Hey OP you've gotten some blunt advice here so I hope you're still reading. Single mom of an 8 yo here so I get it. It's scary staring down the barrel of being alone when you're older, but this isn't your guy. We don't have forever with our kids. How they remember their childhood is up to you. I say all this because it seems you don't believe that you deserve better out of a partner, and that makes me feel sad for you. But if you can't do it for yourself, do it for your kids, and it will become clear in the future that you made the right decision to extricate yourself from this selfish, emotionally stunted guy. Only then will it become clear that you are worth so much more than someone who is telling you, to your face, "I'm going to continue to do something you've clearly stated hurts you."

So chin up, gather all his Winnie the Pooh crap and usher this guy back out in the the 100 Acre Wood with Piglet and Eeyore.

You can do it.

Really? Are we sure OP is the same person? I remember the OP you are speaking of was with a guy who was cheated on bu his ex and didn’t seem over her completely, but I don’t remember him being friends with her.

Anonymous wrote:OP, can you tell us what you like about him?

She started screwing him when they were both married. She thought he was her exit plan, but it seems he’s still in love with the wife he’s known for 20-years.

OP, can you tell us what you like about him?

Here’s the deal. He has told you multiple times he’s not going to stop talking to her. You are not married now. If you stay and get married he will continue to talk to her. You have a choice to continue to allow it or leave because it’s a deal breaker. You can only change your behavior so you have a choice to make: leave or stay but not wether he talks to her. Why settle? Just get out.

Op this guy doesn’t love you. He has you around until he gets back with ex wife.

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Anonymous wrote:This sounds awfully like our resident op of I divorced and am in a wonderful relationship now. Her kid was 6, then 7, and she refused to hear out the nanny that told her this was way too fast. She then posted about her sister not being supportive, and then she did a few role reversal posts.

I was wondering if it was the same OP. I don’t think the timing matches but this and that OP is a liar so how long this has been going on is probably not the truth. Still can’t get over that this person is a side piece to a grown man with a Pooh obsession. 😆

Did she say three years with this boyfriend? That actually follows the timeline that I recall.

It’s in the OP.

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Anonymous wrote:This sounds awfully like our resident op of I divorced and am in a wonderful relationship now. Her kid was 6, then 7, and she refused to hear out the nanny that told her this was way too fast. She then posted about her sister not being supportive, and then she did a few role reversal posts.

I was wondering if it was the same OP. I don’t think the timing matches but this and that OP is a liar so how long this has been going on is probably not the truth. Still can’t get over that this person is a side piece to a grown man with a Pooh obsession. 😆

Did she say three years with this boyfriend? That actually follows the timeline that I recall.