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Anonymous wrote:my STBX’s AP was my age which i found shocking - 1 kid, pretty cute (but I might be biased because we look quite similar), fit and NUTS. Needy and requiring frequently reassurance, kind of a low level alcoholic, and really into creating drama. Basically, my opposite on the personality front, which was apparently what he was looking for. I think he wanted someone to need him and act all crazy about him and that’s not my style.

Eventually, he realized he made a mistake and tried to reconcile, but I was already emotionally done ages before that.

Many men LOVE BPDs bc wild sex. Later on they develop buyer’s remorse due to crazed BPD episodes. Then only do they realize what they’ve done.
I’m sorry and hope you’re doing well now.

Anonymous wrote:my STBX’s AP was my age which i found shocking - 1 kid, pretty cute (but I might be biased because we look quite similar), fit and NUTS. Needy and requiring frequently reassurance, kind of a low level alcoholic, and really into creating drama. Basically, my opposite on the personality front, which was apparently what he was looking for. I think he wanted someone to need him and act all crazy about him and that’s not my style.

Eventually, he realized he made a mistake and tried to reconcile, but I was already emotionally done ages before that.

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Anonymous wrote:45 (he's 35), is a babysitter and bartender, lives in a studio and complains she can't afford her rent, has 4 birds that she includes in her n00ds, has an unfortunate skin disease where her nether regions and have her legs look burnt, has braces, and cries about her lost fertile years often.

Oh, also a very hairy bum hole that I sadly saw spread wide open with a zoomed in mirror pic while on all fours. Sigh.

And he picked her over you?? Says a lot about you I guess?

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Anonymous wrote:I’m an AP. 12 years younger. 2 young kids, getting divorced, in really good shape, make 400k+ a year. I don’t have family money like she does. She is an alcoholic. Oh well. They haven’t had sex in 8 months and live separate lives. I don’t feel bad about it. Maybe I should. We spend nights out and a lot of nights together.

I am sorry about your hairy bum hole. Maybe you can get it waxed.

Anonymous wrote:I’m an AP. 12 years younger. 2 young kids, getting divorced, in really good shape, make 400k+ a year. I don’t have family money like she does. She is an alcoholic. Oh well. They haven’t had sex in 8 months and live separate lives. I don’t feel bad about it. Maybe I should. We spend nights out and a lot of nights together.

Anonymous wrote:45 (he's 35), is a babysitter and bartender, lives in a studio and complains she can't afford her rent, has 4 birds that she includes in her n00ds, has an unfortunate skin disease where her nether regions and have her legs look burnt, has braces, and cries about her lost fertile years often.

Oh, also a very hairy bum hole that I sadly saw spread wide open with a zoomed in mirror pic while on all fours. Sigh.

Anonymous wrote:My DH's AP is about 8 years older than I am, a bored housewife with chronic bellyache, starved for attention, high drama, good looking but dyes her hair too dark. And is super jealous of me. LOL