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Anonymous wrote:Question for the guys: I’ve been seeing a guy long distance, but we haven’t had intercourse yet. I know he likes lingerie, and the first time we are intimate I want to blow his mind. But I know nothing about lingerie. So if you were intimate with a woman for the first time, what would be your ultimate fantasy for lingerie?

TYIA!

I'd suggest you dress in a conservative knee length dress, and heels (Stiletto's would be sexy) Under which you'll be wearing thigh highs with a garter belt, thong or g-string and matching bra or corset. When the dress comes off, you'll rock this mans world.

Or you can wear my favourite, which is a teddy that snaps open at the crotch. You can still wear stockings with it.

Following up... This is the woman who wanted to get some lingerie for herself, with a DH who does not care about lingerie. I took some of the advice here and bought a bunch of unlined bras from Nordstrom Rack during the Black Friday sales. I loved most of them and DH noticed a couple of them, appreciatively, to my surprise. Most were @ $18-38 so not a big investment.

What I did learn about DH from these purchases is that, after being together for 15 years, he really has a thing for tiny fitted gym shorts, at least on me, not lingerie. So he bought me a few for Christmas. And I bought a pair of black high heel platform combat boots boots to wear out on the weekends I've left them on at home a couple of times, which he also appreciated.

As a PSA, I'm posting an article I found on Refinery29 that has some suggestions for certain styles of lingerie that I am only recently learning about:

https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/lingerie-guide

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Anonymous wrote:Anyone got something "exotic" to recommend?

Stockings & garters are classic... got something that is more unusual or unexpected?

Since it’s winter I wore a turtleneck with a posture collar under it yesterday. Basically a thin strap necklace hooked to a rigid leather flat bar that goes straight down my back and connects to strappy underwear. It forces you to sit up straight, in my case forcing me to push my chest out. DH knows I only wear a turtle neck to hide this, so I sent him a picture of me in my turtleneck. He got the message and last night was a very very good night.

This is awesome. But what is strappy underwear?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Anyone got something "exotic" to recommend?

Stockings & garters are classic... got something that is more unusual or unexpected?

Since it’s winter I wore a turtleneck with a posture collar under it yesterday. Basically a thin strap necklace hooked to a rigid leather flat bar that goes straight down my back and connects to strappy underwear. It forces you to sit up straight, in my case forcing me to push my chest out. DH knows I only wear a turtle neck to hide this, so I sent him a picture of me in my turtleneck. He got the message and last night was a very very good night.

I have no idea what you are talking about. Sounds like you wore leash or a dog harness.

I’m sure there are videos of that! Would certainly add something to doggy style!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Anyone got something "exotic" to recommend?

Stockings & garters are classic... got something that is more unusual or unexpected?

Since it’s winter I wore a turtleneck with a posture collar under it yesterday. Basically a thin strap necklace hooked to a rigid leather flat bar that goes straight down my back and connects to strappy underwear. It forces you to sit up straight, in my case forcing me to push my chest out. DH knows I only wear a turtle neck to hide this, so I sent him a picture of me in my turtleneck. He got the message and last night was a very very good night.

I have no idea what you are talking about. Sounds like you wore leash or a dog harness.

Anonymous wrote:Anyone got something "exotic" to recommend?

Stockings & garters are classic... got something that is more unusual or unexpected?

Since it’s winter I wore a turtleneck with a posture collar under it yesterday. Basically a thin strap necklace hooked to a rigid leather flat bar that goes straight down my back and connects to strappy underwear. It forces you to sit up straight, in my case forcing me to push my chest out. DH knows I only wear a turtle neck to hide this, so I sent him a picture of me in my turtleneck. He got the message and last night was a very very good night.

Anonymous wrote:Anyone got something "exotic" to recommend?

Stockings & garters are classic... got something that is more unusual or unexpected?

A bodysuit is pretty hot.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Question for the guys: I’ve been seeing a guy long distance, but we haven’t had intercourse yet. I know he likes lingerie, and the first time we are intimate I want to blow his mind. But I know nothing about lingerie. So if you were intimate with a woman for the first time, what would be your ultimate fantasy for lingerie?

TYIA!

I'd suggest you dress in a conservative knee length dress, and heels (Stiletto's would be sexy) Under which you'll be wearing thigh highs with a garter belt, thong or g-string and matching bra or corset. When the dress comes off, you'll rock this mans world.

my DW did something like that - we were on Facetime while I was overseas for work - early morning my time/evening here with kids already in bed. She had on a robe she knows I hate and in the middle of our conversation, she came up with an excuse to get up, dropped the robe and revealed her new matching thong/bra. Gave me a little show and I barely contained myself. Helped get me through 2 weeks of business travel across Asia.

So yeah, this can work really well.

I did this my husband - robe and all. Underneath the robe I had on a long red silk nightgown that I slowly shimmied out of. It was so much fun to remind him what he had waiting for him at home.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Question for the guys: I’ve been seeing a guy long distance, but we haven’t had intercourse yet. I know he likes lingerie, and the first time we are intimate I want to blow his mind. But I know nothing about lingerie. So if you were intimate with a woman for the first time, what would be your ultimate fantasy for lingerie?

TYIA!

I'd suggest you dress in a conservative knee length dress, and heels (Stiletto's would be sexy) Under which you'll be wearing thigh highs with a garter belt, thong or g-string and matching bra or corset. When the dress comes off, you'll rock this mans world.

my DW did something like that - we were on Facetime while I was overseas for work - early morning my time/evening here with kids already in bed. She had on a robe she knows I hate and in the middle of our conversation, she came up with an excuse to get up, dropped the robe and revealed her new matching thong/bra. Gave me a little show and I barely contained myself. Helped get me through 2 weeks of business travel across Asia.

So yeah, this can work really well.

Anonymous wrote:Question for the guys: I’ve been seeing a guy long distance, but we haven’t had intercourse yet. I know he likes lingerie, and the first time we are intimate I want to blow his mind. But I know nothing about lingerie. So if you were intimate with a woman for the first time, what would be your ultimate fantasy for lingerie?

TYIA!

I'd suggest you dress in a conservative knee length dress, and heels (Stiletto's would be sexy) Under which you'll be wearing thigh highs with a garter belt, thong or g-string and matching bra or corset. When the dress comes off, you'll rock this mans world.

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Anonymous wrote:Any thoughts on ThirdLove, Heist or Thistle &Spire brands?

I think Third Love looks very every day, practical underwear and certainly not what i'd wear to wow my husband. Some body types need more practical underwear, so it serves a purpose. Heist is just ugly shape wear. Thistle & spire is definitely cute.

The fatties in the ads for Third Love definitely turn me off on the whole brand. Yech.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Any thoughts on ThirdLove, Heist or Thistle &Spire brands?

I think Third Love looks very every day, practical underwear and certainly not what i'd wear to wow my husband. Some body types need more practical underwear, so it serves a purpose. Heist is just ugly shape wear. Thistle & spire is definitely cute.

Why are half or more of the models on the Thistle and Spire website fat? Some aren't, but so many of them are I wonder if this is a line designed for heavier women?

There has been a big a push in the lingerie industry over the past few years for size equality. The marketing reflects that. I don’t have a problem with it.
Are you the same poster that took issue with the size of models in American Eagle ads/website?

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Any thoughts on ThirdLove, Heist or Thistle &Spire brands?

I think Third Love looks very every day, practical underwear and certainly not what i'd wear to wow my husband. Some body types need more practical underwear, so it serves a purpose. Heist is just ugly shape wear. Thistle & spire is definitely cute.

Why are half or more of the models on the Thistle and Spire website fat? Some aren't, but so many of them are I wonder if this is a line designed for heavier women?

Because half of the US is fat. Maybe more than half.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Any thoughts on ThirdLove, Heist or Thistle &Spire brands?

I think Third Love looks very every day, practical underwear and certainly not what i'd wear to wow my husband. Some body types need more practical underwear, so it serves a purpose. Heist is just ugly shape wear. Thistle & spire is definitely cute.

Why are half or more of the models on the Thistle and Spire website fat? Some aren't, but so many of them are I wonder if this is a line designed for heavier women?

Anonymous wrote:Anyone got something "exotic" to recommend?

Stockings & garters are classic... got something that is more unusual or unexpected?

Not sure how unusual but when my wife wears crotchless panties it puts her in a really good mood.