Anonymous
Post 01/28/2017 21:34     Subject: can anyone who only has boys ACTUALLY admit they wish they had a girl?

I really wanted a lovely daughter first, truth be told. And was thrilled when she arrived. And then I wanted a sweet little boy. He came and made our little family complete.
Happy to have one of each.
Anonymous
Post 01/28/2017 20:50     Subject: Re:can anyone who only has boys ACTUALLY admit they wish they had a girl?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I love having a boy, and I secretly feel sorry for parents with only girls.


+1

Me too

And we feel sorry for you. You have my pity and sympathy
Anonymous
Post 01/28/2017 20:47     Subject: Re:can anyone who only has boys ACTUALLY admit they wish they had a girl?

I think most people love the kids they get and are happy with their lives.

One of the things that has to happen for parents is that they stop being in love with their fantasy of being a parent and learn to love the family that they got.
Anonymous
Post 01/28/2017 18:53     Subject: can anyone who only has boys ACTUALLY admit they wish they had a girl?

I always thought I wanted one of each. After having my son, I realized I would be perfectly happy having both boys (we knew we were done at 2). Ended up having a girl but would have been perfectly happy with 2 boys.
Anonymous
Post 01/28/2017 18:22     Subject: Re:can anyone who only has boys ACTUALLY admit they wish they had a girl?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I love having a boy, and I secretly feel sorry for parents with only girls.


+1

Me too


Get over yourselves. No one needs or wants your pity.
Anonymous
Post 01/28/2017 17:51     Subject: can anyone who only has boys ACTUALLY admit they wish they had a girl?

Wow, there's some profound gender self loathing on this thread. Paging the nearest therapist, much?
It's wonderful to love and celebrate the gender of the child you were blessed with.
It's not okay to be so filled with seething resentment over whatever happened to make you dislike your own gender that you make biased, sweeping and embittered comments about that gender.
Get a grip and some therapy.
Anonymous
Post 01/28/2017 17:43     Subject: can anyone who only has boys ACTUALLY admit they wish they had a girl?

Anonymous wrote:Well my daughter died so of course I miss her.


I am very sorry this happened to you and your family.
Anonymous
Post 01/28/2017 16:50     Subject: Re:can anyone who only has boys ACTUALLY admit they wish they had a girl?

Anonymous wrote:I love having a boy, and I secretly feel sorry for parents with only girls.


Bless.Your. Heart. Please don't feel sorry for me. I love my two girls! Plus, I have five cats and a dog...all girls and we love it. Before anyone says we are crazy cat people we are fostering three of them.
Anonymous
Post 01/28/2017 16:45     Subject: can anyone who only has boys ACTUALLY admit they wish they had a girl?

Well my daughter died so of course I miss her.
Anonymous
Post 01/28/2017 11:31     Subject: can anyone who only has boys ACTUALLY admit they wish they had a girl?

Anonymous wrote:I have boys.

It's not that I want a girl because I don't want anymore children. It's that they aren't wired like me at all and it would be nice to have another female, albeit a child, in the house with me. It's all good here but it's all sports, loud, fussing, and boy.

Bytheway, the clothes are so ugly after about age 5 for boys! And dress clothes? No one dresses a young boy anymore but us?


I guess this goes to show how individual all of this is, because I couldn't disagree more with ALL of this.
Anonymous
Post 01/28/2017 11:27     Subject: Re:can anyone who only has boys ACTUALLY admit they wish they had a girl?

Anonymous wrote:I love having a boy, and I secretly feel sorry for parents with only girls.


+1

Me too
Anonymous
Post 01/28/2017 10:49     Subject: Re:can anyone who only has boys ACTUALLY admit they wish they had a girl?

I love having a boy, and I secretly feel sorry for parents with only girls.
Anonymous
Post 01/27/2017 23:21     Subject: can anyone who only has boys ACTUALLY admit they wish they had a girl?

I have boys.

It's not that I want a girl because I don't want anymore children. It's that they aren't wired like me at all and it would be nice to have another female, albeit a child, in the house with me. It's all good here but it's all sports, loud, fussing, and boy.

Bytheway, the clothes are so ugly after about age 5 for boys! And dress clothes? No one dresses a young boy anymore but us?
Anonymous
Post 01/26/2017 00:16     Subject: can anyone who only has boys ACTUALLY admit they wish they had a girl?

Anonymous wrote:I'm the PP who made the nasty comment about a girl screaming I hate you and finding self worth through a boyfriend. What a horrible generalization and assumption, right? Kind of like the original poster. #caseinpoint

I love my boys and will never admit to wanting a girl because, from the bottom, of my heart, I don't.

This entire post is idiotic and offensive to those mothers that have boys and are perfectly content with that.

I really don't envy you and your girls - for many reasons.



You seem to have quite a chip on your shoulder.
Anonymous
Post 01/26/2017 00:14     Subject: can anyone who only has boys ACTUALLY admit they wish they had a girl?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'd prefer same sex siblings regardless of gender.


Me too.


Me too. I have a daughter (I really wanted a girl and am so happy she came into our lives) and I'm pregnant again and hoping for another girl.