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Anonymous wrote:What is wrong with listening to his mom? If they marry, it's going to adversely affect her having OP as DIL and playing to play grandma to her baggage kid. OP's ex-bf sounds smart except that if he were so smart, he would have dropped her like a hot potato from the beginning.

You must be a miserable, bitter person to refer to a child as a “baggage child.” How awful! You need some prayers.

It is what it is. A child becomes baggage when it's someone else kid. Why do you think women with children have a hard time developing relationships unless it's with divorced/single fathers, and even then these men prefer a women without kids?

Only the low class think being polite is “fake”— OP this break up is best for everyone involved. You need to get child suppprt from your child’s actual father. , go to some kind of trade school, support your kid and get an IUD. The ex will be married within two years to a woman with a degree and a career. He will have kids and she may become a SAHM but it’s a totally different situation. Class does matter in long term compatibility.

Anonymous wrote:Does anyone else notice that it's a class indicator to call people "fake"? Upper class types are bred to be polite even to those they don't think much about. This is deemed "fakeness" by those on the receiving end.

What I noticed was that mom seemed to be “fake” and asked the OP questions about herself and her future. The dad seemed to be more “genuine” and didn’t ask her anything.
It makes me think that the OP is hot with big boobs on full display. Dad and son seem to not care about anything else. Mom isn’t affected by it and sees the situation for what it is.

Anonymous wrote:What is wrong with listening to his mom? If they marry, it's going to adversely affect her having OP as DIL and playing to play grandma to her baggage kid. OP's ex-bf sounds smart except that if he were so smart, he would have dropped her like a hot potato from the beginning.

You must be a miserable, bitter person to refer to a child as a “baggage child.” How awful! You need some prayers.

What is wrong with listening to his mom? If they marry, it's going to adversely affect her having OP as DIL and playing to play grandma to her baggage kid. OP's ex-bf sounds smart except that if he were so smart, he would have dropped her like a hot potato from the beginning.

Anonymous wrote:If he dumped you because of his mother then you dodged a bullet.

This. I don't know if you are a user looking for a father figure for your child or not, but if her opinions matter to him, this won't work.