Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 22:48     Subject: How can I marry a rich guy?
Anonymous wrote:We stay to our own, meaning we feel comfortable with others like us, and we tend to date friends of our friends or people in the same circles. I met my husband at a DAR function my family chaired. I was introduced properly and found he had friends in my circles. We understand each other. Fore example, do you know how to run a household? Manage the staff? Get your children into the right preschool and school? Do you know where to find a driver, chef, the perfect summer camp in upstate NY for the kids? Keeping a house pretty and looking pretty is not enough. Are you cultured? Do you have knowledge of living overseas? A global entry card? You must at least have two leisure homes, because what will you do if he wants to weekend with you? You definitely are not going to stay in and get takeout. Stick to your own and be happy.


Is your life a parody of Downtown Abbey?
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 22:10     Subject: How can I marry a rich guy?
Anonymous wrote:We stay to our own, meaning we feel comfortable with others like us, and we tend to date friends of our friends or people in the same circles. I met my husband at a DAR function my family chaired. I was introduced properly and found he had friends in my circles. We understand each other. Fore example, do you know how to run a household? Manage the staff? Get your children into the right preschool and school? Do you know where to find a driver, chef, the perfect summer camp in upstate NY for the kids? Keeping a house pretty and looking pretty is not enough. Are you cultured? Do you have knowledge of living overseas? A global entry card? You must at least have two leisure homes, because what will you do if he wants to weekend with you? You definitely are not going to stay in and get takeout. Stick to your own and be happy.


Lol! This is a troll post. I'm in the DAR and it's full of old ladies with too much time on their hands. The younger ones, who are active, work and never married. NO ONE MEETS MEN THIS WAY!
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 21:29     Subject: How can I marry a rich guy?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:We stay to our own, meaning we feel comfortable with others like us, and we tend to date friends of our friends or people in the same circles. I met my husband at a DAR function my family chaired. I was introduced properly and found he had friends in my circles. We understand each other. Fore example, do you know how to run a household? Manage the staff? Get your children into the right preschool and school? Do you know where to find a driver, chef, the perfect summer camp in upstate NY for the kids? Keeping a house pretty and looking pretty is not enough. Are you cultured? Do you have knowledge of living overseas? A global entry card? You must at least have two leisure homes, because what will you do if he wants to weekend with you? You definitely are not going to stay in and get takeout. Stick to your own and be happy.


This sounds awful.

I met my DH when I was at Harvard. He is self made. We have created a beautiful family and life together.


NP. Who cares?
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 21:28     Subject: How can I marry a rich guy?
It takes money to make money. Invest in yourself, girl.
Get a boob job, and show off the new assets.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 21:14     Subject: How can I marry a rich guy?
Anonymous wrote:We stay to our own, meaning we feel comfortable with others like us, and we tend to date friends of our friends or people in the same circles. I met my husband at a DAR function my family chaired. I was introduced properly and found he had friends in my circles. We understand each other. Fore example, do you know how to run a household? Manage the staff? Get your children into the right preschool and school? Do you know where to find a driver, chef, the perfect summer camp in upstate NY for the kids? Keeping a house pretty and looking pretty is not enough. Are you cultured? Do you have knowledge of living overseas? A global entry card? You must at least have two leisure homes, because what will you do if he wants to weekend with you? You definitely are not going to stay in and get takeout. Stick to your own and be happy.


This sounds awful.

I met my DH when I was at Harvard. He is self made. We have created a beautiful family and life together.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 20:54     Subject: How can I marry a rich guy?
We stay to our own, meaning we feel comfortable with others like us, and we tend to date friends of our friends or people in the same circles. I met my husband at a DAR function my family chaired. I was introduced properly and found he had friends in my circles. We understand each other. Fore example, do you know how to run a household? Manage the staff? Get your children into the right preschool and school? Do you know where to find a driver, chef, the perfect summer camp in upstate NY for the kids? Keeping a house pretty and looking pretty is not enough. Are you cultured? Do you have knowledge of living overseas? A global entry card? You must at least have two leisure homes, because what will you do if he wants to weekend with you? You definitely are not going to stay in and get takeout. Stick to your own and be happy.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 19:41     Subject: How can I marry a rich guy?
You don’t have to be gorgeous to marry rich. If you are decent looking but take great care of yourself, are friendly, easygoing, bubbly, and a great listener/extremely supportive guys will love you.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 19:38     Subject: How can I marry a rich guy?
Anonymous wrote:How do you marry a rich guy? Be hot.


Or also rich or particularly accomplished and impressive in your own right
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 19:21     Subject: How can I marry a rich guy?
How do you marry a rich guy? Be hot.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 15:40     Subject: How can I marry a rich guy?
Anonymous wrote:Step 1. be attractive
Step 2. be on the extra-thin side, grow out your hair + highlights, whiten your teeth, get subtle Botox and drop your age to 29
Step 3. smile a lot and be cheerful

This will get you 90% of single men. To get a traditional man, go to a wealthy church and look for a man who is a decade older than you.


+1
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 15:26     Subject: How can I marry a rich guy?
Anonymous wrote:I have dated rich men and most of them are annoying. Make your own money, it's so fun to have all the power and not have to put up with an annoying man! So many men are broke nowadays anyway.


This is so true. I know many trust fund babies, and I am in a long term relationship with one, and they are a pain in the ass. It is hard to complain, as the money does give some amazing opportunities, but in reality, I love him despite it not because of it. I make my own living, and I refuse to commingle because I don't want to deal with all the issues. On the other hand, I realize how spoiled I am. But honestly, I can spoil myself enough for my liking, I don't need the extra.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 15:19     Subject: How can I marry a rich guy?
I don’t know. I think everyone is hard in OP. I’m happily married but I haven’t yet met a man who didn’t want to be listened to and praised. I’m not sure it’s that hard to get someone to like you but the question is that if it’s all an act, can you keep it up long enough to get married and stay married? Either you need to marry someone tremendously wealthy (not these proud DCUM peacocks who only have a few million, you need someone wealthy enough to afford staff so you don’t need him to coparent in any way) or you are going to have to find someone you actually really like. I suggest the latter. It may not be paved with gold, but you’re much more likely be happy.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 15:07     Subject: How can I marry a rich guy?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have dated rich men and most of them are annoying. Make your own money, it's so fun to have all the power and not have to put up with an annoying man! So many men are broke nowadays anyway.


Do this but also marry rich and you've hit the jackpot! An egalitarian marriage, preferably built with love.


No way. If my man is marrying anywhere close or less than me, he better be hot as F. otherwise, it's a turn off when a man is financially dependent on you. Either he earns way more, or he better be looking a young Chris Hemsworth. Otherwise, being single is fun!
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 15:02     Subject: How can I marry a rich guy?
Anonymous wrote:I have dated rich men and most of them are annoying. Make your own money, it's so fun to have all the power and not have to put up with an annoying man! So many men are broke nowadays anyway.


Do this but also marry rich and you've hit the jackpot! An egalitarian marriage, preferably built with love.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2021 14:42     Subject: How can I marry a rich guy?
I have dated rich men and most of them are annoying. Make your own money, it's so fun to have all the power and not have to put up with an annoying man! So many men are broke nowadays anyway.