Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It's one thing to not like a few things here and there.
But "picky eating" is caused by shitty parenting 99% of the time.
Have you heard of ARFID? I'm not a shitty parent, I literally need professionals to help my kid eat. Must be nice to be you, head in the sand.
I am not a shitty parent but my child with ARFID thinks the food I prepare or offer her are "gross." When either of her grandmothers visit, she eats anything they give her -- from store cookies, to peanut butter sandwiches, to a fully cooked meal. She stays with one grandmother for several weeks i the summer and during school breaks so that she can gain weight. The minute she returns home the ARFID begins. No psychologist or psychiatrist has been able to determine why this occurs.
I'm not saying you are a bad parent. But it sounds like it's something in the home environment that is making her not want to eat. Are you super pushy with food? Anxious about her eating? I found myself flipping out internally when my kids wouldn't eat well- and I noticed if I wasn't relaxed about it then the problem would get worse.
Is she old enough to make her own food? Even PB&J? Maybe make her fully in control of what she eats and when. My 9 year old can cook soup, make scrambled eggs and his own sandwiches. I would fully stop cooking for her and let her be in control.