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Anonymous wrote:If this many women empathize with Lindsay Clancy maybe they need to take a long hard look at their life and their own mental health. If you can relate to a mother who murdered her kids, and feel that you could do the same, you better never have children. If you already have kids and you feel this way, please leave now, just leave them with a trusted family member or friend until you can get it together, you have no place being around children. Pregnancy is hard, having a new baby is challenging, if you’re not a mentally sound person to begin with maybe decide to only have one child or stay child free, there’s nothing wrong with that. You will be much more content in the long run.

Umm no thanks

I think a lot of sympathizers of Lindsay are mothers that view what Lindsay did as incomprehensible. It is the last thing in the world that a mother would do to their own children and that's why they sympathize- knowing that no sane mother could do such a thing. You can't compare murdering random people to murdering your own children. Lindsay has no life going forward, she will have to live the rest of her days with what she did and also as a paraplegic- it really doesn't matter if she is in prison or at home- her life will be hell going forward.

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Anonymous wrote:A few other mothers who killed their children in the last few months. The Lindsay Clancy case will maybe highlight this issue.

Erin Merdy

Molly Cheng

Melissa Towne

Jellisa Baxter

Dimone Flemming

Launice Battle

Kari Lynn Beck

Tara Brook

Leticia Marie Pecina

Leilani Simon

Cynthia Enyeart

Glenda Agee

Lynn Egar

Angela Dawn Flores

Sonia Loja

Paulesha Alma Green-Pulliam

Janee Pedesclaux

Nicole Jackson

Shemene Cato

Ashley Palmer

Brittney Brady

This is shocking to me. I had no idea. Why haven’t I heard about these other cases?

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Anonymous wrote:Even if it was pre-meditated, couldn't her lawyers argue that the medications she was on contributed to irrational thinking? It's similar to when someone plans to kill themselves. They plan out the act and carry it out--it doesn't mean this was intentional. They were experiencing a psychotic episode that resulted in irrational thinking that led to suicide. This is a heartbreaking case. I do not think this woman intended to kill her children. If you took away the PPD and medications she was on, she would not have planned this murder.

So now anyone on a few psych drugs isn’t responsible for their actions? Do you hear yourself?

No, but we're talking about someone who had PPD. The woman was suffering from a disease. It robbed her of her decisionmaking. And she wasn't on a few drugs--she was on 13.

Anonymous wrote:I bet all the Lindsay sympathizers still believe that literally “anyone” could forget their kid in a hot car too.

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Anonymous wrote:How sad to have a life, a pretty nice life it seems, and for it to vanish in a blink. I feel so terrible for the grandparents and extended family and friends too. How tragic the whole thing. So many lives destroyed.

I feel bad for her, too.

I feel bad for Cora, Dawson, and Callan.

We truly lack understanding of severe mental illness.

Weird response.
We hold others accountable when they do bad things and are mentally ill. Why would she be the exception?

I have been saying this from the beginning, was Jeffrey Dahmer mentally stable? Ted Bundy? What about most of the school shooters, were they all stable mentally? No, as a matter of fact many of them were also on psych meds, like Lindsay, but we crucified these young mentally ill kids. How about all the other potentially mentally ill mothers who killed their kids who are now serving life sentences in general pop prisons? What about them? We gotta stop with the #iamlindsay crap, no, no you are not. Like school shootings, we’re going to end up with copycat crimes thanks to the media coverage and the misplaced empathy. If we as a society have never related to, or empathized with murderers, even mentally ill ones, we aren’t going to start now. Hell no.

Jeffrey Dahmer was a serial killer who embalmed and disemboweled people and hid them in his freezer. He had a long history of asocial and frightening behavior. This woman was a highly esteemed labor nurse with no criminal record. Postpartum psychosis is real.

She murdered a baby. The fact that you’re holding her up as “but she’s not as bad as Dahmer!” would be laughable if it weren’t so disgusting.

I'm sorry, but PPD is not "disgusting." It's a devastating diagnosis and worlds away from Dahmer.

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Anonymous wrote:If this many women empathize with Lindsay Clancy maybe they need to take a long hard look at their life and their own mental health. If you can relate to a mother who murdered her kids, and feel that you could do the same, you better never have children. If you already have kids and you feel this way, please leave now, just leave them with a trusted family member or friend until you can get it together, you have no place being around children. Pregnancy is hard, having a new baby is challenging, if you’re not a mentally sound person to begin with maybe decide to only have one child or stay child free, there’s nothing wrong with that. You will be much more content in the long run.

Umm no thanks

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Anonymous wrote:So now we know she intentionally plotted and planned to kill the kids.
It wasn't psychosis. Let that be a lesson learned to not really around someone so quickly just because they fit your image of ideal.
So why?
I'd put money on their being marital problems.

She probably found out her husband was cheating or planning to leave and this was her vengeance.
Picture perfect relationship it wasn't
It's happened before.

I agree the prosecution needs to find motive here. If there’s something there - an affair, a pending divorce, etc. - they’ll have an easier time convincing a jury.

I know a lot of people think the act of mapping out the distance to the restaurant shows intent but I personally do stuff like that all the time! Like I do this if I’m hungry and I want to know how long it’ll be before I’ll be able to eat, lol.

Anonymous wrote:I bet all the Lindsay sympathizers still believe that literally “anyone” could forget their kid in a hot car too.

Anonymous wrote:I bet all the Lindsay sympathizers still believe that literally “anyone” could forget their kid in a hot car too.

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Anonymous wrote:Well, now there is a GFM for Lindsay's legal fees:
https://www.gofundme.com/f/justice-for-lindsay-clancy

It’s against the terms of service. Can’t be used for legal defense of alleged violent crime.

https://medium.com/gofundme-stories/gofundme-policy-on-fundraisers-for-the-legal-defense-of-violent-crimes-975aff8ba5f6

I wonder if it will be taken down.

As soon as it’s reported and reviewed it will be. It’s a clear violation of the TOS.

Did you report it?

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Anonymous wrote:Add the naperville nurse to the list. She murdered her 3 kids and attempted suicide, but lived. Her husband was a doctor and seeing another woman, nurse. She's in prison. She didn't get special treatment. And they were more upper class than the clancy's. She got no white privilege that clancy is pinning for.

She had been battling depression for 4 years. She had a prescription for Ativan. She want to jail and is still there. White, nurse, upper middle class.
https://www.chicagotribune.com/suburbs/naperville-sun/ct-nvs-marilyn-lemak-murders-anniversary-st-0303-story.html

She wasn't postpartum when she did it, which means there was only typical background risk of her having been psychotic when she did it. The point being made here is that that is not the case for Lindsay Clancy. She has a history of symptoms, hospitalizations and medication that mean that she was at significantly higher than background risk of having been psychotic. We'll see what comes out in the trial.

Being postpartum doesn't give LC a free pass to murder her children. LC should be treated the same way the woman in Naperville was.

Being postpartum does not have any role here. Having postpartum mood disorder, which raises the odds that she experienced postpartum psychosis, does.

"Psychosis" is not just another word for any old mental health diagnosis. There are specific aspects of it that affect ability to understand right from wrong and conform conduct to law. That is a difference between it and garden variety PPD, PPA, etc.

She didn't have PPD or PPA, how can we make the leap that she had PPP?

Anonymous wrote:If this many women empathize with Lindsay Clancy maybe they need to take a long hard look at their life and their own mental health. If you can relate to a mother who murdered her kids, and feel that you could do the same, you better never have children. If you already have kids and you feel this way, please leave now, just leave them with a trusted family member or friend until you can get it together, you have no place being around children. Pregnancy is hard, having a new baby is challenging, if you’re not a mentally sound person to begin with maybe decide to only have one child or stay child free, there’s nothing wrong with that. You will be much more content in the long run.

Anonymous wrote:If this many women empathize with Lindsay Clancy maybe they need to take a long hard look at their life and their own mental health. If you can relate to a mother who murdered her kids, and feel that you could do the same, you better never have children. If you already have kids and you feel this way, please leave now, just leave them with a trusted family member or friend until you can get it together, you have no place being around children. Pregnancy is hard, having a new baby is challenging, if you’re not a mentally sound person to begin with maybe decide to only have one child or stay child free, there’s nothing wrong with that. You will be much more content in the long run.