Anonymous wrote:It is bugging me that now friends -who I like!- have read her memoir and don’t know what a grifter con artist she is.

I have two IRL who have never hopped off the Jen train, from back when she wasn't as obnoxious as she is now. I die a little when I see them repost her stuff.

It is bugging me that now friends -who I like!- have read her memoir and don’t know what a grifter con artist she is.

Jen is such a bad actor. She worked herself up, filmed that, then rewatched it, probably twice, then felt it was good enough to post. Everything is a performance with this one.

Anonymous wrote:The histrionics in that video. The stuttering. The deep breaths. I didn’t watch the whole thing, but I imagine somewhere in there she probably said, “I I I texted Tyler, and I just said, ‘What (flails arms) what is happening right now?’”

“And then Tyler replied, ‘Hey. You have eyes.’; and…..(deep breath, long look to the side), I took a focl gummy, and….(smacks lips), I drank a bottle of wine……(pauses, touches glasses), wait, what were we talking about?”.

The histrionics in that video. The stuttering. The deep breaths. I didn’t watch the whole thing, but I imagine somewhere in there she probably said, “I I I texted Tyler, and I just said, ‘What (flails arms) what is happening right now?’”

I started to watch it and had to quit about 30 seconds in.

Absolutely agree! So performative, badly so.

Her latest video. The point is actually fine. The delivery just makes it unbearable.

He basically is belittling her for not getting a colonoscopy yet when she should have, as she is over 50--guidelines used to recommend 50 but now it's 45. Totally agree the post above about his drama with the polyps. He's acting like he's so much for having had one! I'll take him on anytime--I've had 16 in the last 16 years--because of colon cancer.

Jesus Mary and Joseph I just watched a smidge of Tyler talking about his colonoscopy and I have the worst case of the ick.

Not because colonoscopies are gross. It's them.

His annoying colonoscopy video🙄. He says “thank god I did it and they removed 5 non cancerous polyps” as if that was a risk or threat. They were non cancerous you idiot. When he said she was older and cut to the cougar sound effect, she looked devastated. He always puts her down as a joke but it’s not funny.

Jen holds up her life as to be some sort of aspirational goal for women. The perfect everything.

The perfect marriage (until it wasn't) was the biggest blemish. Brandon was "my guyyyyy, isn't he just the dreamiest?" until he was an emotionally abusive cheater addict. She wrote a whole "manifesto" about all the things then had her life imploded in a glorious fashion.

It's ridiculous that any woman would look to her as a teacher or aspirational figure. She is constitutionally incapable of true self-awareness because she's hardwired to only see herself as a girl boss Heroine or a betrayed Victim with no culpability.

The women I look up to are the complete opposite of Jen Hatmaker. She's a living breathing disaster of performative nonsense, barley suppressed desperation, brittle anger, cartoonish posing, and me me me! selfishness.

She's a dumb donkey too in that she is utterly unable to ever see these things and self-correct which makes for fun viewing on our end, that's for sure.

This. I can appreciate that she'd take her "perfect marriage" image as far as she could until she couldn't. This is a mirror of how most people approach the image of perfection on social media, influencer or not. Most people just aren't going to make posts that say "My relationship sucks and my partner is a narcissistic jackass who does nothing to help me."

The thing is, it makes me completely not believe one ounce of what she's trying to sell with her "boyfriend" and I find it so ridiculous that people actually do believe this charade. There is nothing romantic about the way they present themselves together. He is clearly not into her in that way and clearly not committed to being a part of her life unless there's some PR in it for him. I mean...live your lives and whatever but it baffles me that some of these women who follow her on social media gush about them being couple goals. Ew.

Here's Big Sass saying how proud he is of all of us!

What would we all do without him?

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZThLehfft/

Out of 47,000+ views on the post, only 44 comments. And they’re all RAVING how special and life changing the book was.

Me thinks her team must be going through delete overload.