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Anonymous wrote:https://www.justjared.com/2024/06/02/jennifer-lopez-joins-husband-ben-affleck-mother-in-law-christine-boldt-for-sunday-outing/

I would be disappointed if this was all just a stunt

A stunt for what? The divorce stunt was purportedly to boost the tour but the tour is now cancelled.

This is obviously real.

+1 and she looks really miserable

Ben is also infantilized due to his vices so it’s no surprise his mother and both Jens have to hunker down and surround him . That’s part of his problem .

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Anonymous wrote:https://www.justjared.com/2024/06/02/jennifer-lopez-joins-husband-ben-affleck-mother-in-law-christine-boldt-for-sunday-outing/

I would be disappointed if this was all just a stunt

A stunt for what? The divorce stunt was purportedly to boost the tour but the tour is now cancelled.

This is obviously real.

+1 and she looks really miserable

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I would be disappointed if this was all just a stunt

A stunt for what? The divorce stunt was purportedly to boost the tour but the tour is now cancelled.

This is obviously real.

https://www.justjared.com/2024/06/02/jennifer-lopez-joins-husband-ben-affleck-mother-in-law-christine-boldt-for-sunday-outing/

I would be disappointed if this was all just a stunt

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Anonymous wrote:How can anyone feel sorry for her, much less respect her, when she uses ghost singers on her albums? She does not deserve her success.

Stunt doubles are casted for difficult scenes in movies as well .

The entire entertainment business is full of artifice . Broadway is the real deal. Hwood and the music industry is not.

Does that mean she doesn’t deserve her success because she has background singers on her songs?

+1. The top "singers" today are really performers. Their fans don't care that they don't sing well, use autotune or use tracks with other voices.

Gotta agree. I just want to be entertained and have fun lol. As someone who saw her in Vegas she can't sing but has the stage presence

Her show is better than Madonna’s and Britney’s and Mariah’s even though their music is better . She’s a better dancer than Beyonce and Janet as well. They both gained weight and don’t move like they used to

I don’t get the J. Lo doesn’t have talent meme. She can dance and act.

The only thing she’s bad at is singing

She can’t sing or act. She can only dance.

Her music career is over. No one is interested in her music. Both her album and her tour flopped. The only career path I can see for her is to continue to produce/act in bad Netflix movies. Her Netflix movies are terrible, but people seem to watch them.

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Anonymous wrote:I think if Ben didn’t reach out to her, she would’ve absolutely worked through the scandal as it appears the cheating was only an emotional affair and the reality star had never actually traveled or met A Rod due to COVID.

J Los kids really loved A Rod. A Rod was also in Miami next to Marc Anthony so it worked out well for Jen. The fly in the ointment was Ben. His messages made her drop everything and dump A Rod ASAP instead of work things out

Arod was a good fit for her. She shined in the relationship but he also had his own star power. Cheating sucks and she didn't give herself or the kids time to recover

He isn’t a good fit if he initiated an emotional affair emailing that chick left and right while under one roof with J Lo and the kids during COVID. She wasn’t working her million+ jobs for once and he still sought out an AP.

She does everything right . Affectionate, keeps herself up, looks great but men still aren’t interested long term . I wonder if it’s the quality of the guys or something she’s doing that is a turn off

She chooses addicts and then tries to fix them by controlling them. That's what she's doing wrong.
She needs a healthy man who loves her, but she might need to compromise a bit on age, looks and excitement. Maybe someone like Sophia Vergara's man.

She can’t deal with someone old. She tours, does movies, and lives a jet setter lifestyle .

She needs someone youthful and not old and settled or stationary. She needs someone with some spring to their steps. Ben has youthful energy and so does A Rod.

You’re f g kidding me, right? She is OLD! I don’t know she everyone acts like she can get an above level younger man because she cannot. Ben gave her Hollywood status and now that is gone.

She's older and looks better then Hedi klum who married someone decades younger. She can get a younger man, especially a younger dancer. Someone like Mariah Carreys ex

So many men, so little time. That's quite a motto for living one life.

Perhaps but the men are the ones calling .
She didn’t prompt things with Ben or A Rod or any of her other exes. They initiate with her.


For some reason, she hates being alone and perhaps alone with the kids is even worse for her. She likes having a male partner but I don’t necessarily think it’s for sex addiction reasons but attention reasons. She’s like the Facebook friend who posts every boyfriend or relationship update by the minute

+1 PP here. Good points

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Anonymous wrote:I think if Ben didn’t reach out to her, she would’ve absolutely worked through the scandal as it appears the cheating was only an emotional affair and the reality star had never actually traveled or met A Rod due to COVID.

J Los kids really loved A Rod. A Rod was also in Miami next to Marc Anthony so it worked out well for Jen. The fly in the ointment was Ben. His messages made her drop everything and dump A Rod ASAP instead of work things out

Arod was a good fit for her. She shined in the relationship but he also had his own star power. Cheating sucks and she didn't give herself or the kids time to recover

He isn’t a good fit if he initiated an emotional affair emailing that chick left and right while under one roof with J Lo and the kids during COVID. She wasn’t working her million+ jobs for once and he still sought out an AP.

She does everything right . Affectionate, keeps herself up, looks great but men still aren’t interested long term . I wonder if it’s the quality of the guys or something she’s doing that is a turn off

She chooses addicts and then tries to fix them by controlling them. That's what she's doing wrong.
She needs a healthy man who loves her, but she might need to compromise a bit on age, looks and excitement. Maybe someone like Sophia Vergara's man.

She can’t deal with someone old. She tours, does movies, and lives a jet setter lifestyle .

She needs someone youthful and not old and settled or stationary. She needs someone with some spring to their steps. Ben has youthful energy and so does A Rod.

You’re f g kidding me, right? She is OLD! I don’t know she everyone acts like she can get an above level younger man because she cannot. Ben gave her Hollywood status and now that is gone.

She's older and looks better then Hedi klum who married someone decades younger. She can get a younger man, especially a younger dancer. Someone like Mariah Carreys ex

So many men, so little time. That's quite a motto for living one life.

Perhaps but the men are the ones calling .
She didn’t prompt things with Ben or A Rod or any of her other exes. They initiate with her.


For some reason, she hates being alone and perhaps alone with the kids is even worse for her. She likes having a male partner but I don’t necessarily think it’s for sex addiction reasons but attention reasons. She’s like the Facebook friend who posts every boyfriend or relationship update by the minute

My takeaways from the documentary:

They were part of it that seemed like a Christopher Guest mockumentary. Scenes of her rehearsing dances with an umbrella, scenes of her getting really obsessed over the texture of mud they were using, they were laughable, and I cannot believe that was real.

I really liked the few short scenes of her actual kitchen, seeing her without make up on, and some other real scenes where they were having trouble getting past barriers like the fact that no celebrities wanted to be in it. At one point, somebody shouted out “Taylor Swift is a no” and my daughter and I howled.

Lots of interviews with her crying, getting overwhelmed with it all that didn’t really resonate. She’s doing this whole thing for no reason and everyone’s telling her not to do it and yet she sobbing that it’s not going well. Very much like a victim mentality that I didn’t really appreciate.

I have never liked Ben Affleck but they were actually cute together in some some scenes and I’m sad that they couldn’t work it out.

I really love that she included the Jane Fonda truth bomb that it looked like she was living her life with Ben for the cameras and it wasn’t sustainable for a relationship. Took some guts to include that for sure.

One part that made me cringe was there was one scene of her talking about how the most important thing that she worried about was being a good parent interspersed with a couple photos of her kids. Definitely seemed like a last-minute add as if somebody got to the end and was like oh maybe we should include the kids? I respect that she didn’t want to put the kids in the documentary, but it seemed like an add-on to make her seem like a good mother or something. I have no judgment about her parenting, I’m sure she loves her kids, but that seems like a weird add-on.

Last thing is that she says a lot of surfacy pop psychology things. It seems like she knows she hast to love herself, and get to know herself and be OK being alone, she says all the right things but her actions defy that.

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Anonymous wrote:I think if Ben didn’t reach out to her, she would’ve absolutely worked through the scandal as it appears the cheating was only an emotional affair and the reality star had never actually traveled or met A Rod due to COVID.

J Los kids really loved A Rod. A Rod was also in Miami next to Marc Anthony so it worked out well for Jen. The fly in the ointment was Ben. His messages made her drop everything and dump A Rod ASAP instead of work things out

Arod was a good fit for her. She shined in the relationship but he also had his own star power. Cheating sucks and she didn't give herself or the kids time to recover

He isn’t a good fit if he initiated an emotional affair emailing that chick left and right while under one roof with J Lo and the kids during COVID. She wasn’t working her million+ jobs for once and he still sought out an AP.

She does everything right . Affectionate, keeps herself up, looks great but men still aren’t interested long term . I wonder if it’s the quality of the guys or something she’s doing that is a turn off

She chooses addicts and then tries to fix them by controlling them. That's what she's doing wrong.
She needs a healthy man who loves her, but she might need to compromise a bit on age, looks and excitement. Maybe someone like Sophia Vergara's man.

She can’t deal with someone old. She tours, does movies, and lives a jet setter lifestyle .

She needs someone youthful and not old and settled or stationary. She needs someone with some spring to their steps. Ben has youthful energy and so does A Rod.

You’re f g kidding me, right? She is OLD! I don’t know she everyone acts like she can get an above level younger man because she cannot. Ben gave her Hollywood status and now that is gone.

She's older and looks better then Hedi klum who married someone decades younger. She can get a younger man, especially a younger dancer. Someone like Mariah Carreys ex

So many men, so little time. That's quite a motto for living one life.

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Anonymous wrote:I think if Ben didn’t reach out to her, she would’ve absolutely worked through the scandal as it appears the cheating was only an emotional affair and the reality star had never actually traveled or met A Rod due to COVID.

J Los kids really loved A Rod. A Rod was also in Miami next to Marc Anthony so it worked out well for Jen. The fly in the ointment was Ben. His messages made her drop everything and dump A Rod ASAP instead of work things out

Arod was a good fit for her. She shined in the relationship but he also had his own star power. Cheating sucks and she didn't give herself or the kids time to recover

He isn’t a good fit if he initiated an emotional affair emailing that chick left and right while under one roof with J Lo and the kids during COVID. She wasn’t working her million+ jobs for once and he still sought out an AP.

She does everything right . Affectionate, keeps herself up, looks great but men still aren’t interested long term . I wonder if it’s the quality of the guys or something she’s doing that is a turn off

She chooses addicts and then tries to fix them by controlling them. That's what she's doing wrong.
She needs a healthy man who loves her, but she might need to compromise a bit on age, looks and excitement. Maybe someone like Sophia Vergara's man.

She can’t deal with someone old. She tours, does movies, and lives a jet setter lifestyle .

She needs someone youthful and not old and settled or stationary. She needs someone with some spring to their steps. Ben has youthful energy and so does A Rod.

You’re f g kidding me, right? She is OLD! I don’t know she everyone acts like she can get an above level younger man because she cannot. Ben gave her Hollywood status and now that is gone.

Ben is younger than her. A Rod is younger as well.

So apparently she can get an “above level” younger man.

get yes, keep no.

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Anonymous wrote:I think if Ben didn’t reach out to her, she would’ve absolutely worked through the scandal as it appears the cheating was only an emotional affair and the reality star had never actually traveled or met A Rod due to COVID.

J Los kids really loved A Rod. A Rod was also in Miami next to Marc Anthony so it worked out well for Jen. The fly in the ointment was Ben. His messages made her drop everything and dump A Rod ASAP instead of work things out

Arod was a good fit for her. She shined in the relationship but he also had his own star power. Cheating sucks and she didn't give herself or the kids time to recover

He isn’t a good fit if he initiated an emotional affair emailing that chick left and right while under one roof with J Lo and the kids during COVID. She wasn’t working her million+ jobs for once and he still sought out an AP.

She does everything right . Affectionate, keeps herself up, looks great but men still aren’t interested long term . I wonder if it’s the quality of the guys or something she’s doing that is a turn off

She chooses addicts and then tries to fix them by controlling them. That's what she's doing wrong.
She needs a healthy man who loves her, but she might need to compromise a bit on age, looks and excitement. Maybe someone like Sophia Vergara's man.

She can’t deal with someone old. She tours, does movies, and lives a jet setter lifestyle .

She needs someone youthful and not old and settled or stationary. She needs someone with some spring to their steps. Ben has youthful energy and so does A Rod.

You’re f g kidding me, right? She is OLD! I don’t know she everyone acts like she can get an above level younger man because she cannot. Ben gave her Hollywood status and now that is gone.

She's older and looks better then Hedi klum who married someone decades younger. She can get a younger man, especially a younger dancer. Someone like Mariah Carreys ex

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Anonymous wrote:How can anyone feel sorry for her, much less respect her, when she uses ghost singers on her albums? She does not deserve her success.

Stunt doubles are casted for difficult scenes in movies as well .

The entire entertainment business is full of artifice . Broadway is the real deal. Hwood and the music industry is not.

Does that mean she doesn’t deserve her success because she has background singers on her songs?

+1. The top "singers" today are really performers. Their fans don't care that they don't sing well, use autotune or use tracks with other voices.

Gotta agree. I just want to be entertained and have fun lol. As someone who saw her in Vegas she can't sing but has the stage presence

Her show is better than Madonna’s and Britney’s and Mariah’s even though their music is better . She’s a better dancer than Beyonce and Janet as well. They both gained weight and don’t move like they used to

I don’t get the J. Lo doesn’t have talent meme. She can dance and act.

The only thing she’s bad at is singing

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Anonymous wrote:How can anyone feel sorry for her, much less respect her, when she uses ghost singers on her albums? She does not deserve her success.

Stunt doubles are casted for difficult scenes in movies as well .

The entire entertainment business is full of artifice . Broadway is the real deal. Hwood and the music industry is not.

Does that mean she doesn’t deserve her success because she has background singers on her songs?

+1. The top "singers" today are really performers. Their fans don't care that they don't sing well, use autotune or use tracks with other voices.

Gotta agree. I just want to be entertained and have fun lol. As someone who saw her in Vegas she can't sing but has the stage presence

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Anonymous wrote:How can anyone feel sorry for her, much less respect her, when she uses ghost singers on her albums? She does not deserve her success.

Stunt doubles are casted for difficult scenes in movies as well .

The entire entertainment business is full of artifice . Broadway is the real deal. Hwood and the music industry is not.

Does that mean she doesn’t deserve her success because she has background singers on her songs?

+1. The top "singers" today are really performers. Their fans don't care that they don't sing well, use autotune or use tracks with other voices.

Anonymous wrote:How can anyone feel sorry for her, much less respect her, when she uses ghost singers on her albums? She does not deserve her success.

Stunt doubles are casted for difficult scenes in movies as well .

The entire entertainment business is full of artifice . Broadway is the real deal. Hwood and the music industry is not.

Does that mean she doesn’t deserve her success because she has background singers on her songs?