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Anonymous wrote:New nightmare unlocked: being at what I thought was a legit massage business when police bust it for being… not legit.

...and they eventually release the names of all those paying married customers.
ICK!

They don't take names. I'm sure OP's hubby is using a name like "John" when he visits, if any name at all.

Credit card trails. Not all use cash.

This is how three sleazy men I know got caught on AM. Both are still married too.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm sorry, OP.

You put on your oxygen mask right now. Let go of anything non-essential.

Confide in a couple of trusted people. You need support and outside perspectives.

Therapy.

Lawyer.

Make sure you have access to all of your finances and accounts.

You don't have to know what you're going to do today. You just have to keep breathing.

Hugs. I don't see how you could trust him again either. Or like him. And that's totally on him. He caused that. Now you just need to figure out what your best moves are, out of your (unfortunately) limited choices. But you WILL be OK. You are strong and you can handle this.

Guy got a handjob and now the world is coming to an end lmao

Said like a sociopathic cheater who doesn't care that he is exploiting women who are probably being trafficked

They are doing it out of free will, nobody is forcing them to be whores. Prostitution is wrong but nobody is a victim.

You are very naive in your little bubble. Enjoy it.

Anonymous wrote:I have a married male friend who frequents erotic massages (HJs). He gets them from higher priced escorts that specialize in erotic massage. Like tantric massage. There is a niche for everything these days.

He’s in a dead bedroom. Sex maybe a handful of times a year. They don’t fight much but there is little physical intimacy. Stressful kids and jobs. Different sleep schedules. Wife is out of shape and 100% focused on kids and work. They are co-parents and house managers.

He owns his infidelity and doesn’t blame her for his actions. He gave her the OK to get sexual pleasure (non-intercourse) outside of the marriage, but she rejected the offer. They are both conflict avoidant. Complex situation.

Good for them!

Anonymous wrote:8 pages of blah, blah and no one cares to share the address? What's up with that?

8453 Tyco Rd I, Vienna, VA 22182

https://maps.app.goo.gl/99KDjkzcWqF73HfHA?g_st=ipc

It's just as two minute HJ after a nice massage. That shouldn't even be illegal.

I have a married male friend who frequents erotic massages (HJs). He gets them from higher priced escorts that specialize in erotic massage. Like tantric massage. There is a niche for everything these days.

He’s in a dead bedroom. Sex maybe a handful of times a year. They don’t fight much but there is little physical intimacy. Stressful kids and jobs. Different sleep schedules. Wife is out of shape and 100% focused on kids and work. They are co-parents and house managers.

He owns his infidelity and doesn’t blame her for his actions. He gave her the OK to get sexual pleasure (non-intercourse) outside of the marriage, but she rejected the offer. They are both conflict avoidant. Complex situation.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm sorry, OP.

You put on your oxygen mask right now. Let go of anything non-essential.

Confide in a couple of trusted people. You need support and outside perspectives.

Therapy.

Lawyer.

Make sure you have access to all of your finances and accounts.

You don't have to know what you're going to do today. You just have to keep breathing.

Hugs. I don't see how you could trust him again either. Or like him. And that's totally on him. He caused that. Now you just need to figure out what your best moves are, out of your (unfortunately) limited choices. But you WILL be OK. You are strong and you can handle this.

Guy got a handjob and now the world is coming to an end lmao

Said like a sociopathic cheater who doesn't care that he is exploiting women who are probably being trafficked

They are doing it out of free will, nobody is forcing them to be whores. Prostitution is wrong but nobody is a victim.

Some are. Some aren't. See the PP.

99% in the US are free will.

So many naive people in the World. I go because of back issues.
I've gone several times because they're more reasonably priced and actually massage every second of the hour. Never, ever have any of them insinuated sex for pay.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm sorry, OP.

You put on your oxygen mask right now. Let go of anything non-essential.

Confide in a couple of trusted people. You need support and outside perspectives.

Therapy.

Lawyer.

Make sure you have access to all of your finances and accounts.

You don't have to know what you're going to do today. You just have to keep breathing.

Hugs. I don't see how you could trust him again either. Or like him. And that's totally on him. He caused that. Now you just need to figure out what your best moves are, out of your (unfortunately) limited choices. But you WILL be OK. You are strong and you can handle this.

Guy got a handjob and now the world is coming to an end lmao

Said like a sociopathic cheater who doesn't care that he is exploiting women who are probably being trafficked

They are doing it out of free will, nobody is forcing them to be whores. Prostitution is wrong but nobody is a victim.

Some are. Some aren't. See the PP.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm sorry, OP.

You put on your oxygen mask right now. Let go of anything non-essential.

Confide in a couple of trusted people. You need support and outside perspectives.

Therapy.

Lawyer.

Make sure you have access to all of your finances and accounts.

You don't have to know what you're going to do today. You just have to keep breathing.

Hugs. I don't see how you could trust him again either. Or like him. And that's totally on him. He caused that. Now you just need to figure out what your best moves are, out of your (unfortunately) limited choices. But you WILL be OK. You are strong and you can handle this.

Guy got a handjob and now the world is coming to an end lmao

Said like a sociopathic cheater who doesn't care that he is exploiting women who are probably being trafficked

DP and playing Devil's Advocate here, but did you ever think what happens to those women when they don't earn enough money? You don't want to know I'm sure.

Anonymous wrote:Completely agree that sahm’s work hard. That’s why it’s important to outsource some tasks to AMPs.

Very thoughtful.

Completely agree that sahm’s work hard. That’s why it’s important to outsource some tasks to AMPs.

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Anonymous wrote:Start a career so you will have choices, OP. He could be arrested and you may lose his income.

It’s irresponsible of you not to be able to support your kids now that you know your DH can’t be relied upon.

+1

All SAHMs take note. Especially the smug ones.

Why do you feel the need to project this on all SAHMs? We work too. We enable our spouses to advance their careers because we’re at home doing most of the physical and emotional work of raising children. If we were working full time outside of the home, our spouses would have to split the workload of keeping a home and raising a family 50/50. I get so tired of this trite perspective on SAHMs - we may not make money (cleaning the house, grocery shopping, doing laundry, walking the dogs, doing yard work, helping kids with homework, making meals, schlepping kids to school and activities, being emotionally available to our children volunteering at school, etc.,) but our value is easily worth six figures. I calculated mine once. If we were to hire someone to do what I do, it would cost more then $105,000 a year.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm sorry, OP.

You put on your oxygen mask right now. Let go of anything non-essential.

Confide in a couple of trusted people. You need support and outside perspectives.

Therapy.

Lawyer.

Make sure you have access to all of your finances and accounts.

You don't have to know what you're going to do today. You just have to keep breathing.

Hugs. I don't see how you could trust him again either. Or like him. And that's totally on him. He caused that. Now you just need to figure out what your best moves are, out of your (unfortunately) limited choices. But you WILL be OK. You are strong and you can handle this.

Guy got a handjob and now the world is coming to an end lmao

Said like a sociopathic cheater who doesn't care that he is exploiting women who are probably being trafficked

They are doing it out of free will, nobody is forcing them to be whores. Prostitution is wrong but nobody is a victim.

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Anonymous wrote:Ew… Men can be So gross.

Women who are not having regular sex with their husbands are equally gross

A wife not having sex with her DH is as gross as going to a prostitute? Um.. kay.

No but she did made him go to a prostitute

Why is a 17 year old incel on here?