Anonymous wrote:If OP was my real life friend, I would definitely want her to keep her eyes on her life and deciding what’s best for her and her kids.

But since this is the internet, and I love a good train, I forward to the next chapters.

If OP was my friend, I’d be helping her plot her spectacular revenge.

Id want to do the same as OP. I will say, I've seen this situation go South at my job. Similar situation to OP (though as far as I know she wasn't pregnant). She decided to play the victim care even though she wasn't really a subordinate. Her husband and many coworkers seemed to fall for it hook line and sinker. The guy was destroyed and she came off as the victim. Didn't feel bad for him as he had a wife and 3 kids. Last I knew she was trying to sue, but I left that job and didn't stay in contact with anyone.

Just pointing out that hopefully it will go the way OP wants. But it may not and it would probably be infuriating to her if the AP played this game.

Anonymous wrote:If this is all true and AP is (according to the other thread) in her second trimester, this is going to be a 10 on the Richter scale when that H finds out. Separation, paternity test, etc. Yikes, I would not want to be this chick.

She’s a dumb Ho. She deserves everything coming

As someone who was cheated on multiple times and not told until several years in I really do want OP to tell the other husband. I had made many career plans thinking I was in a relationship ( late 20s) and ended up having to backtrack a lot of plans when I found out. Luckily no kids but the health consequences were there. Good luck OP

Anonymous wrote:
I am Team OP.

You women wanting to protect the AP are fools.

Me too. I’m Sicilian. You all fk’d with the wrong woman if you did that to me and my family.

Go OP !!!

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Anonymous wrote:OP - I slept with your husband bc DH and I have an open marriage. Feel free to tell him. I honored the commitments I made to my DH, I'm sorry your spouse didn't do the same for you. Last I check - I was not part of your wedding vows and made no commitments to you about who I would or wouldn't sleep with

Good luck with your new job hunting!

Its fascinating you think people get fired over this. Unless there is a boss / subordinate dynamic....they're not. Workplaces don't get involved with whether someone should be morally sleeping with someone else - if dating is allowed (as it is almost everywhere now except where there are power differentials) then affairs are also allowed.

If this is all true and AP is (according to the other thread) in her second trimester, this is going to be a 10 on the Richter scale when that H finds out. Separation, paternity test, etc. Yikes, I would not want to be this chick.

Anonymous wrote:OP - I slept with your husband bc DH and I have an open marriage. Feel free to tell him. I honored the commitments I made to my DH, I'm sorry your spouse didn't do the same for you. Last I check - I was not part of your wedding vows and made no commitments to you about who I would or wouldn't sleep with

If it’s a career ending decision I guess you really showed her! Oh, wait….

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I need to know how this ends, OP, even if you're just making it up.

Give us a good ending.

I’m dying to know who the father is.

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Anonymous wrote:This thread made me think of the poster who popped the Christmas decorations in her husband’s AP’s yard.

Link please

It was super long ago. Some old timers might be able to help.

Anonymous wrote:OP - I slept with your husband bc DH and I have an open marriage. Feel free to tell him. I honored the commitments I made to my DH, I'm sorry your spouse didn't do the same for you. Last I check - I was not part of your wedding vows and made no commitments to you about who I would or wouldn't sleep with

Very nice development. Please continue.

Anonymous wrote:This thread made me think of the poster who popped the Christmas decorations in her husband’s AP’s yard.

Link please

I need to know how this ends, OP, even if you're just making it up.

Give us a good ending.

Anonymous wrote:OP - I slept with your husband bc DH and I have an open marriage. Feel free to tell him. I honored the commitments I made to my DH, I'm sorry your spouse didn't do the same for you. Last I check - I was not part of your wedding vows and made no commitments to you about who I would or wouldn't sleep with

There is at least one angry cheater up in this thread. Haha!

Anonymous wrote:OP - I slept with your husband bc DH and I have an open marriage. Feel free to tell him. I honored the commitments I made to my DH, I'm sorry your spouse didn't do the same for you. Last I check - I was not part of your wedding vows and made no commitments to you about who I would or wouldn't sleep with

wow, such a classy person. /s