I'm still trying to figure out why a gay guy would be trying to marry women and sleep with them. It would just complicate his gay life. Will someone please explain to me why a truly gay man would seek out women to marry and have sex with. Nobody has yet to explain that to me.

All the closeted gay guys I have known were never married and just kind of always single. I know one openly gay man who was once married, but his wife knew along with everyone else. They just kind of did it because they both wanted a wedding. After a few years they quietely got a divorce and remain best friend til this day. (she's fat and not going to find a man)

Anonymous wrote:this is funny. Women who sleep with men would be upset if men shared their same taste!

Do you know how stupid you sound when you say "sleeping with men is icky gross, but not when I do it."

Listen idiots - your husband likely had a gay experience he's not going to tell you about. You are all married to men who are gay by your definition. Get over it.

Again, only 10% of "straight men" MAX have had same sex experiences. Unless you know something we don't know, it's not true that anyone's husband "likely" had a gay experience.

this thread is not just trying to egg people on. its shelf life is pretty much done

Anonymous wrote:this is funny. Women who sleep with men would be upset if men shared their same taste!

Do you know how stupid you sound when you say "sleeping with men is icky gross, but not when I do it."

Listen idiots - your husband likely had a gay experience he's not going to tell you about. You are all married to men who are gay by your definition. Get over it.

i assume you want the women to take this post of your serious correct?

The sister story is right on. Closed minded people who make assumptions based on their ignorance always miss out in life.

this is funny. Women who sleep with men would be upset if men shared their same taste!

Do you know how stupid you sound when you say "sleeping with men is icky gross, but not when I do it."

Listen idiots - your husband likely had a gay experience he's not going to tell you about. You are all married to men who are gay by your definition. Get over it.

It would bother me. And it's not an additional chore I'm willing to take on. There's way too many straight men out there to have to put up with someone bi (if you're not okay with that). And no one should be able to chose what you're okay with except you. When men lie about their preference for same sex (whether a current or past preference) they strip their wives of the right to make choices about their lives. I absolutely would want the right to make choices about who I'm with and what I'm willing to accept in my life. Unless we're going to start forcing arranged marriages on people, we should be able to chose someone who has or has not had same sex relations in his/ her background.

Homophobia aside, if you learned that your DH had sexual contact with men in the past or was bi, would it concern you that the sexual competition pool has expanded (at least in your own mind)? In my case and with my own insecurity, it would bother me that, in addition to being worried about other women, I would now have to worry about other men catching his eye. Do I have now have to worry about guys' night out? It may be unreasonable and neanderthal -ish, but I am just being honest.

Anonymous wrote:10:28 - are you f**king crazy? Your sister is the only smart one of the lot of you. GAY MEN WILL AND CAN MARRY WOMEN. Marrying a women is not evidence of heterosexuality. The only evidence of heterosexuality is not having sexual contact with a man.

I mean, marriages have dry spells. Are you fine with your DH going out to get head from random gay friends when you're pregnant?

+1. These losers are getting really old. Marriage is not a sexuality. You can marry females all day long, while behind closed doors you're getting sex from males. The ignorant part is keeping it a secret from the unsuspecting wife. So not cool!

no no. once you marry a woman, all your gay desires go away.


its in the geneva conventions.

Anonymous wrote:Y'all are the oddest bunch of idiots I've come across yet.

Why? Because you're a secret gay and you're not getting the affirmation that you need that it's okay? You're sick is what you are.

10:28 - are you f**king crazy? Your sister is the only smart one of the lot of you. GAY MEN WILL AND CAN MARRY WOMEN. Marrying a women is not evidence of heterosexuality. The only evidence of heterosexuality is not having sexual contact with a man.

I mean, marriages have dry spells. Are you fine with your DH going out to get head from random gay friends when you're pregnant?

Y'all are the oddest bunch of idiots I've come across yet.

If my DH ever handled another man's penis I would not be able to stay married to him. I would get a divorce immediately. No, not counseling. No, not therapy. Divorce. There will never be anyone to convince me that my DH's sexual gratification from another male is anything but gay. I have no problem with gays. Just don't want to marry one, nor should it be snuck upon me. I would not do that to another human being and deserve the same respect. Any dignified man (gay or straight) would come up to his partner and put it out there. I also could not be married to a coward and a liar. It's not looking good for the secret gays on here.

^^ What a fake story for 1. 2. If it is real, your sister is the smartest of them all. When the wife gets the news that her husband has been secretly shagging the mail man, she and her two kids will be on the losing end of the stick. The ex-bfriend is bisexual (which gets the same treatment as being gay in my book). Simple. I would not want my daughter to have that sort of person in her life. What if there were no guys around, would the ex-bfriend take up with dogs and cats. People who can't exhibit sexual restraint does not a good husband make. HIV loves them. What kind of family are you? Besides being a fake one (you're clearly a troll who wrote a book on here because you're a secret gay mad that people see straight through you), you're an awfully dumb one too!