Anonymous
Post 09/06/2023 10:50     Subject: Crop tops
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Some of the boys (and girls?) in my kid’s class would love for her to show off her belly button.

We don’t need these kids lusting after each other during school, any more than they already do.

It’s a place of learning! And socializing! But leave the romantic stuff out of our middle school. A huge distraction, seriously.


Lusting after the scar of the umbilical cord?!?

Men wore crop tops all the times in the 70’s and 80’s.

It’s no big deal


Agree. I have never understood why people want to sexual the torso
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2023 10:00     Subject: Crop tops
Anonymous wrote:From VA court dress code:

Backs, midriffs, and stomachs are to be covered at all times.

https://www.vacourts.gov/courts/combined/Salem/attire.pdf


1. You can still wear form fitting clothing so lawyers in tight dresses is a a-ok
2. No one said you could wear a crop top in court
3. We are talking about school which is FAR more casual than a court room
4. If you have issues with kids wearing crop tops in school, that is YOUR problem, not theirs.
5. Sounds like you need to send your kids to a school with a dress code
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2023 09:27     Subject: Crop tops
MCPS doesn’t have a dress code. Biggest thing is hate on hoodies.

The girls wear crop tops, Lulu tops, spandex workout tops, Daisy dukes etc… Nothing that’s worse than what we wore in 80/90’s.
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2023 01:27     Subject: Crop tops
From VA court dress code:

Backs, midriffs, and stomachs are to be covered at all times.

https://www.vacourts.gov/courts/combined/Salem/attire.pdf
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2023 01:22     Subject: Crop tops
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Old thread but I am only now seeing it. My kid, 13 (8th grade), has been asking to wear them. She has a few that are all in the long side (ie only shows an inch of skin if she lifts her arms up) but I said no. She can wear it at home but not at school. But then a few days ago I was picking her up from a sports practice and some Middle school kids were watching - I was totally surprised that a crew of her friends were wearing really revealing crop tops. They basically looked like bras. And my DD says this is exactly how they come to school. It's completely inappropriate. Can't the schools do something?


Do what? Who cares what kids wear to school.

Do we also tell girls to cover up on the beach.

I mean stop making it seem like boys can’t control themselves and that is girls faults. Shaming women is old school sweetie


Do you go to work in crop tops often because you’re an “empowered women” and men should learn to control themselves? You totally misunderstand what the argument is about. Kids should learn what it means to dress appropriately for the occasion. Couldn’t care less about a navel showing, but I expect my child to know that what’s fine to wear at the beach might not be ok at school. Also she needs to make her own judgement, and not follow blindly some group of ‘cool’ girls at school. Also, it’s perfectly fine to not be craving boys attention at all times.

It’s all about having some basic social skills.


Nah - you keep talking about clothes like girls/woman only do it to get boy's attention which is unreal. You trying to act likes woman's clothes decide how disgusting men are going to be. Victim blaming

You need to go to a "What Where You Wearing" exhibit

And there are PLENTY of jobs wear people can wear crop tops and I have seen lawyers wear skin tight dresses that show every curve of their body and stilettos. Who cares?

I raise my family to never judge a person base on their clothes or anything else exterior about them.


THIS!!!
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2023 00:57     Subject: Crop tops
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Old thread but I am only now seeing it. My kid, 13 (8th grade), has been asking to wear them. She has a few that are all in the long side (ie only shows an inch of skin if she lifts her arms up) but I said no. She can wear it at home but not at school. But then a few days ago I was picking her up from a sports practice and some Middle school kids were watching - I was totally surprised that a crew of her friends were wearing really revealing crop tops. They basically looked like bras. And my DD says this is exactly how they come to school. It's completely inappropriate. Can't the schools do something?


Do what? Who cares what kids wear to school.

Do we also tell girls to cover up on the beach.

I mean stop making it seem like boys can’t control themselves and that is girls faults. Shaming women is old school sweetie


Do you go to work in crop tops often because you’re an “empowered women” and men should learn to control themselves? You totally misunderstand what the argument is about. Kids should learn what it means to dress appropriately for the occasion. Couldn’t care less about a navel showing, but I expect my child to know that what’s fine to wear at the beach might not be ok at school. Also she needs to make her own judgement, and not follow blindly some group of ‘cool’ girls at school. Also, it’s perfectly fine to not be craving boys attention at all times.

It’s all about having some basic social skills.


Nah - you keep talking about clothes like girls/woman only do it to get boy's attention which is unreal. You trying to act likes woman's clothes decide how disgusting men are going to be. Victim blaming

You need to go to a "What Where You Wearing" exhibit

And there are PLENTY of jobs wear people can wear crop tops and I have seen lawyers wear skin tight dresses that show every curve of their body and stilettos. Who cares?

I raise my family to never judge a person base on their clothes or anything else exterior about them.


You go girl! These f-in disgusting men, victim blaming and stuff. Where did you see those lawyers in tight dresses and stilettos, strip clubs? Pro tip, those were strippers not lawyers. FYI, among all professions, lawyers tend to dress the most conservatively, because that’s the social expectation and norm, you couldn’t have chosen a worse example. You’re so dumb you’re not even aware that all courts have a dress code, literally proving the point I was making.

Of the ‘plenty’ of jobs where women wear crop tops, can you name a single respectable one?

Anonymous
Post 09/06/2023 00:23     Subject: Crop tops
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Old thread but I am only now seeing it. My kid, 13 (8th grade), has been asking to wear them. She has a few that are all in the long side (ie only shows an inch of skin if she lifts her arms up) but I said no. She can wear it at home but not at school. But then a few days ago I was picking her up from a sports practice and some Middle school kids were watching - I was totally surprised that a crew of her friends were wearing really revealing crop tops. They basically looked like bras. And my DD says this is exactly how they come to school. It's completely inappropriate. Can't the schools do something?


Do what? Who cares what kids wear to school.

Do we also tell girls to cover up on the beach.

I mean stop making it seem like boys can’t control themselves and that is girls faults. Shaming women is old school sweetie


Do you go to work in crop tops often because you’re an “empowered women” and men should learn to control themselves? You totally misunderstand what the argument is about. Kids should learn what it means to dress appropriately for the occasion. Couldn’t care less about a navel showing, but I expect my child to know that what’s fine to wear at the beach might not be ok at school. Also she needs to make her own judgement, and not follow blindly some group of ‘cool’ girls at school. Also, it’s perfectly fine to not be craving boys attention at all times.

It’s all about having some basic social skills.


Nah - you keep talking about clothes like girls/woman only do it to get boy's attention which is unreal. You trying to act likes woman's clothes decide how disgusting men are going to be. Victim blaming

You need to go to a "What Where You Wearing" exhibit

And there are PLENTY of jobs wear people can wear crop tops and I have seen lawyers wear skin tight dresses that show every curve of their body and stilettos. Who cares?

I raise my family to never judge a person base on their clothes or anything else exterior about them.
Anonymous
Post 09/05/2023 22:28     Subject: Crop tops
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Old thread but I am only now seeing it. My kid, 13 (8th grade), has been asking to wear them. She has a few that are all in the long side (ie only shows an inch of skin if she lifts her arms up) but I said no. She can wear it at home but not at school. But then a few days ago I was picking her up from a sports practice and some Middle school kids were watching - I was totally surprised that a crew of her friends were wearing really revealing crop tops. They basically looked like bras. And my DD says this is exactly how they come to school. It's completely inappropriate. Can't the schools do something?


Do what? Who cares what kids wear to school.

Do we also tell girls to cover up on the beach.

I mean stop making it seem like boys can’t control themselves and that is girls faults. Shaming women is old school sweetie


Do you go to work in crop tops often because you’re an “empowered women” and men should learn to control themselves? You totally misunderstand what the argument is about. Kids should learn what it means to dress appropriately for the occasion. Couldn’t care less about a navel showing, but I expect my child to know that what’s fine to wear at the beach might not be ok at school. Also she needs to make her own judgement, and not follow blindly some group of ‘cool’ girls at school. Also, it’s perfectly fine to not be craving boys attention at all times.

It’s all about having some basic social skills.
Anonymous
Post 09/05/2023 21:58     Subject: Crop tops
Anonymous wrote:Some of the boys (and girls?) in my kid’s class would love for her to show off her belly button.

We don’t need these kids lusting after each other during school, any more than they already do.

It’s a place of learning! And socializing! But leave the romantic stuff out of our middle school. A huge distraction, seriously.


Lusting after the scar of the umbilical cord?!?

Men wore crop tops all the times in the 70’s and 80’s.

It’s no big deal
Anonymous
Post 09/05/2023 21:22     Subject: Crop tops
Some of the boys (and girls?) in my kid’s class would love for her to show off her belly button.

We don’t need these kids lusting after each other during school, any more than they already do.

It’s a place of learning! And socializing! But leave the romantic stuff out of our middle school. A huge distraction, seriously.
Anonymous
Post 09/05/2023 21:13     Subject: Crop tops
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Old thread but I am only now seeing it. My kid, 13 (8th grade), has been asking to wear them. She has a few that are all in the long side (ie only shows an inch of skin if she lifts her arms up) but I said no. She can wear it at home but not at school. But then a few days ago I was picking her up from a sports practice and some Middle school kids were watching - I was totally surprised that a crew of her friends were wearing really revealing crop tops. They basically looked like bras. And my DD says this is exactly how they come to school. It's completely inappropriate. Can't the schools do something?


Do what? Who cares what kids wear to school.

Do we also tell girls to cover up on the beach.

I mean stop making it seem like boys can’t control themselves and that is girls faults. Shaming women is old school sweetie


I told my daughter she can wear one on the beach or on weekends as long as she wears sunscreen. But in school, in shared desks and chairs and riding the bus, no we don't have bare mid sections. I don't think boys should wear crop tops to school either.
Anonymous
Post 09/05/2023 21:13     Subject: Crop tops
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Old thread but I am only now seeing it. My kid, 13 (8th grade), has been asking to wear them. She has a few that are all in the long side (ie only shows an inch of skin if she lifts her arms up) but I said no. She can wear it at home but not at school. But then a few days ago I was picking her up from a sports practice and some Middle school kids were watching - I was totally surprised that a crew of her friends were wearing really revealing crop tops. They basically looked like bras. And my DD says this is exactly how they come to school. It's completely inappropriate. Can't the schools do something?


Do what? Who cares what kids wear to school.

Do we also tell girls to cover up on the beach.

I mean stop making it seem like boys can’t control themselves and that is girls faults. Shaming women is old school sweetie


As long as you don’t squawk when the boys come to school in speedos.
Anonymous
Post 09/05/2023 18:34     Subject: Crop tops
Anonymous wrote:Old thread but I am only now seeing it. My kid, 13 (8th grade), has been asking to wear them. She has a few that are all in the long side (ie only shows an inch of skin if she lifts her arms up) but I said no. She can wear it at home but not at school. But then a few days ago I was picking her up from a sports practice and some Middle school kids were watching - I was totally surprised that a crew of her friends were wearing really revealing crop tops. They basically looked like bras. And my DD says this is exactly how they come to school. It's completely inappropriate. Can't the schools do something?


Do what? Who cares what kids wear to school.

Do we also tell girls to cover up on the beach.

I mean stop making it seem like boys can’t control themselves and that is girls faults. Shaming women is old school sweetie
Anonymous
Post 09/05/2023 18:20     Subject: Crop tops
Old thread but I am only now seeing it. My kid, 13 (8th grade), has been asking to wear them. She has a few that are all in the long side (ie only shows an inch of skin if she lifts her arms up) but I said no. She can wear it at home but not at school. But then a few days ago I was picking her up from a sports practice and some Middle school kids were watching - I was totally surprised that a crew of her friends were wearing really revealing crop tops. They basically looked like bras. And my DD says this is exactly how they come to school. It's completely inappropriate. Can't the schools do something?
Anonymous
Post 08/13/2023 18:26     Subject: Crop tops
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It’s gross that people think little girls should show their navel while at the grocery store etc. bad parenting and I guarantee you these same posters will be posting when their daughters accidentally get pregnant in 10th grade.


OH NO NOT THE BELLY BUTTON!!! HOW DARE LITTLE GIRLS DISPLAY THEIR LITTLE BELLY BUTTONS IN PUBLIC!!! MEN WILL START MASTURBATING IN THE MIDDLE OF THE GROCERY STORE!!!

You people sound insane.


I think we‘ve identified the Toddlers in Tiaras momma.