Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 15:53     Subject: Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban split

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Women can't ever win.

If they focus on their careers, they are criticized for not spending enough time at home with their kids.

If they focus on raising their family, they automatically lose out on the best professional opportunities.

Men are not subject to the same criticism, and gaily go about their careers while their wives raise the kids and mommy-track or stay home.

I don't think any of us should criticize Nicole for wanting to be the most famous actress she can be. Yes there is a family cost. Men do that all the time.

I stay home to raise my kids, but I will never criticize a woman for prioritizing her career.



I think the point is that someone needs to prioritize the children. As someone who has birthed children I cannot imagine being away from them that much and I know from family members that both parents prioritizing themselves is never good for kids.


Which brings up a good question who was taking care of the kids back in Nashville when both were out the country on tour/filming?



Keith only tours every 2-3 years. He's the primary parent, not Nicole.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 15:48     Subject: Re:Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban split

He's gonna need to contact Pete Davidson's tattoo removal guy - Keith has a lot of NK-themed ink.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 15:45     Subject: Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban split

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:She filed for divorce, thinks he cheated. One thing I will say—wives really should be with their husbands on tour. For the sake of the marriage. Too many temptations, especially if a man is feeling neglected.


Nicole filed?


https://www.tmz.com/2025/09/30/nicole-kidman-files-for-divorce-from-keith-urban/?adid=social-tw

She filed and she/her circle thinks he's moved on with another woman

Maybe another Dave Grohl situation.


More like Ewan McGregor. He had an open relationship with his ex until he met MEW and wanted more. Nicole and Keith being open and fluid has been known.

I have never seen or heard even a whisper about this.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 15:44     Subject: Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban split

Anonymous wrote:I haven’t watched her in anything since paddington.
I just don’t like her anymore.

He is very talented but I hope he stays out of the limelight / is a working musician / retires. I don’t see him fitting the current country ecosystem.

He's currently on tour backing a new album - just finished multiple cities in Australia and Canada, now in the US. At JLL on Saturday.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 15:38     Subject: Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban split

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Women can't ever win.

If they focus on their careers, they are criticized for not spending enough time at home with their kids.

If they focus on raising their family, they automatically lose out on the best professional opportunities.

Men are not subject to the same criticism, and gaily go about their careers while their wives raise the kids and mommy-track or stay home.

I don't think any of us should criticize Nicole for wanting to be the most famous actress she can be. Yes there is a family cost. Men do that all the time.

I stay home to raise my kids, but I will never criticize a woman for prioritizing her career.



I think the point is that someone needs to prioritize the children. As someone who has birthed children I cannot imagine being away from them that much and I know from family members that both parents prioritizing themselves is never good for kids.


Which brings up a good question who was taking care of the kids back in Nashville when both were out the country on tour/filming?
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 15:15     Subject: Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban split

I haven’t watched her in anything since paddington.
I just don’t like her anymore.

He is very talented but I hope he stays out of the limelight / is a working musician / retires. I don’t see him fitting the current country ecosystem.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 15:01     Subject: Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban split

Anonymous wrote:Women can't ever win.

If they focus on their careers, they are criticized for not spending enough time at home with their kids.

If they focus on raising their family, they automatically lose out on the best professional opportunities.

Men are not subject to the same criticism, and gaily go about their careers while their wives raise the kids and mommy-track or stay home.

I don't think any of us should criticize Nicole for wanting to be the most famous actress she can be. Yes there is a family cost. Men do that all the time.

I stay home to raise my kids, but I will never criticize a woman for prioritizing her career.



I think the point is that someone needs to prioritize the children. As someone who has birthed children I cannot imagine being away from them that much and I know from family members that both parents prioritizing themselves is never good for kids.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 15:00     Subject: Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban split

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:She filed for divorce, thinks he cheated. One thing I will say—wives really should be with their husbands on tour. For the sake of the marriage. Too many temptations, especially if a man is feeling neglected.


Nicole filed?


https://www.tmz.com/2025/09/30/nicole-kidman-files-for-divorce-from-keith-urban/?adid=social-tw

She filed and she/her circle thinks he's moved on with another woman

Maybe another Dave Grohl situation.


More like Ewan McGregor. He had an open relationship with his ex until he met MEW and wanted more. Nicole and Keith being open and fluid has been known.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 14:55     Subject: Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban split

Anonymous wrote:Maybe she’ll get together with Lenny again.


He's been celibate for a decade (he says)?
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 14:53     Subject: Re:Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban split

Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 14:49     Subject: Re:Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban split

I can’t find anything online that says he cheated
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 14:36     Subject: Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban split

Anonymous wrote:Interesting that he never had a female band member until this current tour.


She lives in Nashville too
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 14:25     Subject: Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban split

Interesting that he never had a female band member until this current tour.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 14:23     Subject: Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban split

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:She filed for divorce, thinks he cheated. One thing I will say—wives really should be with their husbands on tour. For the sake of the marriage. Too many temptations, especially if a man is feeling neglected.


Nicole filed?


https://www.tmz.com/2025/09/30/nicole-kidman-files-for-divorce-from-keith-urban/?adid=social-tw

She filed and she/her circle thinks he's moved on with another woman

Maybe another Dave Grohl situation.

But you all said he was gay?
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 14:18     Subject: Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban split

Anonymous wrote:She filed for divorce, thinks he cheated. One thing I will say—wives really should be with their husbands on tour. For the sake of the marriage. Too many temptations, especially if a man is feeling neglected.


Sucks to say but ia. Both are allowed to have a full and active career but your relationship will suffer. I am sure there were many events they wished the other would attend but couldn't because of work obligations.