Anonymous wrote:If you want to take a nice vacation, then research one, make a budget, and save for it.
Cut corners wherever you can and sock away money for travel. That's what we do.
Friends and family regularly comment that "it must be nice to travel" since my family takes trips regularly. We aren't rich, so we proactively save so we can travel. That means we will skip going on date night or minimize restaurant meals...and instead throw whatever we might have spent on that into the vacation jar.
We know lots of people who pay a small fortune to go to OC or Bethany for a week. You could go to Florida, Mexico or a cruise for the same amount.
I know two families that essentially stopped doing Christmas gifts once their kids hit 7th grade and instead travel to Europe or the Caribbean for Christmas and New Years.
I know lots of couples who stopped exchanging gifts with each other for birthdays and holidays and instead put that money towards the vacation fund.
If you want to travel, there are ways to save up to do it.
I had to laugh at this as a "Poor" who knows lots of other poors. We haven't exchanged gifts with each other since before kids. No room in the budget because we had to buy gifts for the kids
