Women dress for impressing other women. Men for the most part don't care what a woman wears, as long as it is clean.

Many women also feel the same way about men. I like a guy in jeans and tshirts and boots rather than spiffed up wearing more girly fancy attire. Looks more manly.

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Anonymous wrote:I am a man in my early 30s and every first date feels like a job interview. I have tried coffee dates, meeting at bars, walking dogs at parks, and lunch dates. The conversations are dry and they always seem to center around college and career. The dates are never fun or engaging. I am aiming for women in the age range of 25 to 29 who have at least a bachelors degree. What can I do to genuinely connect with someone in the first few dates ?

Date someone you’re own age…

Anonymous wrote:I am a man in my early 30s and every first date feels like a job interview. I have tried coffee dates, meeting at bars, walking dogs at parks, and lunch dates. The conversations are dry and they always seem to center around college and career. The dates are never fun or engaging. I am aiming for women in the age range of 25 to 29 who have at least a bachelors degree. What can I do to genuinely connect with someone in the first few dates ?

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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.

Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.

Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.

Women dress for impressing other women. Men for the most part don't care what a woman wears, as long as it is clean.

Many women also feel the same way about men. I like a guy in jeans and tshirts and boots rather than spiffed up wearing more girly fancy attire. Looks more manly.

Manly man steering his cattle down K Street

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.

Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.

Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.

Women dress for impressing other women. Men for the most part don't care what a woman wears, as long as it is clean.

Many women also feel the same way about men. I like a guy in jeans and tshirts and boots rather than spiffed up wearing more girly fancy attire. Looks more manly.

Meh absolutely care for women to look stylish fit and youthful, as well as to be educated and able maintain a conversation with his family and friends.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.

Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.

Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.

Women dress for impressing other women. Men for the most part don't care what a woman wears, as long as it is clean.

Many women also feel the same way about men. I like a guy in jeans and tshirts and boots rather than spiffed up wearing more girly fancy attire. Looks more manly.

Meh absolutely care for women to look stylish fit and youthful, as well as to be educated and able maintain a conversation with his family and friends.

Which designer top maintains a conversation with his family and friends?

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Anonymous wrote:
You know you can pay someone to get you off for less than the cost of a few drinks, right? You don't have to pretend to want a relationship. Just hire a sexworker, pro or no.

You're right, I don't want a relationship. Sex? Yes. Relationship? As long as I can avoid one.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.

Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.

Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.

Women dress for impressing other women. Men for the most part don't care what a woman wears, as long as it is clean.

Many women also feel the same way about men. I like a guy in jeans and tshirts and boots rather than spiffed up wearing more girly fancy attire. Looks more manly.

Meh absolutely care for women to look stylish fit and youthful, as well as to be educated and able maintain a conversation with his family and friends.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.

Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.

Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.

Women dress for impressing other women. Men for the most part don't care what a woman wears, as long as it is clean.

Many women also feel the same way about men. I like a guy in jeans and tshirts and boots rather than spiffed up wearing more girly fancy attire. Looks more manly.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.

Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.

Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.

Women dress for impressing other women. Men for the most part don't care what a woman wears, as long as it is clean.

Many women also feel the same way about men. I like a guy in jeans and tshirts and boots rather than spiffed up wearing more girly fancy attire. Looks more manly.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.

Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.

Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.

Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.

Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
You know you can pay someone to get you off for less than the cost of a few drinks, right? You don't have to pretend to want a relationship. Just hire a sexworker, pro or no.

You're right, I don't want a relationship. Sex? Yes. Relationship? As long as I can avoid one.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.

Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.

Anonymous wrote:
I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.