Anonymous
Post 08/18/2009 13:10     Subject: Vent about my wedding last weekend...

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Meanwhile, her original post says that she gave it to her best friend, as they promised each other! So OP, does that mean that your best friend or "BEACH" is the one that has it? Or were you saying that you planned on giving it to her, which would negate your whole mom/grandmother sob story.


No, I think she had 2 bouquets. The one she carried and then one to throw, which she did not throw but gave to her best friend. The one she carried got misplaced during the lunch and she is now accusing one of her friends of stealing it.


YOU GOT IT!!!
I feel so sad to suspect them
Back home we have a tradition to write the single friend's names on the inside of the train of the dress. I wrote it on tape and taped in it because I didn't want to ruin the dress and the names fell of. They all got so upset. When I handed the TB to my dear friend they all made faces too. I wonder if they were upset with me for losing their names and not throwing the bouquet and took my BB to take back at me



I feel so sad to suspect them...


Sounds like you fit right in with your friends.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2009 13:09     Subject: Vent about my wedding last weekend...

Anonymous wrote:I already told her to buy another one. Of course that would be the easy solution. However, she found a reason not to. I feel if it meant that much to her, she would come up with the cash somehow.

I guess it is not a priority anymore I already went too far to have flowers at the wedding anyway.
The idea of buying one of each of the flowers and drying it to frame with the picture will make up for it.

Thanks to the PP who suggested it!
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2009 13:07     Subject: Vent about my wedding last weekend...

Anonymous wrote:I already told her to buy another one. Of course that would be the easy solution. However, she found a reason not to. I feel if it meant that much to her, she would come up with the cash somehow.


But that wouldn't be nearly enough drama.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2009 13:07     Subject: Vent about my wedding last weekend...

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymousif we say "bring them" and buy thingies to put in a little plastic bag to make them happy and busy while you enjoy a good meal we're liars... How do we please you?[/quote wrote:

I don't understand the logic here.



let's go again...
if we get married and say ADULT RECEPTION parents feel sad, left out and hurt because we don't want their kids.
I did my best to include the kids and prepared a little bag with treats, activities and little toys to get them busy and age appropriate to make sure they were safe.
A PP accused me of being a liar because I said I used glow sticks during brunch. I thought kids like glow sticks... That's the only reason why I intended to put it there.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2009 13:06     Subject: Vent about my wedding last weekend...

I already told her to buy another one. Of course that would be the easy solution. However, she found a reason not to. I feel if it meant that much to her, she would come up with the cash somehow.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2009 13:06     Subject: Vent about my wedding last weekend...

And she still hasn't explained what she's doing trolling on DCUM, without having any apparent reason to be on here. Isn't there a message board on theknot.com? Not that I care, but I need some entertainment while I eat my Ibero-American burrito.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2009 13:05     Subject: Vent about my wedding last weekend...

OMG. I didn't read the whole thread, but seriously, does anyone else here also have ZERO sympathy for the OP? She sounds like a CRAZY B**CH. I sure hope she's not the same kind of "Ibero-American" that I am...
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2009 13:04     Subject: Vent about my wedding last weekend...

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Meanwhile, her original post says that she gave it to her best friend, as they promised each other! So OP, does that mean that your best friend or "BEACH" is the one that has it? Or were you saying that you planned on giving it to her, which would negate your whole mom/grandmother sob story.


No, I think she had 2 bouquets. The one she carried and then one to throw, which she did not throw but gave to her best friend. The one she carried got misplaced during the lunch and she is now accusing one of her friends of stealing it.


YOU GOT IT!!!
I feel so sad to suspect them
Back home we have a tradition to write the single friend's names on the inside of the train of the dress. I wrote it on tape and taped in it because I didn't want to ruin the dress and the names fell of. They all got so upset. When I handed the TB to my dear friend they all made faces too. I wonder if they were upset with me for losing their names and not throwing the bouquet and took my BB to take back at me



I feel so sad to suspect them...
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2009 13:03     Subject: Vent about my wedding last weekend...

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Meanwhile, her original post says that she gave it to her best friend, as they promised each other! So OP, does that mean that your best friend or "BEACH" is the one that has it? Or were you saying that you planned on giving it to her, which would negate your whole mom/grandmother sob story.


No, I think she had 2 bouquets. The one she carried and then one to throw, which she did not throw but gave to her best friend. The one she carried got misplaced during the lunch and she is now accusing one of her friends of stealing it.


PP here. Got it. My Bad. I still think OP is a nutcase.


Oh, no question.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2009 13:03     Subject: Vent about my wedding last weekend...

Just order another bouquet. Whoever "stole" has probably thrown it out by now because flowers die and stink.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2009 13:03     Subject: Vent about my wedding last weekend...

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Meanwhile, her original post says that she gave it to her best friend, as they promised each other! So OP, does that mean that your best friend or "BEACH" is the one that has it? Or were you saying that you planned on giving it to her, which would negate your whole mom/grandmother sob story.


No, I think she had 2 bouquets. The one she carried and then one to throw, which she did not throw but gave to her best friend. The one she carried got misplaced during the lunch and she is now accusing one of her friends of stealing it.


I can see why it would be so tempting, considering how nuts she was/is.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2009 13:02     Subject: Vent about my wedding last weekend...

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Meanwhile, her original post says that she gave it to her best friend, as they promised each other! So OP, does that mean that your best friend or "BEACH" is the one that has it? Or were you saying that you planned on giving it to her, which would negate your whole mom/grandmother sob story.


No, I think she had 2 bouquets. The one she carried and then one to throw, which she did not throw but gave to her best friend. The one she carried got misplaced during the lunch and she is now accusing one of her friends of stealing it.


PP here. Got it. My Bad. I still think OP is a nutcase.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2009 13:01     Subject: Vent about my wedding last weekend...

Probably easy to get distracted in the countless thousands of posts you've put up in the past few hours.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2009 13:01     Subject: Vent about my wedding last weekend...

Anonymousif we say "bring them" and buy thingies to put in a little plastic bag to make them happy and busy while you enjoy a good meal we're liars... How do we please you?[/quote wrote:

I don't understand the logic here.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2009 13:00     Subject: Vent about my wedding last weekend...

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I can't imagine why anyone would want to take the bouquet.


I'm assuming the bouquet got misplaced, and the wait staff threw it out later. Why assume someone stole it?


I was the last person to leave the room. The restaurant said everything left in the room after X hour would be thrown away, I walked all over the room to make sure nothing was left. I even found a camera that I later returned to the owner.
I assumed someone packed it for me but once I got home and unpacked the car it was not there =[
Anyway, I'm having fun here and maybe soon I'll forget about it. Mom told me that a few days before, during and after the wedding the butterflies in our stomach gives us funny feelings...