung up on the other woman when the problem is actually their husband.

Because they go after the wife the entire affair. Cyber stalking her and her friends and her kids. It’s pretty frickin scary to learn some crazy b@tch with her sites on your husband has been watching your every man and positioning herself accordingly when you didn’t even know she existed. They make it about a competition with the wife who doesn’t even know she’s in one. So every time I read these OW say it wasn’t personal that they wished no ill-will: bullsh@t.

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Anonymous wrote:Does it really matter if the woman is younger, older, married, not married? Point it still the same, your husband doesn’t want to be in an exclusive relationship. It is cheating, no matter who it is with.

I don’t agree with vilifying the other affair person though. Not in the context of your own marriage. They obviously have their own issues and personal flaws, but that is beside the point. A marriage is between two people- those two people are solely responsibly for the survival of the marriage. A person committed to their spouse and marriage doesn’t cheat. You can’t blame someone else (other than your spouse or yourself) for the the breakdown on your marriage.

Most cheating (husbands) though is due to a sexless marriage. So the "breakdown" is not the cheating, it's the sexlessness which precedes the cheating.

That, or another marriage issue, or a personal flaw of the cheating spouse...but the “other” person is not the reason or where to put the blame. I don’t get why women get so hung up on the other woman when the problem is actually their husband.

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Anonymous wrote:Does it really matter if the woman is younger, older, married, not married? Point it still the same, your husband doesn’t want to be in an exclusive relationship. It is cheating, no matter who it is with.

I don’t agree with vilifying the other affair person though. Not in the context of your own marriage. They obviously have their own issues and personal flaws, but that is beside the point. A marriage is between two people- those two people are solely responsibly for the survival of the marriage. A person committed to their spouse and marriage doesn’t cheat. You can’t blame someone else (other than your spouse or yourself) for the the breakdown on your marriage.

Most cheating (husbands) though is due to a sexless marriage. So the "breakdown" is not the cheating, it's the sexlessness which precedes the cheating.

Anonymous wrote:Does it really matter if the woman is younger, older, married, not married? Point it still the same, your husband doesn’t want to be in an exclusive relationship. It is cheating, no matter who it is with.

I don’t agree with vilifying the other affair person though. Not in the context of your own marriage. They obviously have their own issues and personal flaws, but that is beside the point. A marriage is between two people- those two people are solely responsibly for the survival of the marriage. A person committed to their spouse and marriage doesn’t cheat. You can’t blame someone else (other than your spouse or yourself) for the the breakdown on your marriage.

Anonymous wrote:Does it really matter if the woman is younger, older, married, not married? Point it still the same, your husband doesn’t want to be in an exclusive relationship. It is cheating, no matter who it is with.

I don’t agree with vilifying the other affair person though. Not in the context of your own marriage. They obviously have their own issues and personal flaws, but that is beside the point. A marriage is between two people- those two people are solely responsibly for the survival of the marriage. A person committed to their spouse and marriage doesn’t cheat. You can’t blame someone else (other than your spouse or yourself) for the the breakdown on your marriage.

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Anonymous wrote:Ron Perlman left his wife his wife of 38 years for a woman near his children's age. I'm wondering how common this is (probably not this large an age gap)? In examples, what was the aftermath like for the man, woman, and children?

They were in an open relationship for ages, which IMO is not the best.

Maybe she thought that was the way to keep him...

Hope she gets a good settlement and kicks his cheating a$$ to the curb.