Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Here's what is annoying to me -- I'm one of those DWs with a stretched out vag from one kid, an ugly c-section scar from another, horrible stretch marks across my stomach and thighs from carrying those children and boobs that have gone to hell from a year of nursing each. I'm also exhausted from working full time and running around after two young kids. My DH could easily have affairs despite becoming a parent, especially since he travels so often for work. And I wouldn't blame him since we rarely have sex any more. Me, not so much even though I'd be interested. I don't know many mothers of young children who have the time even if their body had bounced right back. Not fair.
Your lifestyle is completely selfish!
Stop exhausting yourself running after the 2 kids.
Instead, get out of the house and do some real exercise at the gym.
Control your diet and get back into shape.
And most importantly: fuck your husband regularly.
I do all this. He still cheated.
I work full- time. I workout 6 days per week. I have zero stretch marks, no c-sections. I am hot , have regular sex. He still cheated.
Why do you people always blame the wife?
It is not so simple to always blame the DW or the DH.. In my situation my DW checked out of our marriage.
She gained weight but I did not care. I help around the house. I help with the kids... I don't complain when she is a SAHM and does not cook. I didn't complain when we go several year without sex. The last time we had sex was about 10 years ago... And I finally told her that I was tired of the lack of affection and lack of sex.. 1.5 years ago and then again 1 year ago... I had never cheated... But I got involved with someone and we really connected... Who fault was it? I don't think that my DW really loved me when we got married and she may be asexual...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Here's what is annoying to me -- I'm one of those DWs with a stretched out vag from one kid, an ugly c-section scar from another, horrible stretch marks across my stomach and thighs from carrying those children and boobs that have gone to hell from a year of nursing each. I'm also exhausted from working full time and running around after two young kids. My DH could easily have affairs despite becoming a parent, especially since he travels so often for work. And I wouldn't blame him since we rarely have sex any more. Me, not so much even though I'd be interested. I don't know many mothers of young children who have the time even if their body had bounced right back. Not fair.
Your lifestyle is completely selfish!
Stop exhausting yourself running after the 2 kids.
Instead, get out of the house and do some real exercise at the gym.
Control your diet and get back into shape.
And most importantly: fuck your husband regularly.
I do all this. He still cheated.
I work full- time. I workout 6 days per week. I have zero stretch marks, no c-sections. I am hot , have regular sex. He still cheated.
Why do you people always blame the wife?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Here's what is annoying to me -- I'm one of those DWs with a stretched out vag from one kid, an ugly c-section scar from another, horrible stretch marks across my stomach and thighs from carrying those children and boobs that have gone to hell from a year of nursing each. I'm also exhausted from working full time and running around after two young kids. My DH could easily have affairs despite becoming a parent, especially since he travels so often for work. And I wouldn't blame him since we rarely have sex any more. Me, not so much even though I'd be interested. I don't know many mothers of young children who have the time even if their body had bounced right back. Not fair.
Your lifestyle is completely selfish!
Stop exhausting yourself running after the 2 kids.
Instead, get out of the house and do some real exercise at the gym.
Control your diet and get back into shape.
And most importantly: fuck your husband regularly.
I do all this. He still cheated.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Here's what is annoying to me -- I'm one of those DWs with a stretched out vag from one kid, an ugly c-section scar from another, horrible stretch marks across my stomach and thighs from carrying those children and boobs that have gone to hell from a year of nursing each. I'm also exhausted from working full time and running around after two young kids. My DH could easily have affairs despite becoming a parent, especially since he travels so often for work. And I wouldn't blame him since we rarely have sex any more. Me, not so much even though I'd be interested. I don't know many mothers of young children who have the time even if their body had bounced right back. Not fair.
Your lifestyle is completely selfish!
Stop exhausting yourself running after the 2 kids.
Instead, get out of the house and do some real exercise at the gym.
Control your diet and get back into shape.
And most importantly: fuck your husband regularly.
Anonymous wrote:Here's what is annoying to me -- I'm one of those DWs with a stretched out vag from one kid, an ugly c-section scar from another, horrible stretch marks across my stomach and thighs from carrying those children and boobs that have gone to hell from a year of nursing each. I'm also exhausted from working full time and running around after two young kids. My DH could easily have affairs despite becoming a parent, especially since he travels so often for work. And I wouldn't blame him since we rarely have sex any more. Me, not so much even though I'd be interested. I don't know many mothers of young children who have the time even if their body had bounced right back. Not fair.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I dont really know if I believe the men who say their wife is much more attractive than OW. i think saying that makes them feel they are putting their wife on a pedestal even tho they are unfaithful. Otherwise why wouldn't u just go find a tree stump w a hole in it. You really have sex w someone you dont find attractive? I dont believe it
A cheater will have sex with almost any hole. They look for willing, not gorgeous.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:go to Ashley Madison. Everyone is there for the same reasons so there's no bullshitting beating around the brush trying to find out if someone is interested or notAnonymous wrote:I would love to know that also.. How does it start? Where did you meet?
Yes theoretically. But if spouse caught you having account there will be absolutely no room for denial. I am not on it and i wont probably, for fear to be known by someone we know...
Anonymous wrote:go to Ashley Madison. Everyone is there for the same reasons so there's no bullshitting beating around the brush trying to find out if someone is interested or notAnonymous wrote:I would love to know that also.. How does it start? Where did you meet?