Anonymous wrote:Before I go insane from lack of sex.

Late 40s female, sexless marriage for the last 7 years, no plans to divorce.

But I need someone to have sex with.

I do need to be discreet -- I have a hall pass as long as I don't flaunt what I'm doing.

Surely there must be an option to find someone in their 40s looking for something similar.

OKC. You can be honest there with your intentions. I've had sex with married women more than once from there. Tinder is flaky, OKC is okay. hinge and Bumble are good for legit stuff. I've slept with at least three or four married women from OKC. Three of the four were in open ones - or so they said - other one lied to me.

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Anonymous wrote:Y’all act like this is friggin rocket science. It’s not! People been fooling around from the dawn of time if idiots who thought the world was flat can do it so can you!

Well they do not want some average Joe. The want someone like in the movies or TV...like a Don Draper...someone to feed their huge ego.

Total nonsense. As a woman, I just want a man that I have chemistry with, and that means great sex plus intimacy. But he has to also know the rules.

I have to ask. What are the rules?

Be content with what you have.

Are you the PP? Seems that if you were happy with what you had an AP wouldn’t exist.

Touché !

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Anonymous wrote:Y’all act like this is friggin rocket science. It’s not! People been fooling around from the dawn of time if idiots who thought the world was flat can do it so can you!

Well they do not want some average Joe. The want someone like in the movies or TV...like a Don Draper...someone to feed their huge ego.

Total nonsense. As a woman, I just want a man that I have chemistry with, and that means great sex plus intimacy. But he has to also know the rules.

I have to ask. What are the rules?

Be content with what you have.

Are you the PP? Seems that if you were happy with what you had an AP wouldn’t exist.

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Anonymous wrote:Y’all act like this is friggin rocket science. It’s not! People been fooling around from the dawn of time if idiots who thought the world was flat can do it so can you!

Well they do not want some average Joe. The want someone like in the movies or TV...like a Don Draper...someone to feed their huge ego.

Total nonsense. As a woman, I just want a man that I have chemistry with, and that means great sex plus intimacy. But he has to also know the rules.

I have to ask. What are the rules?

Be content with what you have.

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Anonymous wrote:Y’all act like this is friggin rocket science. It’s not! People been fooling around from the dawn of time if idiots who thought the world was flat can do it so can you!

Well they do not want some average Joe. The want someone like in the movies or TV...like a Don Draper...someone to feed their huge ego.

Total nonsense. As a woman, I just want a man that I have chemistry with, and that means great sex plus intimacy. But he has to also know the rules.

I have to ask. What are the rules?

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Anonymous wrote:Y’all act like this is friggin rocket science. It’s not! People been fooling around from the dawn of time if idiots who thought the world was flat can do it so can you!

Well they do not want some average Joe. The want someone like in the movies or TV...like a Don Draper...someone to feed their huge ego.

Total nonsense. As a woman, I just want a man that I have chemistry with, and that means great sex plus intimacy. But he has to also know the rules.

Shagging the UPS guy works for you but it does not work for many.

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Anonymous wrote:Y’all act like this is friggin rocket science. It’s not! People been fooling around from the dawn of time if idiots who thought the world was flat can do it so can you!

Well they do not want some average Joe. The want someone like in the movies or TV...like a Don Draper...someone to feed their huge ego.

Total nonsense. As a woman, I just want a man that I have chemistry with, and that means great sex plus intimacy. But he has to also know the rules.

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Anonymous wrote:Y’all act like this is friggin rocket science. It’s not! People been fooling around from the dawn of time if idiots who thought the world was flat can do it so can you!

Well they do not want some average Joe. The want someone like in the movies or TV...like a Don Draper...someone to feed their huge ego.

You sound like one of those Incels.

Anonymous wrote:Y’all act like this is friggin rocket science. It’s not! People been fooling around from the dawn of time if idiots who thought the world was flat can do it so can you!

Well they do not want some average Joe. The want someone like in the movies or TV...like a Don Draper...someone to feed their huge ego.

Best place, if the goal is an orgasm, is [insert peaceful name] spa, at least for me. For less the the cost of a dinner and hotel room, I can get off. There are some negatives:

1) Am I supporting human trafficking?
2) What if there is a bust?
3) STD's (but that is a risk with any affair partner)
4) You might be her 15th client of the day

Positives:
1) I do not have to worry about her getting emotionally attached (see 4)
2) Service is available whenever I want

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Anonymous wrote:You are playing with fire. There is no way of knowing with any certainty if an affair will be NSA or stay that way

This is true buts it's much easier for women to find a man for just sex. Make sure he is married and he has no intention of leaving his wife. Your supply of attractive interested men will be much higher if you tell them you don't want to be a homewrecker

A lot of single men would also be content just being an AP. Married or single, the key is finding a man that will know his role and stay there.

Until he/she catches feelings.

Even then, he has to know his role and the limits. That’s why it takes time to find the right one.

My Dh knows his testosterone is low but doesn't care!

Anonymous wrote:I'm a DW in the same boat! I got to know someone a little bit outside my normal circle, and eventually it crossed over to FWB. It is tricky, but possible. It was nice because I first got to know and trust him, although now we are purely physical. I see him fairly infrequently, but the sex is amazing, and it keeps me sane! Just take care with your appearance, and look around, there are a lot of guys who would be up for this.

Y'all really need to get your DHs' testosterone levels checked. Probably the case for many of you.

Y’all act like this is friggin rocket science. It’s not! People been fooling around from the dawn of time if idiots who thought the world was flat can do it so can you!

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Anonymous wrote:You are playing with fire. There is no way of knowing with any certainty if an affair will be NSA or stay that way

This is true buts it's much easier for women to find a man for just sex. Make sure he is married and he has no intention of leaving his wife. Your supply of attractive interested men will be much higher if you tell them you don't want to be a homewrecker

A lot of single men would also be content just being an AP. Married or single, the key is finding a man that will know his role and stay there.

Until he/she catches feelings.