Anonymous wrote:Does OP not have a contract with the nanny? Furlouging a nanny is a breach of contract and in essence she is laid off. So she can claim unemployment, which will raise the OP's nanny taxes
OP is not government and nanny is working for family, not government.
The nanny is most likely looking for new employment by now.

Anonymous wrote:Does OP not have a contract with the nanny? Furlouging a nanny is a breach of contract and in essence she is laid off. So she can claim unemployment, which will raise the OP's nanny taxes
OP is not government and nanny is working for family, not government.
The nanny is most likely looking for new employment by now.

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Anonymous wrote:I am sorry but I am going to stick up for OP here. He is trying to help the nanny out until the temporary situation resolves itself. What do you expect people to do? Companies cut people all the time without warning.

I agree. OP, I think a lot of the replies you're getting are from the entitled nannies who seem to frequent this site. OP, I would cut her pay to what you can afford and give her time off or ask her to work part time. If you ask her to work part time for that money, pay her at a higher hourly rate than you were previously for that time to show that you appreciate her. Tell her you understand if she needs to find another job but of course would love for her to resume working full time once you're also working full time.

The REAL question here is:
Is your child "entitled" to any
"continuity of care"?

Or is that irrelevant?

Research documents over and over, how "continuity of care" is essential during the earliest years of a child's development.

I am fairly certain that there is no research demonstrating harm caused by having to let your nanny go during a period of unemployment. The literature on continuity of care probably focuses on much more unstable patterns. It's ludicrous to think that switching from one high-quality carer to another once or twice in early childhood causes irreparable harm. And anyway, its impossible to plan your life to avoid all risk. I mean, I could die and my child would have to have another caregiver ... so I guess that the fact I am mortal means I never should have had children? Obviously I don't plan to disrupt my child's caregiving arrangements unless absolutely necessary, such as a financial crisis.

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Anonymous wrote:I am sorry but I am going to stick up for OP here. He is trying to help the nanny out until the temporary situation resolves itself. What do you expect people to do? Companies cut people all the time without warning.

I agree. OP, I think a lot of the replies you're getting are from the entitled nannies who seem to frequent this site. OP, I would cut her pay to what you can afford and give her time off or ask her to work part time. If you ask her to work part time for that money, pay her at a higher hourly rate than you were previously for that time to show that you appreciate her. Tell her you understand if she needs to find another job but of course would love for her to resume working full time once you're also working full time.

The REAL question here is:
Is your child "entitled" to any
"continuity of care"?

Or is that irrelevant?

Research documents over and over, how "continuity of care" is essential during the earliest years of a child's development.

I am fairly certain that there is no research demonstrating harm caused by having to let your nanny go during a period of unemployment. The literature on continuity of care probably focuses on much more unstable patterns. It's ludicrous to think that switching from one high-quality carer to another once or twice in early childhood causes irreparable harm. And anyway, its impossible to plan your life to avoid all risk. I mean, I could die and my child would have to have another caregiver ... so I guess that the fact I am mortal means I never should have had children? Obviously I don't plan to disrupt my child's caregiving arrangements unless absolutely necessary, such as a financial crisis.

Anonymous wrote:The nanny hype is ridiculous. I don't need a college graduate to change diapers, feed, drive and, read children's books.

They are fine and are going to aap.

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Anonymous wrote:I am sorry but I am going to stick up for OP here. He is trying to help the nanny out until the temporary situation resolves itself. What do you expect people to do? Companies cut people all the time without warning.

I agree. OP, I think a lot of the replies you're getting are from the entitled nannies who seem to frequent this site. OP, I would cut her pay to what you can afford and give her time off or ask her to work part time. If you ask her to work part time for that money, pay her at a higher hourly rate than you were previously for that time to show that you appreciate her. Tell her you understand if she needs to find another job but of course would love for her to resume working full time once you're also working full time.

The REAL question here is:
Is your child "entitled" to any
"continuity of care"?

Or is that irrelevant?

Research documents over and over, how "continuity of care" is essential during the earliest years of a child's development.

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Anonymous wrote:I am sorry but I am going to stick up for OP here. He is trying to help the nanny out until the temporary situation resolves itself. What do you expect people to do? Companies cut people all the time without warning.

How is OP helping the nanny? The OP wants the nanny to stop working for her and then remain available to return to work when it is convenient for her.

Just like the government and all the private sector companies who have done this as well.

Are you people really this stupid that you think nannies should be exempt? They're a dime a dozen.

Is your child's care not worth more than your "dime a dozen" poor quality broken-English baby sitter? In just another year or two, you'll be paying through your nose for various therapies and tutoring, in a desparate attempt to repair the consequences of your bargain "dime a dozen", so called nannies.

"Penny wise and pound foolish"

That's racist. We have a friend who only hired college graduate Caucasian nannies to teach their kids. The ended up getting nickel and dimmed being held hostage by their contract, no cleaning, no errands, no laundry without extra pay. The kids are grown up and both are learning disabled and behind.

On the other hand we have a friend who had a Filipino nanny who didn't go to college, her English wasn't perfect, but she read and loved the kids like her own, not just some businesses Contract. She cooked , cleaned did above and beyond without being asked or asking for more money and their kids are in aap.

Point being, a nanny really didn't have that much influence except for basic reading, feeding and caring.

Please don't tell me you're "college-educated".

2 engineering masters

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Anonymous wrote:I am sorry but I am going to stick up for OP here. He is trying to help the nanny out until the temporary situation resolves itself. What do you expect people to do? Companies cut people all the time without warning.

How is OP helping the nanny? The OP wants the nanny to stop working for her and then remain available to return to work when it is convenient for her.

Just like the government and all the private sector companies who have done this as well.

Are you people really this stupid that you think nannies should be exempt? They're a dime a dozen.

Is your child's care not worth more than your "dime a dozen" poor quality broken-English baby sitter? In just another year or two, you'll be paying through your nose for various therapies and tutoring, in a desparate attempt to repair the consequences of your bargain "dime a dozen", so called nannies.

"Penny wise and pound foolish"

That's racist. We have a friend who only hired college graduate Caucasian nannies to teach their kids. The ended up getting nickel and dimmed being held hostage by their contract, no cleaning, no errands, no laundry without extra pay. The kids are grown up and both are learning disabled and behind.

On the other hand we have a friend who had a Filipino nanny who didn't go to college, her English wasn't perfect, but she read and loved the kids like her own, not just some businesses Contract. She cooked , cleaned did above and beyond without being asked or asking for more money and their kids are in aap.

Point being, a nanny really didn't have that much influence except for basic reading, feeding and caring.

Please don't tell me you're "college-educated".

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Anonymous wrote:I am sorry but I am going to stick up for OP here. He is trying to help the nanny out until the temporary situation resolves itself. What do you expect people to do? Companies cut people all the time without warning.

I agree. OP, I think a lot of the replies you're getting are from the entitled nannies who seem to frequent this site. OP, I would cut her pay to what you can afford and give her time off or ask her to work part time. If you ask her to work part time for that money, pay her at a higher hourly rate than you were previously for that time to show that you appreciate her. Tell her you understand if she needs to find another job but of course would love for her to resume working full time once you're also working full time.

The REAL question here is:
Is your child "entitled" to any
"continuity of care"?

Or is that irrelevant?

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Anonymous wrote:I am sorry but I am going to stick up for OP here. He is trying to help the nanny out until the temporary situation resolves itself. What do you expect people to do? Companies cut people all the time without warning.

I agree. OP, I think a lot of the replies you're getting are from the entitled nannies who seem to frequent this site. OP, I would cut her pay to what you can afford and give her time off or ask her to work part time. If you ask her to work part time for that money, pay her at a higher hourly rate than you were previously for that time to show that you appreciate her. Tell her you understand if she needs to find another job but of course would love for her to resume working full time once you're also working full time.

I am not a nanny. I am a mother who employs a nanny. I would do anything possible to make sure our nanny stayed with our family. Continuity of care and the relationship with my children matter much more than money (assuming we are not going to be homeless). I can think of 100 other things I would cut before I would cut the nanny.

Ok, that's a nice sentiment. But nanny is a MAJOR expense in our household. I don't think there's really anything we could cut that would allow us to continue paying our nanny responsibly if we were looking at long-term unemployment. IE, I am not going to get a home equity loan or break into my 401k to pay the nanny while I'm unemployed. That would be completely crazy. And at a certain point, it would be better to help the nanny start looking for a more stable situation than asking her to stay on. The nanny would probably prefer severance pay and time off to look for a new job than just riding out the last dollars until we absolutely can't afford her.

We are talking about a furlough that could be a week or two, possibly slightly longer. This isn't about long term unemployment. If you have one parent who is unemployed than that person can provide childcare and if/when down the road they regain employment you can find new childcare.