Anonymous
Post 01/17/2025 19:36     Subject: Re:Brown

Anonymous wrote:I like both Brown and Yale. I have ties to both, though closer ones to Brown.

I do think Brown's location is one reason some students pick it over Yale. I actually like New Haven--lots of good bars and restaurants, but...

If you're a kid who hasn't lived in a city and especially if your parents haven't, Brown's location just seems safer than Yale's. I'm not sure what the data says; it may not be. But it certainly FEELS safer. If you visit by train, it feels safer to get from the train station to Brown than from the train station to Yale. My 17 year old self could not have coped with New Haven. It's a lot better now than it used to be, but still...given a choice between Providence and New Haven, I'd choose Providence in a heart beat. Of course, that doesn't mean lots of people won't choose Yale over Brown for other reasons.



New Haven feels SO seedy and sketchy, the poverty is sad.
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2025 19:12     Subject: Re:Brown

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Anonymous wrote:Brown just seems cooler than most of the other Ivies (my unhooked kid was accepted ED). Penn is huge, full of strivers, and at the admissions visit they described the school as a "mid-sized Ivy League school" 15x. Harvard and Princeton are ultra-elitist, and really play that up; Yale to a lesser extent. Dartmouth is a rural LAC with a huge Greek system, and Cornell is as big as a state school and very pre-professional. Of course half of HYP kids end up at soul-killing lucrative jobs in finance and consulting; there's a ton of peer pressure to do that sort of thing. Brown seems elite but not elitist, and far fewer students feel forced into finance, cs, consulting and so on. Above all, it just seems like a school that knows what it is and is comfortable being what it is: it is not trying to be Harvard or Princeton, and it doesn't play up its status as an Ivy league institution. The kids seem happy and love being there. Only Yale seems to have a little bit of the same feel, though it is more exclusive and elitist.


My DD chose Brown over Yale last year for these reasons. She loves it and knows she made the right choice.


Sounds awfully self-serving since the “reasons” are neither compelling nor well articulated. Few students would turn down Yale for Brown.


About 28% of kids that get into both go to brown.


So 72% go to Yale. That's about what you'd expect. Most see past the "elite but not elitist" rhetoric, which comes across as a vain exercise in trying to have one's cake and eat it too.


No - 72% do not go to Yale, because they also go other places. People do not apply to Brown and Yale and no other schools.


These are preference surveys so by your logic 28% don't go to Brown.

We all know most with a choice, including those whose choice boiled down to those two schools, would pick Yale. It's not even a close call for most.


This is a bizarre use of your time and energy. You must ask yourself, "why does it bother me so much that someone would make a decision different from what I would make?"
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2025 19:05     Subject: Brown

Do you all even hear yourselves?
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2025 18:56     Subject: Brown

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Anonymous wrote:Brown is having a moment, and I honestly think it's moving up. Rankings will take a long time to indicate this (things move very slowly on that front), but perception is trending upward now, and that is the predictor. Their choice to eliminate TO first among the Ivies will only help that, because it hurts the old "easy Ivy" reputation. While I know lots of kids shotgun the Ivies, the kid that truly wants and will succeed at Brown is different than those who want and will succeed at the others, and the AOs do look for it.


I don’t know about “moving up,” but Brown is the only Ivy either of my kids was/is interested in. Both found the open curriculum, high-achieving-but-non-competitive culture, and location unique/appealing. I really think the location piece is underrated—a true campus in the middle of a charming city is pretty unusual.

Agree with all of this. Top notch academics with collaborative culture, friendly atmosphere, STEM+arts. I also love Providence, and that the campus is a campus. Wish the Blue Room was open in afternoon or there was a coffee place with comfy seating, but that's about it. Amazing experiences with professors and students. Great FA. Very happy.


Great FA? Then your kid definitely did not get accepted to HPSM. Brown's financial aid is horrible compared to other peer schools. They say they don't consider home equity, but they must use a very different formula than the more generous schools (that also don't consider home equity). My DC really loved Brown, but couldn't turn down HYP. Financial aid at Brown was also terrible. Would've had to pay nearly 20k more.


They don't consider home equity. FA is different for different folks. Brown was same COA as another Ivy and less than another T10. Oddly, Wesleyan gave us phenomenal aid.

Friend's kid got into Yale and Columbia, and Yale was significantly more. That kid wanted Brown but did not get accepted.
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2025 18:55     Subject: Re:Brown

Anonymous wrote:I like both Brown and Yale. I have ties to both, though closer ones to Brown.

I do think Brown's location is one reason some students pick it over Yale. I actually like New Haven--lots of good bars and restaurants, but...

If you're a kid who hasn't lived in a city and especially if your parents haven't, Brown's location just seems safer than Yale's. I'm not sure what the data says; it may not be. But it certainly FEELS safer. If you visit by train, it feels safer to get from the train station to Brown than from the train station to Yale. My 17 year old self could not have coped with New Haven. It's a lot better now than it used to be, but still...given a choice between Providence and New Haven, I'd choose Providence in a heart beat. Of course, that doesn't mean lots of people won't choose Yale over Brown for other reasons.



Providence is my favorite small city in the US. I love the location, restaurants, small shops, local bars, river down the middle, and location close to the coast. I also love New Haven, but it is really gritty outside of the yale/italian end areas. Providence is also gritty, but there are many nicer areas in the city. Also Bentara is no longer open in New Haven which is a bummer. If you go to Brown, eat as Massimos!
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2025 18:01     Subject: Re:Brown

Anonymous wrote:I like both Brown and Yale. I have ties to both, though closer ones to Brown.

I do think Brown's location is one reason some students pick it over Yale. I actually like New Haven--lots of good bars and restaurants, but...

If you're a kid who hasn't lived in a city and especially if your parents haven't, Brown's location just seems safer than Yale's. I'm not sure what the data says; it may not be. But it certainly FEELS safer. If you visit by train, it feels safer to get from the train station to Brown than from the train station to Yale. My 17 year old self could not have coped with New Haven. It's a lot better now than it used to be, but still...given a choice between Providence and New Haven, I'd choose Providence in a heart beat. Of course, that doesn't mean lots of people won't choose Yale over Brown for other reasons.



This makes sense to me. Just from reading Reddit threads (so with a grain of salt, but still) there are a lot of Yale students who will candidly tell you that New Haven is unsafe and the amount of crime not far from campus wears on them. Providence seems more secure, not that it's all great. I went to grad school at Columbia, and found Morningside Heights far safer than some people suggest, in part because there's just so much pedestrian traffic at all hours. But New Haven doesn't have the same density, so you presumably get the criminals without as many good Samaritans.
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2025 17:41     Subject: Re:Brown

I like both Brown and Yale. I have ties to both, though closer ones to Brown.

I do think Brown's location is one reason some students pick it over Yale. I actually like New Haven--lots of good bars and restaurants, but...

If you're a kid who hasn't lived in a city and especially if your parents haven't, Brown's location just seems safer than Yale's. I'm not sure what the data says; it may not be. But it certainly FEELS safer. If you visit by train, it feels safer to get from the train station to Brown than from the train station to Yale. My 17 year old self could not have coped with New Haven. It's a lot better now than it used to be, but still...given a choice between Providence and New Haven, I'd choose Providence in a heart beat. Of course, that doesn't mean lots of people won't choose Yale over Brown for other reasons.

Anonymous
Post 01/17/2025 17:27     Subject: Brown

FWIW my Daughter read "Getting into Brown" by Montauk and it worked. High stats, etc
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2025 17:19     Subject: Re:Brown

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Anonymous wrote:Brown just seems cooler than most of the other Ivies (my unhooked kid was accepted ED). Penn is huge, full of strivers, and at the admissions visit they described the school as a "mid-sized Ivy League school" 15x. Harvard and Princeton are ultra-elitist, and really play that up; Yale to a lesser extent. Dartmouth is a rural LAC with a huge Greek system, and Cornell is as big as a state school and very pre-professional. Of course half of HYP kids end up at soul-killing lucrative jobs in finance and consulting; there's a ton of peer pressure to do that sort of thing. Brown seems elite but not elitist, and far fewer students feel forced into finance, cs, consulting and so on. Above all, it just seems like a school that knows what it is and is comfortable being what it is: it is not trying to be Harvard or Princeton, and it doesn't play up its status as an Ivy league institution. The kids seem happy and love being there. Only Yale seems to have a little bit of the same feel, though it is more exclusive and elitist.


My DD chose Brown over Yale last year for these reasons. She loves it and knows she made the right choice.


Sounds awfully self-serving since the “reasons” are neither compelling nor well articulated. Few students would turn down Yale for Brown.


About 28% of kids that get into both go to brown.


So 72% go to Yale. That's about what you'd expect. Most see past the "elite but not elitist" rhetoric, which comes across as a vain exercise in trying to have one's cake and eat it too.


No - 72% do not go to Yale, because they also go other places. People do not apply to Brown and Yale and no other schools.


These are preference surveys so by your logic 28% don't go to Brown.

We all know most with a choice, including those whose choice boiled down to those two schools, would pick Yale. It's not even a close call for most.
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2025 16:33     Subject: Brown

Flush it DOWN
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2025 16:31     Subject: Re:Brown

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Anonymous wrote:Brown just seems cooler than most of the other Ivies (my unhooked kid was accepted ED). Penn is huge, full of strivers, and at the admissions visit they described the school as a "mid-sized Ivy League school" 15x. Harvard and Princeton are ultra-elitist, and really play that up; Yale to a lesser extent. Dartmouth is a rural LAC with a huge Greek system, and Cornell is as big as a state school and very pre-professional. Of course half of HYP kids end up at soul-killing lucrative jobs in finance and consulting; there's a ton of peer pressure to do that sort of thing. Brown seems elite but not elitist, and far fewer students feel forced into finance, cs, consulting and so on. Above all, it just seems like a school that knows what it is and is comfortable being what it is: it is not trying to be Harvard or Princeton, and it doesn't play up its status as an Ivy league institution. The kids seem happy and love being there. Only Yale seems to have a little bit of the same feel, though it is more exclusive and elitist.


My DD chose Brown over Yale last year for these reasons. She loves it and knows she made the right choice.


Sounds awfully self-serving since the “reasons” are neither compelling nor well articulated. Few students would turn down Yale for Brown.


About 28% of kids that get into both go to brown.


So 72% go to Yale. That's about what you'd expect. Most see past the "elite but not elitist" rhetoric, which comes across as a vain exercise in trying to have one's cake and eat it too.

+1, People here are very delusional. Brown is just as elitist as any other elite school. Sure, the kids are more “artsy” but art fields are about as elitist as they come.
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2025 16:30     Subject: Re:Brown

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Anonymous wrote:Brown just seems cooler than most of the other Ivies (my unhooked kid was accepted ED). Penn is huge, full of strivers, and at the admissions visit they described the school as a "mid-sized Ivy League school" 15x. Harvard and Princeton are ultra-elitist, and really play that up; Yale to a lesser extent. Dartmouth is a rural LAC with a huge Greek system, and Cornell is as big as a state school and very pre-professional. Of course half of HYP kids end up at soul-killing lucrative jobs in finance and consulting; there's a ton of peer pressure to do that sort of thing. Brown seems elite but not elitist, and far fewer students feel forced into finance, cs, consulting and so on. Above all, it just seems like a school that knows what it is and is comfortable being what it is: it is not trying to be Harvard or Princeton, and it doesn't play up its status as an Ivy league institution. The kids seem happy and love being there. Only Yale seems to have a little bit of the same feel, though it is more exclusive and elitist.


My DD chose Brown over Yale last year for these reasons. She loves it and knows she made the right choice.


Sounds awfully self-serving since the “reasons” are neither compelling nor well articulated. Few students would turn down Yale for Brown.


About 28% of kids that get into both go to brown.


So 72% go to Yale. That's about what you'd expect. Most see past the "elite but not elitist" rhetoric, which comes across as a vain exercise in trying to have one's cake and eat it too.


No - 72% do not go to Yale, because they also go other places. People do not apply to Brown and Yale and no other schools.
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2025 16:27     Subject: Re:Brown

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Anonymous wrote:Brown just seems cooler than most of the other Ivies (my unhooked kid was accepted ED). Penn is huge, full of strivers, and at the admissions visit they described the school as a "mid-sized Ivy League school" 15x. Harvard and Princeton are ultra-elitist, and really play that up; Yale to a lesser extent. Dartmouth is a rural LAC with a huge Greek system, and Cornell is as big as a state school and very pre-professional. Of course half of HYP kids end up at soul-killing lucrative jobs in finance and consulting; there's a ton of peer pressure to do that sort of thing. Brown seems elite but not elitist, and far fewer students feel forced into finance, cs, consulting and so on. Above all, it just seems like a school that knows what it is and is comfortable being what it is: it is not trying to be Harvard or Princeton, and it doesn't play up its status as an Ivy league institution. The kids seem happy and love being there. Only Yale seems to have a little bit of the same feel, though it is more exclusive and elitist.


My DD chose Brown over Yale last year for these reasons. She loves it and knows she made the right choice.


Sounds awfully self-serving since the “reasons” are neither compelling nor well articulated. Few students would turn down Yale for Brown.


About 28% of kids that get into both go to brown.


So 72% go to Yale. That's about what you'd expect. Most see past the "elite but not elitist" rhetoric, which comes across as a vain exercise in trying to have one's cake and eat it too.
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2025 16:20     Subject: Re:Brown

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Anonymous wrote:Brown just seems cooler than most of the other Ivies (my unhooked kid was accepted ED). Penn is huge, full of strivers, and at the admissions visit they described the school as a "mid-sized Ivy League school" 15x. Harvard and Princeton are ultra-elitist, and really play that up; Yale to a lesser extent. Dartmouth is a rural LAC with a huge Greek system, and Cornell is as big as a state school and very pre-professional. Of course half of HYP kids end up at soul-killing lucrative jobs in finance and consulting; there's a ton of peer pressure to do that sort of thing. Brown seems elite but not elitist, and far fewer students feel forced into finance, cs, consulting and so on. Above all, it just seems like a school that knows what it is and is comfortable being what it is: it is not trying to be Harvard or Princeton, and it doesn't play up its status as an Ivy league institution. The kids seem happy and love being there. Only Yale seems to have a little bit of the same feel, though it is more exclusive and elitist.


My DD chose Brown over Yale last year for these reasons. She loves it and knows she made the right choice.


Sounds awfully self-serving since the “reasons” are neither compelling nor well articulated. Few students would turn down Yale for Brown.


About 28% of kids that get into both go to brown.
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2025 14:26     Subject: Re:Brown

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Anonymous wrote:Brown just seems cooler than most of the other Ivies (my unhooked kid was accepted ED). Penn is huge, full of strivers, and at the admissions visit they described the school as a "mid-sized Ivy League school" 15x. Harvard and Princeton are ultra-elitist, and really play that up; Yale to a lesser extent. Dartmouth is a rural LAC with a huge Greek system, and Cornell is as big as a state school and very pre-professional. Of course half of HYP kids end up at soul-killing lucrative jobs in finance and consulting; there's a ton of peer pressure to do that sort of thing. Brown seems elite but not elitist, and far fewer students feel forced into finance, cs, consulting and so on. Above all, it just seems like a school that knows what it is and is comfortable being what it is: it is not trying to be Harvard or Princeton, and it doesn't play up its status as an Ivy league institution. The kids seem happy and love being there. Only Yale seems to have a little bit of the same feel, though it is more exclusive and elitist.


My DD chose Brown over Yale last year for these reasons. She loves it and knows she made the right choice.


Sounds awfully self-serving since the “reasons” are neither compelling nor well articulated. Few students would turn down Yale for Brown.


Hmm. Maybe you and other striver-ey parents should follow her wisdom. She said that it isn't a competition to get into and go to the most selective school that she can. That her goal is to find where she thinks she will be the most happy-- the school that provides most of what she is looking for. For her, being at a school that demonstrates collaborative learning vs. a competitive atmosphere was important, as she wanted a school filled with super smart kids but that didn't feel elitist. She is certainly not the only kid who had the option of both and chose Brown. She did like Yale, she just didn't like it as much as Brown.