Anonymous wrote:OT: So out of the sack of insecure walruses barking on this thread, how many also refused to have any bridesmaids in their wedding who were thinner or otherwise more attractive than them?
Anonymous wrote:Too much temptation. It is late at night and I am thinking about having a snack. There is no way I am going to drive to the supermarket to buy some Oreos but if there were some in my cupboard I might be tempted to have a couple right now. Knowing how much I love Oreos I don't keep any at home because I have weak moments. Likewise I don't think my DH would ever cheat on me but there is no way I am going to hire someone young and hot and take a chance.
Anonymous wrote:OT: So out of the sack of insecure walruses barking on this thread, how many also refused to have any bridesmaids in their wedding who were thinner or otherwise more attractive than them?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Too much temptation. It is late at night and I am thinking about having a snack. There is no way I am going to drive to the supermarket to buy some Oreos but if there were some in my cupboard I might be tempted to have a couple right now. Knowing how much I love Oreos I don't keep any at home because I have weak moments. Likewise I don't think my DH would ever cheat on me but there is no way I am going to hire someone young and hot and take a chance.
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Anonymous wrote:Too much temptation. It is late at night and I am thinking about having a snack. There is no way I am going to drive to the supermarket to buy some Oreos but if there were some in my cupboard I might be tempted to have a couple right now. Knowing how much I love Oreos I don't keep any at home because I have weak moments. Likewise I don't think my DH would ever cheat on me but there is no way I am going to hire someone young and hot and take a chance.
Anonymous wrote:I am a very attractive 24 year old live in nanny. I adore the children I care for and have great respect for my landlords. I adore my landlady and she is the kindest most sweetest woman around. She and her husband are still very in love and demonstrate to me what a happy functioning marriage looks like. Her husband is an attractive man in his early 40s and I have never ever even thought of him in that way. It's so gross! In fact I am hyper vigilant about keeping peace in the house and go out of my way not to look sexy or something around him. I usually pull my hair back and have no make up on and wear unflattering clothes while on my shift. I know how people perceive young attractive nannies and I almost overcompensate by looking unattractive haha.
Anonymous wrote:Of course - I hired two nannies who were beautiful, but smart too. One is in law school at Yale now. My DD was blessed to have her. You should do what's best for your kids!
Anonymous wrote:I agree. Its a big no. Its also about someone looking after your kids and seeming maternal with them. If they are already physically attractive, surely this is going to make them more so?
Didn't Robin Williams marry the nanny? His 2nd of 3 wives?