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Anonymous wrote:I noticed that I didn't have to pay tuition.

You do every month in property tax and your mortgage.

Anonymous wrote:I guess this just serves to demonstrate the folly of buying in a neighborhood with mediocre schools because you plan on sending your kid to private so "quality of schools isn't a factor" and you really want that really big house. Circumstances change, private school is no longer an option, and you're stuck in a mediocre school.

We bought our house for the quality of the schools, and none of what the OP and other private-schoolers have described has been the case for us. Our office staff is warm, welcoming and helpful. Elementary-age teachers (which is all we've been through so far), especially kindergarten, have bent over backwards to be positive and get kids excited about the beginning of school. I've gotten to know many of the other parents and made some good friends. And my kids are doing great, both academically and socially.

So basically, this thread is telling me there's no reason for me to consider private. Woohoo for money in the bank!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I guess this just serves to demonstrate the folly of buying in a neighborhood with mediocre schools because you plan on sending your kid to private so "quality of schools isn't a factor" and you really want that really big house. Circumstances change, private school is no longer an option, and you're stuck in a mediocre school.

We bought our house for the quality of the schools, and none of what the OP and other private-schoolers have described has been the case for us. Our office staff is warm, welcoming and helpful. Elementary-age teachers (which is all we've been through so far), especially kindergarten, have bent over backwards to be positive and get kids excited about the beginning of school. I've gotten to know many of the other parents and made some good friends. And my kids are doing great, both academically and socially.

So basically, this thread is telling me there's no reason for me to consider private. Woohoo for money in the bank!

And changes happen to school boundaries also. Curriculum changes constantly happen also like common core....I wonder what the new thing will be in five years. The chosen neighborhood schools may also not turn out to be a good fit for a child. Buying a house for schools is no guarantee either. Because you chose a private and it didn't work out for whatever reason does not mean public is your next option. Selecting a different private school is the next option. There are many to choose from and we like having a choice in the matter as our kids grow and their strengths and weaknesses become apparent versus preselecting a zoned k to 12 while they are infants or before they are born.

Anonymous wrote:We had small classes in private school too, but the teaching was so poor that I had to reteach everything at home.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I noticed that I didn't have to pay tuition.

You do every month in property tax and your mortgage.

By that argument a private parent pays twice.

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Anonymous wrote:The negativity is a real issue. We are at a really good public school with smiling teachers, administrators, etc. and a high quality of teaching but the written communication that comes from the school is terrible. BUT it was really shocking to me how much of the text in our back to school packet dealt with do not do this and do not do that. I thought the first rule of discipline and good teaching was to always be positive? Is it just that the teachers/administrators don't know how to write?

I would guess it's more that they have lots and lots of experience of parents ignoring the rules. So they want to make them clear and get it up front so there is no confusion, excuses like " I didn't see it".

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I noticed that I didn't have to pay tuition.

You do every month in property tax and your mortgage.

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Anonymous wrote:Well, at our public school, many parents know each other, the staff are very pleasant and friendly, and they even had a welcome back "breakfast" for parents in the gym after drop off (where we got to walk our kids to their classes). So you can't assume all public schools are the same.

Name the city and state where this school is located.

I'm not the quoted poster, but our MCPS elementary school does the same thing.

Anonymous wrote:I guess this just serves to demonstrate the folly of buying in a neighborhood with mediocre schools because you plan on sending your kid to private so "quality of schools isn't a factor" and you really want that really big house. Circumstances change, private school is no longer an option, and you're stuck in a mediocre school.

We bought our house for the quality of the schools, and none of what the OP and other private-schoolers have described has been the case for us. Our office staff is warm, welcoming and helpful. Elementary-age teachers (which is all we've been through so far), especially kindergarten, have bent over backwards to be positive and get kids excited about the beginning of school. I've gotten to know many of the other parents and made some good friends. And my kids are doing great, both academically and socially.

So basically, this thread is telling me there's no reason for me to consider private. Woohoo for money in the bank!

Anonymous wrote:I noticed that I didn't have to pay tuition.

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Public's government regulations include mandatory master's degrees and teachers certifications. Privates have no such requirement. So many, many private school teachers couldn't teach in public.

But let's be candid here: a huge percentage of these masters degrees ^^ are distance learning degrees from online-only "universities", or the Continuing Education wing of [not at all competitive] State U. And they're completed in < 13 months. Whoop de Do.

Do you have some data to prove that claim? I am a public-school teacher with a Master's Degree from a competitive university. Of the 70-some teachers at my school, the majority also have Master's Degrees. None of their degrees are from distance-learning universities.

NP. I can't prove it, but every single year we get a "intro" letter from the teacher saying "I'm so and so and I'll be your child's 2nd grade teacher." Usually they also include "I received my bachelor's in elementary education from X" and my masters from X" and it's almost always "a master's in educational leadership from Towson University" or "master's in educational technology from UMBC" or something along those lines. Sorry, I'm not impressed.

I don't get it. Are Towson University and UMBC not good enough for you, or are the master's in educational leadership and educational technology not good enough for you, or both? Where do you think your children's teachers should get their master's degrees from, and what do you think they should get them in?

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Why are public school parents so defensive?

What are private-school parents so high-maintenance?

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Anonymous wrote:For us the start of public school felt like a slap in the face. It did get a little better as the year went on - met plenty of very nice parents and kids - but you kind of have to "suck it up" to get through a lot of it (the take or leave attitude of the administration, silly grading, unwelcoming front desk, poor communications, etc). It is not just the parents - kids who have experienced a good-fit private who switch to an average public do pick up on these things as well.

That front desk thing...I just hope none of that impertinence rubs off on DD. Teachers and administrators need to remember that they are setting an example for our kids.

As a previous poster said, both systems, public and private, have a ting or two to learn from each other.