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Anonymous wrote:As long as my wife maintains her 1-inch thigh gap she is sizzling hot.

is the thigh gap thing a DCUM joke I missed the original of?

Not a joke. A thigh gap is an aspect of physical attractiveness that is sometimes associated with fragility and femininity.

Anonymous wrote:Neither of us think the other is objectively hot. And we're not. We have hot sex and a passionate life, for some reason. I'd rather be with an average-looking person who's great in bed than a gorgeous person who's dull in bed. Been there, done that, in my youth.

Sexual enthusiasm trumps looks pretty much every time. (Well, within reason I guess -- maybe makes up 3-4 points on the 10 point scale.)

Anonymous wrote:my wife is both gorgeous and brilliant. Oh she's funny too.

Marry me

Anonymous wrote:I think my wife is hot.

She doesn't though. She has body image issues and focuses on all the wrong things. When I tell her how hot I think she is, she's very dismissive -- says I'm married to her, so I have to say things like that.

Still, I think my wife is hot. So, I'm going to keep telling her so.

Dude you get a gold star! Or blow job

Anonymous wrote:As long as my wife maintains her 1-inch thigh gap she is sizzling hot.

is the thigh gap thing a DCUM joke I missed the original of?

After 25 years of marriage the fact that my DW will walk into my study at 10pm and say "I'm going to take a shower and go to bed and would you like to join me for both" is to me the definition of hot. She's very pretty which helps.

Neither of us think the other is objectively hot. And we're not. We have hot sex and a passionate life, for some reason. I'd rather be with an average-looking person who's great in bed than a gorgeous person who's dull in bed. Been there, done that, in my youth.

Anonymous wrote:I think my wife is hot.

She doesn't though. She has body image issues and focuses on all the wrong things. When I tell her how hot I think she is, she's very dismissive -- says I'm married to her, so I have to say things like that.

Still, I think my wife is hot. So, I'm going to keep telling her so.

You're a great man.

my wife is both gorgeous and brilliant. Oh she's funny too.

As long as my wife maintains her 1-inch thigh gap she is sizzling hot.

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Anonymous wrote:My wife used to be hot, but over the years, she has gained 40 pounds. I don't tell her she's hot, because she isn't. I just keep quiet when she fishes for compliments.

Do you look mostly the same as when you were dating? If so, then you should believe your DH when he says you're hot.

does she tell you that you are an asshole?

That would be downright mean of her, wouldn't it? She isn't mean, she's merely "not hot".
I'd probably not "just keep quiet" if she were being mean to me.

asshole is not mean, not really. mean would be to kick you where you are most vulnerable. i have no idea whether your wife knows how to do it but I sure would love to find your weak spot and then stab you there with a screwdriver.

Why so angry? Were you once hot, but then grew from a size 6 to a size 14 and became invisible?

Anonymous wrote:My wife used to be a 10. Now she is 45 and maybe a 7. I used to be a 7, and am maybe now a 5. For a woman, being joyful and enthusiasic matters! For a man... well.. make more money, give more backrubs, and treat her like she is a 10.

I actually think my DW hit her physical looks peak at 45 even after three children. She was always young looking but mom and career success gave her a confidence that really affected how she looked and acted. That was almost 20 years ago. Today she is still very attractive and for her age she is close to a ten. In bed with the lights low she can still rock.

My wife used to be a 10. Now she is 45 and maybe a 7. I used to be a 7, and am maybe now a 5. For a woman, being joyful and enthusiasic matters! For a man... well.. make more money, give more backrubs, and treat her like she is a 10.

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Anonymous wrote:After kids, your body isn't the same. No matter how skinny you get, you will never be the same. Some women own it, others run to the plastic surgeon.

We can all see your work. Worst are the duck faced women who had too much time on their hands.

The truly beautiful mommas are those who age gracefully.

What does duck face have to do with a mommy makeover.

You're a special kind of stupid.

Oh you know, the ones who've had so much face work they resemble a Thunder Cat. You can't stop staring. You know you shouldn't. They have permanent duck face. Channel the Joan Rivers real housewives at your local club.

About ten years ago my DW had the fatty bags under her eyes taken care of along with a bit of a turkey neck. Both of these she had inherited from her father. She ended up looking well rested and not stretched the way so many do trying to look younger. With the right intent and the right doctor plenty of women have been tweaked such that most people never know it.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife used to be hot, but over the years, she has gained 40 pounds. I don't tell her she's hot, because she isn't. I just keep quiet when she fishes for compliments.

Do you look mostly the same as when you were dating? If so, then you should believe your DH when he says you're hot.

does she tell you that you are an asshole?

That would be downright mean of her, wouldn't it? She isn't mean, she's merely "not hot".
I'd probably not "just keep quiet" if she were being mean to me.

asshole is not mean, not really. mean would be to kick you where you are most vulnerable. i have no idea whether your wife knows how to do it but I sure would love to find your weak spot and then stab you there with a screwdriver.