Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I just posted about girls being mean.

I have 3 kids and feel lucky to be blessed with such great kids. They are smart, good looking and athletic. I always encourage kindness and tell them how important it is for them to be nice people.

I come from a religious family. My dad is the most moral person and was exceptionally smart. I married a guy who was also smart and kind. DH is the type of guy who is good at everything. He is also trustworthy and loyal and that has worked well for him professionally.

If you are the OP of the mean girl thread, you do not come across as nice in that thread at all. You are also weirdly obsessed with kids' looks (yours and, in the other thread, your DD's friends).

I literally just wrote that having a father and husband who are both smart and kind is what makes my children great.

DH and I are both good looking and smart. We met when we were attending top grad schools and made three great kids. DH also earns a lot of money so that probably helps.

Different poster and I am sorry to pile on but I agree. You didn’t sound like a nice poster in your other thread and you don’t sound like someone I would enjoy IRL here too. Are you from a different culture ? Is that why we perceive you as too blunt and materialistic ? I say that kindly, if you/ your kids give the same vibe in person, that is probably why your daughter is having trouble with her friends. You may not realize it but you are not the warm and embracing/ non judgmental type that everyone likes to be around. You come across as conceited, overly confident and focused on the wrong values (beauty, status and wealth)