So much negativity on here! OP, you just never know. One of my close friends is 5”2 and 190 pounds. Her fiancé is a skinny white guy (6”2). He did not just want to hook up with her, they’ve been together for 2 years and are living together and he just proposed.

Love is possible — good luck out there!

Anonymous wrote:they like big women only when the stomach is in and back and front are out. Noone likes a women with a big tummy hanging.

There are some men who specifically like big bellies. And then even more who don't care.

Anonymous wrote:I don't look like the women above but more like the 2 shortest women in this picture. I wear a size 16 for tops usually. THe picture above the short woman looks like she is a sz 22 at least.

This isn’t to scale the woman listed at 5’2” is shorter than the woman an inch shorter

I am “big” but my figure is distinctly hourglass at every size throughout my life- large bust and large butt and hips with a smaller waist in between.

Men have always given me more attention than I wanted. The older I get, there seems to be an even greater variety of men racially who are into me.

This is absolutely the least important thing about me and my life.

Thin has never gone out of style it was part of the media narrative to be more inclusive but there is a backlash back to normal skinny Victoria secrets model ideals now.

Anonymous wrote:I am 4 ft 11 stocky with cankles a bit of a gut big legs and meat on my arms and a short neck. I diet and workout but haven't lost in a while. Anyway I tried a dating app for the first time and only skinny white guys are interested. They call me gorgeous and sexy. I thought most men in general preferred and married skinny women though?

Uh no.

Not now, not ever.

Anonymous wrote:As a tall big white woman, I can attest that I attract the skinniest shortest men available. Married a shorter stocky guy, but the thin short guys still hit on middle aged fat me occasionally.

do they have to hung to deal with you or you don't care?

they like big women only when the stomach is in and back and front are out. Noone likes a women with a big tummy hanging.

As a tall big white woman, I can attest that I attract the skinniest shortest men available. Married a shorter stocky guy, but the thin short guys still hit on middle aged fat me occasionally.