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Anonymous wrote:I wonder how OP has time to be on DCUM 24/7 with an infant and a toddler and a DH who is on "conference calls 12 hours a day"

have you ever Breastfeed a newborn? he'd hanging from my boob for 45 minutes every 2 hours. it's more than enough to come here, laugh a bit, respond and go back to whatever else I feel like doing. tot still naps 2x a day so it's not that hard. I don't get all the drama when people say there's no time for anything with a baby. you should develop better time management skills. my priorities are well set. eat, relax and hygiene. it's not rocket science, you know?

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Anonymous wrote:I wonder if this is ALSO the one who wigged out when the nurses didn't change her baby's diaper in the nursery while she was eating and taking her sweet ass time getting checked out, then came home and posted a bitch post about how the babysitter didn't do the dishes while she was in the hospital. I bet you dollars to donuts it's the same person.

yes it's me what's the big deal? I'm also the poster asking about transitioning to pre-school, the one about finding bands on the picture. how come you missed those?

Anonymous wrote:It's chipotle. Sorry but anyone there has already given up on civilization. When you go to mcdonalds version of a Mexican restaurant youngive up the right to complain. About anything.

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if this is ALSO the one who wigged out when the nurses didn't change her baby's diaper in the nursery while she was eating and taking her sweet ass time getting checked out, then came home and posted a bitch post about how the babysitter didn't do the dishes while she was in the hospital. I bet you dollars to donuts it's the same person.

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Anonymous wrote:I wonder if this is ALSO the one who wigged out when the nurses didn't change her baby's diaper in the nursery while she was eating and taking her sweet ass time getting checked out, then came home and posted a bitch post about how the babysitter didn't do the dishes while she was in the hospital. I bet you dollars to donuts it's the same person.

yes it's me what's the big deal? I'm also the poster asking about transitioning to pre-school, the one about finding bands on the picture. how come you missed those?

Anonymous wrote:OP, your mistake is that in this one incident, you taught your daughter the lesson that if she screams and yells, mommy will run around like a crazy person trying to give her what she wants. In my opinion that is a BIG mistake. In your shoes, the minute my child started kicking up, I would have taken her outside, told her firmly that she is not allowed to scream like that, and that she could have the ipod when she was quiet and prepared to behave. If you don't start this kind of discipline with a toddler, it won't magically happen at age 4 or 14. You have to start laying the foundation for her respecting you NOW. Perhaps the look you got was not just because your toddler was screaming, but because you let it go on while you tried to appease her. As a parent, my first priority was always to teach my kids the lesson that they could not act up, particularly in public. I only had to do this 2 or 3 times with each of my kids (the only place it is hard to execute is an airplane) before I could put a stop to any misbehavior with a mere threat of "are we going to have to leave this store?" and now they are two of the most nicely behaved kids you can imagine. At 10 and 7, they understand that whining or having a fit will not work EVER. Don't negotiate with terrorists!

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if this is ALSO the one who wigged out when the nurses didn't change her baby's diaper in the nursery while she was eating and taking her sweet ass time getting checked out, then came home and posted a bitch post about how the babysitter didn't do the dishes while she was in the hospital. I bet you dollars to donuts it's the same person.

yes it's me what's the big deal? I'm also the poster asking about transitioning to pre-school, the one about finding bands on the picture. how come you missed those?

the big deal, darling, is that in ALL of these posts, you have taken the same tone: entitled, self-centered, holier-than-thou. It must be so hard being you-all these mean, nasty, lazy people are out to get you. Perhaps you are the one who needs the attitude adjustment?

But, PP, don't you see that by insulting her in this way, you are no better than she?

So many bullies!

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if this is ALSO the one who wigged out when the nurses didn't change her baby's diaper in the nursery while she was eating and taking her sweet ass time getting checked out, then came home and posted a bitch post about how the babysitter didn't do the dishes while she was in the hospital. I bet you dollars to donuts it's the same person.

yes it's me what's the big deal? I'm also the poster asking about transitioning to pre-school, the one about finding bands on the picture. how come you missed those?

the big deal, darling, is that in ALL of these posts, you have taken the same tone: entitled, self-centered, holier-than-thou. It must be so hard being you-all these mean, nasty, lazy people are out to get you. Perhaps you are the one who needs the attitude adjustment?

But, PP, don't you see that by insulting her in this way, you are no better than she?

So many bullies!

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if this is ALSO the one who wigged out when the nurses didn't change her baby's diaper in the nursery while she was eating and taking her sweet ass time getting checked out, then came home and posted a bitch post about how the babysitter didn't do the dishes while she was in the hospital. I bet you dollars to donuts it's the same person.

yes it's me what's the big deal? I'm also the poster asking about transitioning to pre-school, the one about finding bands on the picture. how come you missed those?

the big deal, darling, is that in ALL of these posts, you have taken the same tone: entitled, self-centered, holier-than-thou. It must be so hard being you-all these mean, nasty, lazy people are out to get you. Perhaps you are the one who needs the attitude adjustment?

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Anonymous wrote:I wonder if this is ALSO the one who wigged out when the nurses didn't change her baby's diaper in the nursery while she was eating and taking her sweet ass time getting checked out, then came home and posted a bitch post about how the babysitter didn't do the dishes while she was in the hospital. I bet you dollars to donuts it's the same person.

yes it's me what's the big deal? I'm also the poster asking about transitioning to pre-school, the one about finding bands on the picture. how come you missed those?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if this is ALSO the one who wigged out when the nurses didn't change her baby's diaper in the nursery while she was eating and taking her sweet ass time getting checked out, then came home and posted a bitch post about how the babysitter didn't do the dishes while she was in the hospital. I bet you dollars to donuts it's the same person.

yes it's me what's the big deal? I'm also the poster asking about transitioning to pre-school, the one about finding bands on the picture. how come you missed those?

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Anonymous wrote:oh so now, all at once I'm supposed to discipline my child, make sure my infant doesn't join the screaming chorus ad think about everybody else's perspective and try to guess what they'll think of my approach??? only on DCUM. gaaaaawd this is unbelievable.

You didn't have to think of it at that exact moment(It wouldn't have hurt, but it was hardly necessary), but are you saying you didn't have plenty of time to think about it while writing your initial post? And yes, you should discipline your child, keep them from screaming as much as possible, and respect the rights of others around you if you want to avoid offending people. Were you taught otherwise?

OMG how many times I'll have to repeat? I was trying to make her stay put, DH handed me the phone, she went for it and I grabbed it and ran towards the door. She screamed for maybe 10 seconds, I came back gave her the phone and she sat there still watching it for the entire time. The whole scenario didn't last more than 30 seconds. Why you're saying I didn't try to make her stop? I also mentioned I was embarrassed. Isn't it enough?

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if this is ALSO the one who wigged out when the nurses didn't change her baby's diaper in the nursery while she was eating and taking her sweet ass time getting checked out, then came home and posted a bitch post about how the babysitter didn't do the dishes while she was in the hospital. I bet you dollars to donuts it's the same person.