Anonymous wrote:Are you saying that the fathers who want it as a present aren’t getting sex regularly. Maybe that’s why DH has never asked for a Father’s Day gift of sex.
Anonymous wrote:And the most important day... today!!
Anonymous wrote:It's so weird to pick specific days.
yes I want it Mother's Day, armistice day, fat tuesday, the feast of the assumption, the anniversary of the day we first met, leap day....
WTF... grow up.
Anonymous wrote:It's so weird to pick specific days.
yes I want it Mother's Day, armistice day, fat tuesday, the feast of the assumption, the anniversary of the day we first met, leap day....
WTF... grow up.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It doesn’t have to be either or people!!! You can give it up to your DH and have the kids show their love with gifts too.
I don’t understand these women who complain about men wanting sex. Don’t you enjoy it??
Maybe their husbands aren't that good in bed?
Anonymous wrote:if my husband wants sex and makes a move, he's more likely than not to get it. But it wouldn't be on the top of my list for Father's Day.
I mean, on mother's Day I don't expect him to do anything because I'm not his mother. It's up to the kid to do that.
And on Father's Day, I'm not going to be like hey you're such a good daddy here's a blowjob for you. That just feels icky but if he asked for sex like he would any other night: All good
Anonymous wrote:if my husband wants sex and makes a move, he's more likely than not to get it. But it wouldn't be on the top of my list for Father's Day.
I mean, on mother's Day I don't expect him to do anything because I'm not his mother. It's up to the kid to do that.
And on Father's Day, I'm not going to be like hey you're such a good daddy here's a blowjob for you. That just feels icky but if he asked for sex like he would any other night: All good
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Sex for Father's Day is weird to me, isn't it about kids celebrating yheit2 parents (or the other parent/spouse making an effort but pretending it's "from" the kid)?
It's about the kids and dad. Not dad's sexual needs or what he thinks he's entitled to from his wife.
are you seriously saying a husband, under normal circumstances, isn't entitled to have sex with his wife?
DP. No one is entitled to sex from anyone, even a spouse. Your attitude is more than a little rapey.
If a marital vow doesn’t allow entitlement to sex, then it doesn’t allow entitlement to monogamy - no?
Or are we splicing and dicing vows as we see fit?
Forsaking all others
To have
And to hold
Oh good, the marital rape advocate is back.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It doesn’t have to be either or people!!! You can give it up to your DH and have the kids show their love with gifts too.
I don’t understand these women who complain about men wanting sex. Don’t you enjoy it??
Maybe their husbands aren't that good in bed?
Up to a woman to own her own body. If a woman can’t masturbate to an orgasm leave her, she will never be happy.
Amazing to me how women will own their body for abortion and yet to have an orgasm it is up to someone else to magically push the imaginary switch
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:LOL@ AMEX autocorrect from sex. But yes, that too. Initiate sex and you may have him initiating gifts for you on the Amex too!!
I don’t need gifts in exchange for marital sex. I like the sex and am not a prostitute. However, I don’t want sex for a Mother’s Day gift.
You want jewelry for Mother’s Day! Do you need gifts in exchange for non marital sex?
No. I don’t need DH to do anything. I do like when he cooks shrimp gumbo. I have never received anything in exchange for sex and would be deeply insulted if something was offered.
+1 Way to make sex within a marriage more like a prostitute/john situation.
The original comment had an effing TYPO. The statement was “initiate sex more and DH may initiate more of the things you want. Chores, kid stuff, cooking - whatever. It supported reciprocity as an act of LOVE in a marriage.
The second comment was a CORRECTION of the typo and a joke about autocorrecting to AMEX. Nevertheless the autocorrect could still be apropos for some families, as a hot marital bed will have your DH/DW finding reason to whip out the AMEX. Maybe even if it’s only for Chinese food or a massage.
My last comment is that you all are foolish. Marriage is shared everything - how is it prostitution???! And if you are going to stand by that, how are you as a wife not as bad as a man seeking prostitution, by saying your DH must (fill in the blank) to get me to (full in the blank)?! Is that not pay for play?!
Either way it’s an effing barter system. Uptight prudes. This is why your men stray. You don’t listen to male advice, you don’t switch driving seats in your sex life, and you go down stupid rabbit holes and miss the point.
And another thing. Every mother(fo) on this thread talking about mothers and Father’s Day did get something in exchange for sex - a CHILD.
My DH and I did not get kids from sex with each other, thank you.
Change every to nearly and be done with it already.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:LOL@ AMEX autocorrect from sex. But yes, that too. Initiate sex and you may have him initiating gifts for you on the Amex too!!
I don’t need gifts in exchange for marital sex. I like the sex and am not a prostitute. However, I don’t want sex for a Mother’s Day gift.
You want jewelry for Mother’s Day! Do you need gifts in exchange for non marital sex?
No. I don’t need DH to do anything. I do like when he cooks shrimp gumbo. I have never received anything in exchange for sex and would be deeply insulted if something was offered.
+1 Way to make sex within a marriage more like a prostitute/john situation.
The original comment had an effing TYPO. The statement was “initiate sex more and DH may initiate more of the things you want. Chores, kid stuff, cooking - whatever. It supported reciprocity as an act of LOVE in a marriage.
The second comment was a CORRECTION of the typo and a joke about autocorrecting to AMEX. Nevertheless the autocorrect could still be apropos for some families, as a hot marital bed will have your DH/DW finding reason to whip out the AMEX. Maybe even if it’s only for Chinese food or a massage.
My last comment is that you all are foolish. Marriage is shared everything - how is it prostitution???! And if you are going to stand by that, how are you as a wife not as bad as a man seeking prostitution, by saying your DH must (fill in the blank) to get me to (full in the blank)?! Is that not pay for play?!
Either way it’s an effing barter system. Uptight prudes. This is why your men stray. You don’t listen to male advice, you don’t switch driving seats in your sex life, and you go down stupid rabbit holes and miss the point.
And another thing. Every mother(fo) on this thread talking about mothers and Father’s Day did get something in exchange for sex - a CHILD.