Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 22:42     Subject: Friendly reminder that 90% of divorces are filed by college-educated women
Anonymous wrote:This is why marriage is a done deal. Men stand to lose half their stuff, access to kids and be miserable.

Also remember that gay couples have low divorce rates as men like to fix things, lesbian couples have divorce rates similar to or more than heterosexual couples. So it’s women who can’t stand being in a marriage even if it’s to the same gender.

For guys, there’s no reason to be married . Level up, get financially secure and aspire to be the top 5%, as all the women chase that top 5%. Then you can just sleep with who you want even if they’re married.

For those guys who haven’t leveled up to at least a 7 get to work. You’ll find your options are really open once you do.


I think I’ve leveled up to a 8 or 9 (looks, career, NW) and honestly I don’t think I’ll ever get married. Too much hassle. Besides I’m having way to much fun dating girls 15+ years younger than me.
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 22:35     Subject: Friendly reminder that 90% of divorces are filed by college-educated women
This is why I have as air tight a pre-nup as money can buy. Many of the posters on this thread are exactly the types I would avoid.
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 22:24     Subject: Friendly reminder that 90% of divorces are filed by college-educated women
Missouri just passed a law women pregnant can not divorce

Yeah you morons are going to crush women’s rights

Divorce you won’t even have your own bank accounts once the Soeaker of the house gets his way

Mark my words divorce lol nope idiots women who still vote red brain dead morons
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 22:23     Subject: Re:Friendly reminder that 90% of divorces are filed by college-educated women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Lesbians get divorced at higher rates than gay men. Women have higher expectations for marriage. It's as simple as that.


I disagree with this -- I think women have unrealistic expectations for marriage, particularly post-kids. They let the intimacy wither and die and then wonder why DH isn't feeling romantic/connected with them. I know lots of women who also make parenting choices that trap them into "Mom does it all" dynamics but they won't do anything to extricate themselves from those patterns because of...anxiety? Control issues? Internalized misogyny?

If you don't tolerate dead bedrooms, and if you don't create parenting dynamics and patterns that trap you into resentment, you're much more likely to have a successful marriage.

-woman


Gosh darn it. Why didn’t those women do all the day to day stuff and create parenting rules, dynamics and patterns and try to get their partner involved more. Gosh darn it. Just tell your male partner what needs doing, and he will always be involved! Voila!
Oh and don’t have a dead bedroom, while creating your 50/50 magical parenting dynamic keep at it!
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 22:20     Subject: Friendly reminder that 90% of divorces are filed by college-educated women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What is up with them? Why can’t they handle marriage?


Where is this data posted?

. . .


Figure it out, honey:

https://www.whitleylawfirmpc.com/3-reasons-why-women-initiate-divorce-more-often-than-men/
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 22:20     Subject: Friendly reminder that 90% of divorces are filed by college-educated women
Women who don’t go to college don’t get married as often. They live together.
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 22:19     Subject: Re:Friendly reminder that 90% of divorces are filed by college-educated women
Anonymous wrote:Where is this statistic coming from? Also, often it's just that women are used to doing the paperwork for this and have their own assets they want to protect. If you don't have any assets, why would you pay to file? Paying to file doesn't mean that you want out more than the other person. This is what I don't get. It just means you want the best deal in the divorce. You want to control the divorce more.


NP.

Why are you asking? Feeling defensive??

Here is the bulk of it:

https://www.whitleylawfirmpc.com/3-reasons-why-women-initiate-divorce-more-often-than-men/

Go google “divorces filed by college educated women vs other women”
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 22:18     Subject: Friendly reminder that 90% of divorces are filed by college-educated women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What is up with them? Why can’t they handle marriage?


Imho too much to juggle, kids, husband, education, career, birth family, in-laws, friends, colleagues, finances, household, sex, health, paperwork, social media etc etc. It becomes too much to juggle and still manage good marital life. It feels easier to leave and restart than manage and fix, specially if there are other options out there.


Just check out like the husband already has. He doesn’t care, she doesn’t have to care either. The school can raise the kids.
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 21:13     Subject: Friendly reminder that 90% of divorces are filed by college-educated women
Anonymous wrote:they reach a point where their life would actually improve if they got a divorce -- they would do less childcare, less household labor, have more free time.

Since they presumably have a good income, the incentive to stay in an unfair marriage is much less.


This.

They have no reason to stay.
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 21:12     Subject: Friendly reminder that 90% of divorces are filed by college-educated women
Anonymous wrote:https://www.whitleylawfirmpc.com/3-reasons-why-women-initiate-divorce-more-often-than-men/


+1

And 4) men who want to divorce are too lazy to file paperwork or make calls, so they do the passive aggressive thing and get cruel, trying to make married life unbearable for the wife so that she files. Plus that plays into their I’m a Victim false narrative.
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 21:10     Subject: Friendly reminder that 90% of divorces are filed by college-educated women
Anonymous wrote:They're liberal minded chicken heads. They're making money and want the second husband to make more and more.


This is the way
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 21:06     Subject: Friendly reminder that 90% of divorces are filed by college-educated women
Women will not be getting divorced after 2025
And if they do they will walk away with zip.

They wrote this down.

Republicans any female that votes for one republican is stupid
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 21:04     Subject: Friendly reminder that 90% of divorces are filed by college-educated women
Anonymous wrote:What is up with them? Why can’t they handle marriage?


Where is this data posted?

I’d imagine college educated women who r need to put up with abusive spouses, or addicts, or adulterers. Unlike women of previous generations or non educated or working women or women from other countries do.
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 21:01     Subject: Friendly reminder that 90% of divorces are filed by college-educated women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Lol it’s not that they can’t handle it. It’s that they have enough income to have other options when things go south. And yes, some men don’t like that. See Steven Crowder.


This. They have the jobs and financial possibility to leave the men who dont pull their weight as partners.


+1 you treat me or our kids badly, we're out



Define badly


To the point that it’s better to lose half my stuff and face the cultural stigma of being a divorced woman/single mom than it is to live with you.
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 20:44     Subject: Friendly reminder that 90% of divorces are filed by college-educated women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What is up with them? Why can’t they handle marriage?



They probably can’t handle the fact their husbands cheated on them


It's not that they can't handle it, it's that they won't.