Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, if you are a troll... just go away and stop trying to revive this thread every day. If you are not a troll, you have all of the information you need... why are you reviving this thread every day?
I'm just answering questions people have and reading their advice to help my DD. That's all. This situation is very confusing.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, if you are a troll... just go away and stop trying to revive this thread every day. If you are not a troll, you have all of the information you need... why are you reviving this thread every day?
I'm just answering questions people have and reading their advice to help my DD. That's all. This situation is very confusing.
Anonymous wrote:OP, if you are a troll... just go away and stop trying to revive this thread every day. If you are not a troll, you have all of the information you need... why are you reviving this thread every day?
Anonymous wrote:OP, if you are a troll... just go away and stop trying to revive this thread every day. If you are not a troll, you have all of the information you need... why are you reviving this thread every day?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, based on what you have said about your DD, she reminds me of a childhood friend of mine. This girl was super smart, accomplished, goal oriented, basically achieved everything she set her mind to. But she was so rigid in her thinking and could not tolerate any little thing that did not go her way or was out of her control. In college, she had a series of unfortunate misunderstandings with a professor (not in a sexual way) and it ended in her dropping out for a year. We were very close at this point and she was tell me all the details of the incident and I could not for the life of me understand why she was so upset. She elevated the issue to the dean of the school and when she didn't get the resolution she wanted, she quit school. We haven't stayed in touch much after college but from what I could gather, at each step of her life and career, she had some misunderstanding with someone and went on a rampage. She was always the victim, and it became increasingly shocking, her accusations. I am not her but I cannot imagine that being a happy life.
Do not let your daughter become like my brilliant friend. Do not enable her. Get her to see reality and teach her not to take everything so damn personally. Should that have happened to her? hell no, but you need to teach her that life is not fair and she needs to pick her battles.
She sounds a little like that. She wants her life a specific certain way so that is why she is so upset about that she feels like it shattered her future and dreams. She doesn't have any other mental/physical issues. Even if so many people do not consider this SA, is a police report something they'd do in this situation or that the cops would allow?
Anonymous wrote:OP, based on what you have said about your DD, she reminds me of a childhood friend of mine. This girl was super smart, accomplished, goal oriented, basically achieved everything she set her mind to. But she was so rigid in her thinking and could not tolerate any little thing that did not go her way or was out of her control. In college, she had a series of unfortunate misunderstandings with a professor (not in a sexual way) and it ended in her dropping out for a year. We were very close at this point and she was tell me all the details of the incident and I could not for the life of me understand why she was so upset. She elevated the issue to the dean of the school and when she didn't get the resolution she wanted, she quit school. We haven't stayed in touch much after college but from what I could gather, at each step of her life and career, she had some misunderstanding with someone and went on a rampage. She was always the victim, and it became increasingly shocking, her accusations. I am not her but I cannot imagine that being a happy life.
Do not let your daughter become like my brilliant friend. Do not enable her. Get her to see reality and teach her not to take everything so damn personally. Should that have happened to her? hell no, but you need to teach her that life is not fair and she needs to pick her battles.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:DD doesn't want him in jail. Just something more than school punishment. I meant "Free" as in happy and carefree after hurting someone while she's hurt.
He already got punishment!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OP- She is having a hard time functioning and gets triggered to tears when she sees the SRO that refused at school now, reporting the cop and the kid is our endgame.
Anonymous wrote:HS DD was touched inappropriately on the bus 1 month ago. The cops will not let us press any charges. It wasn't going to be a felony sex crime but a misdemeanor and he switched up and said no. The school says we cannot access the video due to FERPA but it's part of her education record. What are our options.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:DD doesn't want him in jail. Just something more than school punishment. I meant "Free" as in happy and carefree after hurting someone while she's hurt.
He already got punishment!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!