Dh’s friend used to have a hot au pair. I’m not sure if he was actually sleeping with her but he absolutely 100% wanted to. Our mutual friend had a party and for the first time ever, I thought that the party had hookers. It turned out the hot au pair came and brought some friends. They looked like call girls.

Anonymous wrote:I would never have another attractive woman working on my house. Why even create a temptation?

Well, any woman but being attractive increases risk.

Why would anyone want someone with no child care experience? Unless they’re just the creepy dads like the person with 7 year agency experience mentioned.

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Anonymous wrote:Depends what the man has to offer, especially after a divorce. If his net worth and earning potential will still be high after splitting assets, anything goes.

Please don’t act like women (especially those who are barely out of adolescence) approach relationships with the mindset of a venture capitalist.

Your misogyny is showing.

Lol, you really want to argue that financial stability and/or wealth are not important characteristics to women when assessing the attractiveness/viability of a male partner? Now THAT is funny!

We had 7 AP. 5 females and two males.

One of the males banged a few of our kids ES teachers and one or two of our married neighbors.

The females were all attractive- a couple gorgeous ones but when you live with these girls they are not really jumping out as a viable affair waiting to happen.

One, they all met plenty of boys their own age to date; second DH typically did not engage with them beyond professional discussions about their job and what they needed accommodation wise.
He had so little in common with 20 something girls there was no chance of them having any interest in him or vice versa.

My friend’s sister is the nanny who married Ethan Hawke.

Anonymous wrote:I didn’t know a single family growing up that had an affair. Knew one family divorced so maybe. It’s just unreal to me how common they are now. With so many people.

Sure you did they just didn’t tell the kids.

Anonymous wrote:Agency of 7 years here.

Never heard of an actual affair, but have had plenty of au pairs rematch for creepy dads....plenty.

Yes this. I was a nanny not an au pair and I met sooooo many creepy dads!! It’s the reason I left the field actually. Being a nanny in your 20s is hard for this reason!!

Why make life complicated ? Men are visual. I'd never have even a mildly attractive young au pair or nanny in my home.

Ours is a stunner.

Really? Any FMF sharing?

Anonymous wrote:Ours is a stunner.

Opinions vary

Anonymous wrote:The man was a window but basically that was the story line in A Sound of Music

A window?

I know two Easter European au pairs who used their jobs to meet men. Both are now married to high earning American men. That’s the American way

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Anonymous wrote:Not true. Many of these Au Pairs come from 3rd world countries. The are happy to sleep with a middle aged man who has money. Woodmont Country club actually banned Au Pairs from the pool for many years, as they were the cause of so many club sex scandals.

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Anonymous wrote:I would never have another attractive woman working on my house. Why even create a temptation?

I feel like the less attractive women are a bigger issue because they’re the ones willing to sleep with your DH. Really attractive young women don’t want anything to do with middle aged married men. They can find a hot, rich single man.

What? Really?

I just looked it up and it seems true.
They also ban nursing mothers from nursing anywhere except the “bride’s room.”

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Anonymous wrote:Not true. Many of these Au Pairs come from 3rd world countries. The are happy to sleep with a middle aged man who has money. Woodmont Country club actually banned Au Pairs from the pool for many years, as they were the cause of so many club sex scandals.

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Anonymous wrote:I would never have another attractive woman working on my house. Why even create a temptation?

I feel like the less attractive women are a bigger issue because they’re the ones willing to sleep with your DH. Really attractive young women don’t want anything to do with middle aged married men. They can find a hot, rich single man.

What? Really?