Anonymous wrote:For crying out loud, does anyone have a happy marriage with no cheating? No wonder my DD doesn't want to get married.

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Anonymous wrote:Here are were the options:

Sex with wife: had to beg for it; was vanilla when I could get it; she always complained about something; she never had an orgasm

Sex with AP: beautiful; 18 years younger; would do anything sexually; was submissive; gorgeous body; had multiple orgasms

Which would you choose?

The spouse. I could easily find an AP to hit and quit but a spouse is a life partner

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Anonymous wrote:Here are were the options:

Sex with wife: had to beg for it; was vanilla when I could get it; she always complained about something; she never had an orgasm

Sex with AP: beautiful; 18 years younger; would do anything sexually; was submissive; gorgeous body; had multiple orgasms

Which would you choose?

Uh maybe she wasn't interested in sex with you because you weren't interested in her pleasure? What a crazy concept. Sad that you'll put effort in for an AP, but not your wife.

Anonymous wrote:Here are were the options:

Sex with wife: had to beg for it; was vanilla when I could get it; she always complained about something; she never had an orgasm

Sex with AP: beautiful; 18 years younger; would do anything sexually; was submissive; gorgeous body; had multiple orgasms

Which would you choose?

Anonymous wrote:Men are just hardwired to seek novelty and variety. Cultural and personal factors will determine how disciplined they are about impulses.

When I was in the military I had buddies who were basically pro sports level attractive, tall, and charismatic. They had the hottest girlfriends and sometimes even a wife, but they would risk it all by hooking up with an ugly chick or a hood rat because they love the thrill of new conquests.

Good example is Arnold, he married a Kennedy and had kids/house/everything but still banged out his latina maid and had a kid with her.

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Anonymous wrote:Variety. Every jay jay gets old after a while, no matter how much you attempt to "spice it up".

+1. It’s all about diverse jay jay.

+1. If I men don’t receive a nice assortment of varied va jay jay, they get depressed and unfulfilled. I think it’s biologic.

Then why get married

Monogamy is a recent invention and, on the whole, probably socially beneficial to keep things together societally. Plus there is a balance to be struck between guaranteed jay jay versus varied jay jay.

Think of it like a power grid trying to integrate renewables. You have as the baseload power like gas, which ensures that the lights stay on and is there when other sources of power fail. Then you have your wind, solar and other renewables that are intermittent and nice to have, but sometimes it's not windy or the sun is not shining and there is not sufficient battery storage to ensure stability of supply. Marriage ensures that the lights stay on, but wouldn't it be nice to have a more sustainable, eco-friendly grid without loss of functionality.

In sum, all men want is more, varied power and to heal the world from environmental degradation. Perhaps a bit morally dubious at the individual level, but the philandering comes a place of love for the earth and all of humanity (literally, I guess, if the man really gets after it).

Anonymous wrote:Because the AP does things in bed that the wife is unwilling to do!

Anonymous wrote:married men just want a tighter hole and it doesn't matter the face which that hole belongs to. end story.