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Anonymous wrote:Runner PP here. I waited for an opportunity to look through his phone. It actually took like 9 days because he was never without his phone. I didn't notice this before of course. Then I just had a few seconds so I just memorized the number on the call log real quick. Then I took the number and did the reverse look up online and figured out her name eventually. Took awhile. Then I face booked her name and found out she worked for the same company DH did. So then I sat on that info for awhile. Didn't really know what I wanted. Separated my money a little more, started taking 20 or 40 bucks out via cash back debt at the grocery store or CVS, made a cash pile. I worked but at the time made considerably less so I just started hoarding money and made a little mental plan. Then he got a flat tire in a random area of town. He called me to pick him up with some lame story. Before I went out there I looked up her address and what do u know…right near the flat tire. When I picked him up I told him. Theres about 49586920 more paragraphs of detail but its all history now. We did divorce and they are together. My kids love her… my one daughter raves and raves how pretty she is. Ugh. No words.

You need to tell your kids that this is disloyal. They need to learn empathy.

No. Do not put your children in the middle of this.

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Anonymous wrote:Runner PP here. I waited for an opportunity to look through his phone. It actually took like 9 days because he was never without his phone. I didn't notice this before of course. Then I just had a few seconds so I just memorized the number on the call log real quick. Then I took the number and did the reverse look up online and figured out her name eventually. Took awhile. Then I face booked her name and found out she worked for the same company DH did. So then I sat on that info for awhile. Didn't really know what I wanted. Separated my money a little more, started taking 20 or 40 bucks out via cash back debt at the grocery store or CVS, made a cash pile. I worked but at the time made considerably less so I just started hoarding money and made a little mental plan. Then he got a flat tire in a random area of town. He called me to pick him up with some lame story. Before I went out there I looked up her address and what do u know…right near the flat tire. When I picked him up I told him. Theres about 49586920 more paragraphs of detail but its all history now. We did divorce and they are together. My kids love her… my one daughter raves and raves how pretty she is. Ugh. No words.

You need to tell your kids that this is disloyal. They need to learn empathy.

Anonymous wrote:Runner PP here. I waited for an opportunity to look through his phone. It actually took like 9 days because he was never without his phone. I didn't notice this before of course. Then I just had a few seconds so I just memorized the number on the call log real quick. Then I took the number and did the reverse look up online and figured out her name eventually. Took awhile. Then I face booked her name and found out she worked for the same company DH did. So then I sat on that info for awhile. Didn't really know what I wanted. Separated my money a little more, started taking 20 or 40 bucks out via cash back debt at the grocery store or CVS, made a cash pile. I worked but at the time made considerably less so I just started hoarding money and made a little mental plan. Then he got a flat tire in a random area of town. He called me to pick him up with some lame story. Before I went out there I looked up her address and what do u know…right near the flat tire. When I picked him up I told him. Theres about 49586920 more paragraphs of detail but its all history now. We did divorce and they are together. My kids love her… my one daughter raves and raves how pretty she is. Ugh. No words.

Anonymous wrote:Found the bill for the abortion.

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Anonymous wrote:Found out totally by accident despite my own unwillingness to accept the signs. And there were plenty.

She had one of those old GPS units that you stuck in the window. I was dropping off her car for service and took the GPS out to take it with me. Noticed that one of the recent searches was for an odd address in Fredricksburg. Looked it up online and discovered that it was a hotel. Started noticing that she took her phone with her everywhere in the house. She left the room – the phone went with her. Also noticed that sometimes in the middle of the day, she was unreachable. Got a call from her boss asking if I knew where she was – when she had told me she was going to work. I was still in denial and did not mention it or confront her. The wake up call was, unbeknownst to her, a friend of mine seeing her getting cozy with a guy in a hotel restaurant downtown. He texted me a pic. Also texted me a pic of them walking to the hotel elevator about 20 minutes later. I can be petty so I texted her the pics with a text “Having fun?” I turned my phone off. Turned it on later with about 10 increasingly frantic voicemails ranging from outrage at my snooping to crying apologies. I got home late that night – she waited up and confessed everything. It was an old flame. We went to counseling but eventually divorced.

Is she still with that guy?

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Anonymous wrote:Found out totally by accident despite my own unwillingness to accept the signs. And there were plenty.

She had one of those old GPS units that you stuck in the window. I was dropping off her car for service and took the GPS out to take it with me. Noticed that one of the recent searches was for an odd address in Fredricksburg. Looked it up online and discovered that it was a hotel. Started noticing that she took her phone with her everywhere in the house. She left the room – the phone went with her. Also noticed that sometimes in the middle of the day, she was unreachable. Got a call from her boss asking if I knew where she was – when she had told me she was going to work. I was still in denial and did not mention it or confront her. The wake up call was, unbeknownst to her, a friend of mine seeing her getting cozy with a guy in a hotel restaurant downtown. He texted me a pic. Also texted me a pic of them walking to the hotel elevator about 20 minutes later. I can be petty so I texted her the pics with a text “Having fun?” I turned my phone off. Turned it on later with about 10 increasingly frantic voicemails ranging from outrage at my snooping to crying apologies. I got home late that night – she waited up and confessed everything. It was an old flame. We went to counseling but eventually divorced.

Is she still with that guy?

Anonymous wrote:Found out totally by accident despite my own unwillingness to accept the signs. And there were plenty.

She had one of those old GPS units that you stuck in the window. I was dropping off her car for service and took the GPS out to take it with me. Noticed that one of the recent searches was for an odd address in Fredricksburg. Looked it up online and discovered that it was a hotel. Started noticing that she took her phone with her everywhere in the house. She left the room – the phone went with her. Also noticed that sometimes in the middle of the day, she was unreachable. Got a call from her boss asking if I knew where she was – when she had told me she was going to work. I was still in denial and did not mention it or confront her. The wake up call was, unbeknownst to her, a friend of mine seeing her getting cozy with a guy in a hotel restaurant downtown. He texted me a pic. Also texted me a pic of them walking to the hotel elevator about 20 minutes later. I can be petty so I texted her the pics with a text “Having fun?” I turned my phone off. Turned it on later with about 10 increasingly frantic voicemails ranging from outrage at my snooping to crying apologies. I got home late that night – she waited up and confessed everything. It was an old flame. We went to counseling but eventually divorced.