Anonymous wrote:Aside from OP, this thread is making DCUM look downright normal. Well done!

Anonymous wrote:Aside from OP, this thread is making DCUM look downright normal. Well done!

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Anonymous wrote:I just find it odd that OP is so nit picky about this one decision but won’t acknowledge the risks she takes by driving, putting a child in daycare, etc. yes the risks are small but so is the risk of a lap baby on a plane. Get over yourself or at least be honest.

It’s about CHOICE. I have to work, so kid goes to daycare. We have to drive (although not to daycare so we walk). When I have no choice, I take the risk. When we go on a plane we have a choice and I choose the safer option.

Ha, you’re still making choices. Are you really that dense? You probably don’t HAVE to work- you choose to do you can provide better for your family. I get it, I do too. Plenty of people make it without cars too, but they certainly make things easier in most parts of the US.

Again, assumptions. We live in a place where we rarely need our car, but for many people it’s really not a choice. It’s certainly less of a choice than whether to buy a seat for your kid.

More than 4,000 pedestrians are killed in accidents each year, compared to about 100 people killed in airplane accidents, and most of those 100 are flying in small private plane.

You are making choices. If you're in a 2 income family, you have decided that certain things in life are worth the risk of walking with your child to daycare every day, maybe those things are what you consider "needs" like owning your own home, or having health insurance, or putting money away for retirement, but the reality is that other people do go without them and stay home. On the other hand, if another family choose to take a far tinier risk, by an enormous factor, so they can put money towards other things, you judge them.

The reason i really question this choice—when it’s a choice and money isn’t a factor—is because it’s an easy way to reduce risk. Yes, it’s a small risk, but it’s enough of a risk that the expert opinion on it is unanimous and clear as day. Something like whether to work is much more complicated. This is an easy one.

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Anonymous wrote:You can get annoyed at me for this, but I have never understood it and have to ask. Unless you have to take the flight and absolutely cannot afford another seat, why do you fly with your infant as a lap child? The FAA is crystal clear that it is not safe. The reason it’s allowed is because the FAA knows people would balk at the requirement and not fly as much. The airline lobby is strong.

This article includes statements from the FAA making that argument: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.cbsnews.com/amp/news/should-small-children-have-their-own-plane-seats/

So why do you do it?

Why do you drive to NYC to save money when you could take the train, which is safer? Why did you buy X car instead of Y car that is safer? people make trade offs.

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Anonymous wrote:I just find it odd that OP is so nit picky about this one decision but won’t acknowledge the risks she takes by driving, putting a child in daycare, etc. yes the risks are small but so is the risk of a lap baby on a plane. Get over yourself or at least be honest.

It’s about CHOICE. I have to work, so kid goes to daycare. We have to drive (although not to daycare so we walk). When I have no choice, I take the risk. When we go on a plane we have a choice and I choose the safer option.

Ha, you’re still making choices. Are you really that dense? You probably don’t HAVE to work- you choose to do you can provide better for your family. I get it, I do too. Plenty of people make it without cars too, but they certainly make things easier in most parts of the US.

Again, assumptions. We live in a place where we rarely need our car, but for many people it’s really not a choice. It’s certainly less of a choice than whether to buy a seat for your kid.

More than 4,000 pedestrians are killed in accidents each year, compared to about 100 people killed in airplane accidents, and most of those 100 are flying in small private plane.

You are making choices. If you're in a 2 income family, you have decided that certain things in life are worth the risk of walking with your child to daycare every day, maybe those things are what you consider "needs" like owning your own home, or having health insurance, or putting money away for retirement, but the reality is that other people do go without them and stay home. On the other hand, if another family choose to take a far tinier risk, by an enormous factor, so they can put money towards other things, you judge them.

The reason i really question this choice—when it’s a choice and money isn’t a factor—is because it’s an easy way to reduce risk. Yes, it’s a small risk, but it’s enough of a risk that the expert opinion on it is unanimous and clear as day. Something like whether to work is much more complicated. This is an easy one.

Anonymous wrote:You can get annoyed at me for this, but I have never understood it and have to ask. Unless you have to take the flight and absolutely cannot afford another seat, why do you fly with your infant as a lap child? The FAA is crystal clear that it is not safe. The reason it’s allowed is because the FAA knows people would balk at the requirement and not fly as much. The airline lobby is strong.

This article includes statements from the FAA making that argument: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.cbsnews.com/amp/news/should-small-children-have-their-own-plane-seats/

So why do you do it?

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Anonymous wrote:I just find it odd that OP is so nit picky about this one decision but won’t acknowledge the risks she takes by driving, putting a child in daycare, etc. yes the risks are small but so is the risk of a lap baby on a plane. Get over yourself or at least be honest.

It’s about CHOICE. I have to work, so kid goes to daycare. We have to drive (although not to daycare so we walk). When I have no choice, I take the risk. When we go on a plane we have a choice and I choose the safer option.

Ha, you’re still making choices. Are you really that dense? You probably don’t HAVE to work- you choose to do you can provide better for your family. I get it, I do too. Plenty of people make it without cars too, but they certainly make things easier in most parts of the US.

Again, assumptions. We live in a place where we rarely need our car, but for many people it’s really not a choice. It’s certainly less of a choice than whether to buy a seat for your kid.

More than 4,000 pedestrians are killed in accidents each year, compared to about 100 people killed in airplane accidents, and most of those 100 are flying in small private plane.

You are making choices. If you're in a 2 income family, you have decided that certain things in life are worth the risk of walking with your child to daycare every day, maybe those things are what you consider "needs" like owning your own home, or having health insurance, or putting money away for retirement, but the reality is that other people do go without them and stay home. On the other hand, if another family choose to take a far tinier risk, by an enormous factor, so they can put money towards other things, you judge them.

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Anonymous wrote:I just find it odd that OP is so nit picky about this one decision but won’t acknowledge the risks she takes by driving, putting a child in daycare, etc. yes the risks are small but so is the risk of a lap baby on a plane. Get over yourself or at least be honest.

It’s about CHOICE. I have to work, so kid goes to daycare. We have to drive (although not to daycare so we walk). When I have no choice, I take the risk. When we go on a plane we have a choice and I choose the safer option.

Ha, you’re still making choices. Are you really that dense? You probably don’t HAVE to work- you choose to do you can provide better for your family. I get it, I do too. Plenty of people make it without cars too, but they certainly make things easier in most parts of the US.

Again, assumptions. We live in a place where we rarely need our car, but for many people it’s really not a choice. It’s certainly less of a choice than whether to buy a seat for your kid.

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Anonymous wrote:I just find it odd that OP is so nit picky about this one decision but won’t acknowledge the risks she takes by driving, putting a child in daycare, etc. yes the risks are small but so is the risk of a lap baby on a plane. Get over yourself or at least be honest.

It’s about CHOICE. I have to work, so kid goes to daycare. We have to drive (although not to daycare so we walk). When I have no choice, I take the risk. When we go on a plane we have a choice and I choose the safer option.

Ha, you’re still making choices. Are you really that dense? You probably don’t HAVE to work- you choose to do you can provide better for your family. I get it, I do too. Plenty of people make it without cars too, but they certainly make things easier in most parts of the US.