Anonymous wrote:I’ve seen this happen before. If he’s such a great husband with a loving wife, what makes him stare at other women?

Thoughts?

1. Low cut tops
2. Big boobs
3. Great butt
4. Legs for days
.... Could likely get to 100 if I tried.

Anonymous wrote:Can some of the men on here answer the question seriously.

I look because of these two XL, egg size things called testicles... I’ve been looking at women since the first grade and my first crush was an eighth grade girl.

Anonymous wrote:I look because I am a bi polar drug addict with a touch of entitlement

you forgot to add "childish"

My husband doesn't do this but it's culturally unaccepted in his home country. I have never caught him staring at other some. I had a boyfriend before him who was the total opposite. There has to be a balance! I don't think it's a big deal as I get older.

Um, thousands of years of human instinct? I'm very happily married and will check out a hot guy.

Imagine being so fragile and insecure that you care about your partner looking at other people. Pathetic!

I don’t like it if my husband checks out a 17 year old in a bikini at our local pool but if she’s 37 no problem because that 37 year old in a bikini is me. Other than that he can look but not touch but so can I.

you dont shut down from finding other people attractive once you marry. acting on that attraction is bad.

if you sit around looking at other people like a pervert, that is sort of odd. to simply look at observe is normal and natural.

its not as if you shut off a switch if you are happily married and once you are unhappy with your spouse, you turn some switch back on and realize that there are all these attractive people walking around and youve been missing out.

Anonymous wrote:Totally cool: Checking her out discreetly with my wife, and commenting to each other after she passes. Or her pointing one out that I missed based on my tastes that she knows so well.

You've got to get mommy's permission and approval before you notice another woman. That's some really weak sh1t right there.

If my husband did not look (not stare or ogle) at attractive women I’d be concerned that his interest in women was waning and that might affect me. I love it when how I look or what I wear gets his attention. If he’s lost his interest in others he might lose it with me. But I know he feels the same way about me. I look at other guys and I’m sure he likes to stay fit and look good for me.

No one ever


Is to blame

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Anonymous wrote:Bipolar disorder
alcoholism
borderline personality disorder
depression and anxiety
drug addiction
entitlement

to name a few

Don't forger ADHD and Autism. Those are the group favorites.

Yeah you forgot to add narcissist and Aspbergers. Everyone has a disorder on DCUM.

What about Gaslighting? Ther has to be some gaslighting in there somehow. Oh, and he has ADHD for sure.

Also being an as&&ole

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Anonymous wrote:You can look at the menu, but you just can't eat.

You can dip your foot in the pool, but you just can’t swim.

You can build a mansion, but you just can't live in it

You're the fastest runner but you're not allowed to win

It’s a normal reaction for both men and women.

Not cool: Leering at her or being so obvious that she knows it and feels uncomfortable. Embarrassing my wife in public by being seen staring at another woman.

Totally cool: Checking her out discreetly with my wife, and commenting to each other after she passes. Or her pointing one out that I missed based on my tastes that she knows so well.

I wouldn't be with a woman who was so insecure she couldn't handle me looking or actually enjoy it with me. Beautiful women are everywhere and all men look. As do most women. We all like pretty things.