Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Depends on your social circle. In upper income areas going to UVa is meh... it's all about bragging about kids at an elite private or out of state public e.g. Michigan, Berkeley.
+1 In-state public colleges are basically middle class feeders. The wealthy send their kids out of state to broaden their horizons, typically to private colleges. It's not difficult for a normal upper middle class kid to get into a state flagship.
True.
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Fwiw, we are saving as much as we can with the motivation of being able to send our kids to their first choice private school.
This is insane. Of course it's difficult for "normal" upper middle class kids to get into UVA.
What's insane about wanting to be able to pay for my DC's dream school experience? I want them to be able to go away to school and have the traditional, exciting experience. Small class sizes, attentive professors, beautiful campus, study abroad, opportunity to reinvent themselves if they wish. The whole nine yards. UVA is a good school, I'm not knocking it. I'm sure DC will apply and consider it. They would probably like it more if we didn't live in VA. But from my own experience, I know it is not considered "exciting" to teens in NoVa. It just isn't. It's high school 2.0.
It's a fine school if you don't have the money to pay for private but we do so we have more options. Sorry if that rubs you the wrong way.
Anonymous wrote:Is it really difficult to get into UVA? Looks like a 40% acceptance rate in-state?
Anonymous wrote:Is it really difficult to get into UVA? Looks like a 40% acceptance rate in-state?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:UVA vs Georgetown is one thing. We were surprised to find colleagues who make very high incomes make their kids go to UMD over Georgetown.
Why is that surprising if they live in UMD? Then they're not eligible for UVA in state tuition and it's harder to get into OOS.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Depends on your social circle. In upper income areas going to UVa is meh... it's all about bragging about kids at an elite private or out of state public e.g. Michigan, Berkeley.
+1 In-state public colleges are basically middle class feeders. The wealthy send their kids out of state to broaden their horizons, typically to private colleges. It's not difficult for a normal upper middle class kid to get into a state flagship.
True.
+ 2
Fwiw, we are saving as much as we can with the motivation of being able to send our kids to their first choice private school.
This is insane. Of course it's difficult for "normal" upper middle class kids to get into UVA.
What's insane about wanting to be able to pay for my DC's dream school experience? I want them to be able to go away to school and have the traditional, exciting experience. Small class sizes, attentive professors, beautiful campus, study abroad, opportunity to reinvent themselves if they wish. The whole nine yards. UVA is a good school, I'm not knocking it. I'm sure DC will apply and consider it. They would probably like it more if we didn't live in VA. But from my own experience, I know it is not considered "exciting" to teens in NoVa. It just isn't. It's high school 2.0.
It's a fine school if you don't have the money to pay for private but we do so we have more options. Sorry if that rubs you the wrong way.
NP. You sound defensive.
Anonymous wrote:UVA vs Georgetown is one thing. We were surprised to find colleagues who make very high incomes make their kids go to UMD over Georgetown.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Depends on your social circle. In upper income areas going to UVa is meh... it's all about bragging about kids at an elite private or out of state public e.g. Michigan, Berkeley.
+1 In-state public colleges are basically middle class feeders. The wealthy send their kids out of state to broaden their horizons, typically to private colleges. It's not difficult for a normal upper middle class kid to get into a state flagship.
True.
+ 2
Fwiw, we are saving as much as we can with the motivation of being able to send our kids to their first choice private school.
This is insane. Of course it's difficult for "normal" upper middle class kids to get into UVA.
What's insane about wanting to be able to pay for my DC's dream school experience? I want them to be able to go away to school and have the traditional, exciting experience. Small class sizes, attentive professors, beautiful campus, study abroad, opportunity to reinvent themselves if they wish. The whole nine yards. UVA is a good school, I'm not knocking it. I'm sure DC will apply and consider it. They would probably like it more if we didn't live in VA. But from my own experience, I know it is not considered "exciting" to teens in NoVa. It just isn't. It's high school 2.0.
It's a fine school if you don't have the money to pay for private but we do so we have more options. Sorry if that rubs you the wrong way.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Depends on your social circle. In upper income areas going to UVa is meh... it's all about bragging about kids at an elite private or out of state public e.g. Michigan, Berkeley.
+1 In-state public colleges are basically middle class feeders. The wealthy send their kids out of state to broaden their horizons, typically to private colleges. It's not difficult for a normal upper middle class kid to get into a state flagship.
True.
+ 2
Fwiw, we are saving as much as we can with the motivation of being able to send our kids to their first choice private school.
This is insane. Of course it's difficult for "normal" upper middle class kids to get into UVA.
What's insane about wanting to be able to pay for my DC's dream school experience? I want them to be able to go away to school and have the traditional, exciting experience. Small class sizes, attentive professors, beautiful campus, study abroad, opportunity to reinvent themselves if they wish. The whole nine yards. UVA is a good school, I'm not knocking it. I'm sure DC will apply and consider it. They would probably like it more if we didn't live in VA. But from my own experience, I know it is not considered "exciting" to teens in NoVa. It just isn't. It's high school 2.0.
It's a fine school if you don't have the money to pay for private but we do so we have more options. Sorry if that rubs you the wrong way.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Depends on your social circle. In upper income areas going to UVa is meh... it's all about bragging about kids at an elite private or out of state public e.g. Michigan, Berkeley.
+1 In-state public colleges are basically middle class feeders. The wealthy send their kids out of state to broaden their horizons, typically to private colleges. It's not difficult for a normal upper middle class kid to get into a state flagship.
True.
+ 2
Fwiw, we are saving as much as we can with the motivation of being able to send our kids to their first choice private school.
This is insane. Of course it's difficult for "normal" upper middle class kids to get into UVA.
Anonymous wrote:Unless you've got deep pockets, or are going into a *very* specific program that Georgetown smokes UVA at, there's no way that Georgetown is worth 140K over UVA.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Unless you've got deep pockets, or are going into a *very* specific program that Georgetown smokes UVA at, there's no way that Georgetown is worth 140K over UVA.
Only middle to upper middle class people say this. GU is an incomparably different experience.