Women and men outside of the top 20%, if they want relationships will have to tolerate their partners.

Only the top 20% get true love

I don't think either group is "delusional." Rather as the necessity of being married to survive and and have a decent life has declined, both sexes have elevated their standards. If you can be happy or "kind of" happy single Why settle with someone who isn't your dream mate?

DCUM women hands down!

No, rejected men (“alpha “ type in particular that’s not used to rejection) get surprised, request detailed explanation why you can’t be with them etc. I’m always frank why : you need to drop weight before I can join you on that trio in France you bragged about; I’m not ready for intimacy because you have a gut; you are an ass-e because you don’t tip and scream at service workers.

I can go on

Labels such as "alpha men" are stupid. A man either has enough self-esteem to avoid any of the begging noted in your post, or he does not.

You seem to attract men who lack self-esteem.

Women, but it’s men’s fault. The advent of dating apps and the fact that men swipe way too frequently has given women a sense of desirability beyond their station.

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Actually, you are wrong about my responses to him. I would simply offer him to be friends until he drops weight. Some men prefer to stick around in woman’s orbit to get a chance. Others don’t

No. A man does not orbit.

He shoots his shot and moves on if it does not work out.

No, rejected men (“alpha “ type in particular that’s not used to rejection) get surprised, request detailed explanation why you can’t be with them etc. I’m always frank why : you need to drop weight before I can join you on that trio in France you bragged about; I’m not ready for intimacy because you have a gut; you are an ass-e because you don’t tip and scream at service workers.

I can go on