Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What an awful thing to say. Can you explain how else someone is supposed to write an obituary?
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You make no sense.
She didn't carry to full term, only to deliver a stillborn. After 20 weeks, it's a stillbirth.
She miscarried. Why would you put in a obit/death notice? My friend miscarried in September. over and done with . . . painful, of course - But there is no need to go this far.
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Anonymous wrote:Your dates are wrong. Did you re-print this or make the error yourself?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't get what anyone's problem with it is. You haven't walked in there shoes. I had miscarriages as well.. the difference is it had to be removed by a d&c and I never saw it ...was just left to grieve. She had to deliver this baby, hold it and had to bury it. Therefore a obit is to notify friends and family of the death and services. You didn't pay for it so don't worry about it. And judge not be judged.
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Anonymous wrote:I don't get what anyone's problem with it is. You haven't walked in there shoes. I had miscarriages as well.. the difference is it had to be removed by a d&c and I never saw it ...was just left to grieve. She had to deliver this baby, hold it and had to bury it. Therefore a obit is to notify friends and family of the death and services. You didn't pay for it so don't worry about it. And judge not be judged.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I would hope that Michelle and Jim Bob see this as a teaching- it is time to treasure and parent the children you have here and now. And be honest as you take inventory. Your youngest children need YOU to be their parents, not your oldest daughters.
I couldn't agree with you this more.![]()
I wrote the same thing in here, but you wrote it much more eloquently than I did. Michelle is doing very little in the way of parenting those children. The older girls are slaves, of sort, having to tend to ALL the needs of the younger children, while Michelle smiles and takes all the credit for "her" hard work, raising 19 children! I really feel for the older girls. The sad thing is, they don't even realize how badly they are being used! They are pretty isolated, with no TV or internet, and only socialize with families that are doing the same thing to their older girls, so they have no way of knowing anything different.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I would hope that Michelle and Jim Bob see this as a teaching- it is time to treasure and parent the children you have here and now. And be honest as you take inventory. Your youngest children need YOU to be their parents, not your oldest daughters.
I couldn't agree with you this more.![]()
I wrote the same thing in here, but you wrote it much more eloquently than I did. Michelle is doing very little in the way of parenting those children. The older girls are slaves, of sort, having to tend to ALL the needs of the younger children, while Michelle smiles and takes all the credit for "her" hard work, raising 19 children! I really feel for the older girls. The sad thing is, they don't even realize how badly they are being used! They are pretty isolated, with no TV or internet, and only socialize with families that are doing the same thing to their older girls, so they have no way of knowing anything different.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Amen! And to those questioning the non-Jews using Hebrew words...Christians have the same history as Jews. Jesus was Jewish!!!
We are Catholic.
Our son attends a Jewish preschool b/c it's a wonderful environment. I have grown up with TONS of Jews; one has been my friend since high school.
Having said that, I would NEVER use Jewish names or words in a serious manner. I may joke with my Jewish friends b/c we have that type of relationship, but I would not choose a Jewish name for my children nor use oy vey when something bugs me.
Let the Jews have their names and Yiddish words.
And get over yourselves. We may share the OT, but the New Testament is ours, as Jesus was a "convert" of sorts.
Anonymous wrote:I feel for anyone who has a miscarriage, no matter what I think of her personally and no matter how many kids she already has, but really, this is over the top fame-mongering.
TONTITOWN — Jubilee Shalom Duggar entered into the presence of Jesus Dec. 2, 2011. She was stillborn at 11:46 p.m. on Dec. 11, 2011, weighing 4 oz. and was 6 cm. in length.
She is survived by her parents, Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar; grandma, Mary Duggar; siblings, Josh, Jana, John, Jill, Jessa, Jinger, Joseph, Josiah, Joy, Jedidiah, Jeremiah, Jason, James, Justin, Jackson, Johannah, Jennifer, Jordyn and Josie; sister-in-love, Anna Duggar; niece, Mackynzie; nephew, Michael; and lots of cousins and extended family members.
She is joined in heaven by both of her maternal grandparents, Garrett and Ethel Ruark; and her paternal grandfather, J.L. Duggar.
The Duggar family is so grateful for the outpouring of love shown to them and they will be celebrating Jubilee’s life in a private memorial service with family and friends. Jubilee will be buried at Fairview Memorial Gardens in Fayetteville.
Anonymous wrote:I would hope that Michelle and Jim Bob see this as a teaching- it is time to treasure and parent the children you have here and now. And be honest as you take inventory. Your youngest children need YOU to be their parents, not your oldest daughters.