Anonymous wrote:Gluten free would not be the end of the world. But gluten free, cabin and kitchen sanitized, new baby, sick nephew, far from stores, cooking new foods, and panicky parents of a 2 year old does not sound like a "vacation" to me.

Anonymous wrote:Go to Target. Buy all the gf stuff you can. I just browsed their website, and there are lots of options. There are gf versions of pancake mix, Cheerios and other cereals, cookie mix, chicken nuggets and tenders, crackers, cheese puffs/Pirate Booty, fruit snacks, hot dog and hamburger buns, frozen waffles, corn dogs, pizza crust, granola bars, lunch meat, Thai/Indian simmer sauces, french fries, breakfast sausage, etc.

Other foods are naturally gluten free: tortillas, popcorn, cheese, eggs, fruit, vegetables, some soups, rice noodles, taco shells, yogurt, ice cream bars, tuna fish.

Buy individual microwaveable cups of macaroni and cheese, noodle bowls, and soups, so that you can heat and eat them without contaminating any dishes.

I might not be thrilled, but really, gluten-free for a week isn't the end of the world.

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Anonymous wrote:From the SIL POV, if you are 4.5 hours from civilization, where is the nearest hospital? If she is newly diagnosed, she may be worried if there is cross contamination it's far to get her two year old to a medical facility.

gluten exposure for someone with celiac disease doesn't cause anaphylactic shock -- it isn't an allergy. It causes damage to the gastrointestinal system and can cause symptoms such as muscle and body aches, joint pain, fatigue, bloating and gas, nausea, stomach cramps, constipation, diarrhea, rashes, headaches, depression, brain fog and irritability, which can last for a day or more like a week to get back to normal. But you don't need to go to the hospital.

I agree that the child won't need urgent immediate medical care like a child with an allergy. However, my understanding is that the symptoms, particularly those of newly diagnoses patients whose intestinal damage is still healing, can last longer than a week.

The young kids I know who have been diagnosed with celiac were so sick before diagnosis that doctors were suggesting life threatening conditions like cancer or cystic fibrosis. In addition to feeling lousy, kids with celiac stop growing and learning. Healing this child's intestines so he doesn't miss this window for brain and body growth is a higher priority than it would be for an adult with the same diagnosis.

I should note that the reason I know a number of kids with celiac is that I'm a special ed teacher, and kids with celiac tend to be over represented in special education classrooms because the "brain fog" can seriously impact learning.

Lap of celiac here. I think your perception may be biased by the subset of celiacs you are seeing. It sounds like you are seeing the kids with the severest symptoms. My kid had a persistent stomach ache eczema patches, and a somewhat distended belly. But absolutely no FTT (opposite really) or severe manifestations. Fairly certain she never would have been diagnosed without the new blood tests as nobody expected celiac from her constellation of symptoms, and she wasn't anywhere near sick enough to go for an endoscopy without that positive bloodwork.

Now it sounds like the 2 yo in OPs case may be on the sicker end. But just wanted to point out that celiac has historically been way under diagnosed because so many folks have more silent or minimal symptoms.

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Anonymous wrote:From the SIL POV, if you are 4.5 hours from civilization, where is the nearest hospital? If she is newly diagnosed, she may be worried if there is cross contamination it's far to get her two year old to a medical facility.

gluten exposure for someone with celiac disease doesn't cause anaphylactic shock -- it isn't an allergy. It causes damage to the gastrointestinal system and can cause symptoms such as muscle and body aches, joint pain, fatigue, bloating and gas, nausea, stomach cramps, constipation, diarrhea, rashes, headaches, depression, brain fog and irritability, which can last for a day or more like a week to get back to normal. But you don't need to go to the hospital.

I agree that the child won't need urgent immediate medical care like a child with an allergy. However, my understanding is that the symptoms, particularly those of newly diagnoses patients whose intestinal damage is still healing, can last longer than a week.

The young kids I know who have been diagnosed with celiac were so sick before diagnosis that doctors were suggesting life threatening conditions like cancer or cystic fibrosis. In addition to feeling lousy, kids with celiac stop growing and learning. Healing this child's intestines so he doesn't miss this window for brain and body growth is a higher priority than it would be for an adult with the same diagnosis.

I should note that the reason I know a number of kids with celiac is that I'm a special ed teacher, and kids with celiac tend to be over represented in special education classrooms because the "brain fog" can seriously impact learning.

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Anonymous wrote:From the SIL POV, if you are 4.5 hours from civilization, where is the nearest hospital? If she is newly diagnosed, she may be worried if there is cross contamination it's far to get her two year old to a medical facility.

gluten exposure for someone with celiac disease doesn't cause anaphylactic shock -- it isn't an allergy. It causes damage to the gastrointestinal system and can cause symptoms such as muscle and body aches, joint pain, fatigue, bloating and gas, nausea, stomach cramps, constipation, diarrhea, rashes, headaches, depression, brain fog and irritability, which can last for a day or more like a week to get back to normal. But you don't need to go to the hospital.

Anonymous wrote:Holy jebus. I have read the entire thread.

There is no way in hell I would not be absolutely, perfectly, sincerely, and abashedly embarrassed to have to cancel three days before because -- wouldn't you know it, life always throws things at you like this -- seems like we've picked up the stomach bug going around. It's terrible. DH and I will feel queasy, and I will have been around people who've been vomiting [I'm sure they've vomited before at some point, at least someone I've seen recently]. Heavens, we can't bring that to a remote place with the Grandma and the new baby. So very very sorry. We'll see if we can pay a fee and use the tickets another time. Unfortunately, we won't make it at the same times as everyone else, but at least we'll see Grandma, and we'll try to make it out to see the in-laws and cousins (and new baby!) as soon as we can. Of course we will stay in a hotel -- you don't need to deal with visitors with a new baby! The kids will love camping out in a hotel room, but we'll have such an amazing time in between meals. It will be great.

So very, very sorry. We feel terrible about letting you down. Gosh, life sure is complicated. Thank you for understanding.

Anonymous wrote:From the SIL POV, if you are 4.5 hours from civilization, where is the nearest hospital? If she is newly diagnosed, she may be worried if there is cross contamination it's far to get her two year old to a medical facility.

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Anonymous wrote:Why do PPs keep bringing up two kitchens? OP said that the second kitchen is a kitchenette, with just a microwave for food prep. That's not sufficient for either family. I think some compromise on OP's side will be the only way to go.

The only full kitchen stays GF. There are plenty of GF options for kid friendly favorites, and OP should just substitute the GF options for a week for most meals. It's a good life learning lesson for kids that traveling means food can be different. Of course her kids won't starve with GF substitutes for a week. The celiac kids needs are more important.

However, if OP must have gluten bread and pb&j or anything else that can cross contaminate, she should store these things in the kitchenette and prepare food there. Obviously, she can only do microwave meals there, so it seems logical to keep it simple.

OP here - because I don't have access to the kitchenette because BIL and SIL have reserved the guest cabin. I would do this in a heartbeat and wouldn't have even posted if I were able to use the kitchenette. For all you who say 'what if you travel out of the country' - we've been out of the country 5 times with our kids, and I just bring a cooler/ bag with the foods they will eat. They can last for a week on pb& j - but I haven't found any GF bread that I can get past any of us. I actually bought a bunch of stuff to try (noodles, bread, etc) so it isn't as if I am not trying, but we haven't had much success and I don't want to spend 5 days (not to mention thousands in plane tix and rental car) with hungry grumpy kids if I can find a reasonable way to bridge this gap.

Anonymous wrote:I know many people with Celiac and have two in my own family. No "require" a gluten-free kitchen. For most cross-contamination won't pose much of a threat, as the damage from gluten is cumulative. Cross-Contamination is only a real risk for those with the severest of Celiac.