Anonymous
Post 05/05/2021 12:04     Subject: Holderness Family

People don't like them because they make fun of the people who are exactly like the people in the videos.

The haters see themselves as being mocked.
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2021 12:00     Subject: Re:Holderness Family

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why do they need to be hated? They put out videos and content like millions of others. There's so much content out there, that everyone can watch or not watch- just like before the internet. You would watch what you want on TV, buy the album of someone or not, go to this show or that show. Or none!

Why take them personally as if their work affects you? I don't get it. If you don't like their songs, their style, or whatever, then so what?


100% agree!! People are always finding something to complain about.


Occasionally I'll watch one of their videos. The one "We're Gen X, not Boomers" was funny. I appreciate how creative they are, but their style can be grating. I live in a modest NYC apartment, so it's pretty much impossible to empathize with those who feel trapped riding out this pandemic in a big home with a yard.
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2021 11:22     Subject: Re:Holderness Family

Anonymous wrote:Why do they need to be hated? They put out videos and content like millions of others. There's so much content out there, that everyone can watch or not watch- just like before the internet. You would watch what you want on TV, buy the album of someone or not, go to this show or that show. Or none!

Why take them personally as if their work affects you? I don't get it. If you don't like their songs, their style, or whatever, then so what?


100% agree!! People are always finding something to complain about.
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2021 10:40     Subject: Re:Holderness Family

Why do they need to be hated? They put out videos and content like millions of others. There's so much content out there, that everyone can watch or not watch- just like before the internet. You would watch what you want on TV, buy the album of someone or not, go to this show or that show. Or none!

Why take them personally as if their work affects you? I don't get it. If you don't like their songs, their style, or whatever, then so what?
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2021 10:36     Subject: Holderness Family

A capella groups have always been popular at the east coast ivies
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2021 10:33     Subject: Holderness Family

I like them but don't know much about them. Have only seen a few videos.

I've noticed they are selling a book about overcoming struggles in their marriage. Anyone know anything about that?
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2021 10:32     Subject: Re:Holderness Family

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Loved the original Christmas Jammies video, and cannot believe they can make a living doing this! I listen to their podcasts regularly, far more than o watch the videos these days.

She is very honest about her anxiety and depression issues. Their kids are like 11 and 14 and are in far fewer videos now, although the 11yr old apparently has started his own private YouTube channel so it appeals to him.



That's too bad she's dealing with anxiety and depression. I wonder if the "performance" life contributes to that. Seems like it would...always having to come up with a new, cute video.

She references it plenty in those videos so I think its possible but it also might be cathartic to not carry it as a secret.

I think they also reference that they co-own or work for a media company so they do content and stuff outside their own channels, makes sense as a career given their backgrounds
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2021 09:59     Subject: Holderness Family

Don’t want to damn them in any way but...there’s a pattern here of narcissistic bloggers/reality show-era who are done in by their own desire to become famous.

It’s selling your soul to the devil as my Irish grandmother would have said.

Glennon
Jen Hatmaker
Duggars
Keep it Simple Mama
...To name but a few

Anonymous
Post 05/05/2021 09:49     Subject: Holderness Family

It's no surprise this family went viral since they remind me of herpes.
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2021 09:30     Subject: Holderness Family

Anonymous wrote:I like them but I worry that writing a book about how to argue effectively means they are now jinxed and will get divorced. It seems like the people who put themselves forward as a relationship example are more likely to get divorced.

Most of their videos are enjoyable. I like watching them with my kid.


Im listening to their book now - and while I agree with you (see: every couple that has done a "vow renewal" on a Bravo reality show then promptly divorce) they have a lot of off the cuff audio on the book as well - and they seem really self aware of each other and their needs.

I actually find the wife's openness about her anxiety and depression relatable - they are not trying to present a "perfect family" front in the book
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2021 19:48     Subject: Re:Holderness Family

I like them. They’re cute together. I can imagine that Penn can be a bit much at times and that probably adds to her anxiety. But I see that they like each other and have fun together and that is important. Frankly, I think that they should take a break for a bit and do something else for a while. I can imagine that the last two years have been a lot for them and required them to put in extra time/effort.
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2021 19:17     Subject: Holderness Family

I like them but I worry that writing a book about how to argue effectively means they are now jinxed and will get divorced. It seems like the people who put themselves forward as a relationship example are more likely to get divorced.

Most of their videos are enjoyable. I like watching them with my kid.
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2021 16:19     Subject: Holderness Family

There’s always something off with people who are super into creating a family “brand” and who need a ton of attention for it - sorry
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2021 16:14     Subject: Re:Holderness Family

Anonymous wrote:Loved the original Christmas Jammies video, and cannot believe they can make a living doing this! I listen to their podcasts regularly, far more than o watch the videos these days.

She is very honest about her anxiety and depression issues. Their kids are like 11 and 14 and are in far fewer videos now, although the 11yr old apparently has started his own private YouTube channel so it appeals to him.



That's too bad she's dealing with anxiety and depression. I wonder if the "performance" life contributes to that. Seems like it would...always having to come up with a new, cute video.
Anonymous
Post 05/01/2021 16:00     Subject: Holderness Family

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Anonymous wrote:Totally. Can’t believe people think acapella is only popular because of Pitch Perfect. There were 4-5 groups at my college in the 90s.


+1

We had several a cappella groups at my college in the 90s. At least one of those had been around since the 1940s.

Very common at top schools in the Northeast.


He didn’t go to school in the NE. He went to UVA.


I was at UVA in late 90s - a cappella was definitely a thing!


Wait, a capella groups were really popular when I was in college in the late 80s/90s. Does that mean there was a time when they stopped being popular? Did they come back because of pitch perfect, or are a capella groups no longer a thing in college? *sad*


I think that a capella groups are somewhat newer to big state universities. They have always been a thing at elite privates and UVA, which likes to act like a private.
not that new, there was an a capella group at Tech in the 1980’s.