Third marriages can work, it has been 10 years and they are extremely happy

Anonymous wrote:Good grief PP. You are so wrong.
My brother is on his third wife BUT they have been together for 10 years. He was 40 when they met, her 26 but both very happy together, share childcare and both have good careers. Stop stereotyping.

I wonder how much longer they will be happy. And we're pretty sure what will happen when he's not happy anymore. Marriage seems like a disposable concept to him.

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Anonymous wrote:

Young40 wrote:This post is ridiculous. I'm 44 and fully consider myself to be hot. I do have thigh gap and work hard to keep it that way. Age is a number and some women look better as they get older and more confident.

I was still getting carded at 40. People think I'm 10-15 years younger. A lot of Asian women age well so it all depends on genes and lifestyle.

I still get carded at 39. It's not because anyone thinks I'm under 21. Its because it is nearly every corporate policy to iD everyone. It's to protect themselves and having this policy puts all the risk on the employee who is serving the alcohol and removes risk from the company.

Don't flatter yourself, you didn't look under 21 ever since you hit 24.

Those bitter lowlives who have nothing better to do than insulting women they never met on an anonymous forum. SAD.

TwistdMike wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They do not talk about his career, their finances or even the children. HE works, earns the bacon, buys properties, and provides her the finances to raise the children. Her job is to look pretty, provide frequent sex, have his children and raise them

Please help me, where exactly is the problem with this?

Jk... i could drink beer with you.

Nothing wrong with it. It just isn't for some people.

Anonymous wrote:They do not talk about his career, their finances or even the children. HE works, earns the bacon, buys properties, and provides her the finances to raise the children. Her job is to look pretty, provide frequent sex, have his children and raise them

Please help me, where exactly is the problem with this?

Jk... i could drink beer with you.

Good grief PP. You are so wrong.
My brother is on his third wife BUT they have been together for 10 years. He was 40 when they met, her 26 but both very happy together, share childcare and both have good careers. Stop stereotyping.

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Anonymous wrote:

Young40 wrote:This post is ridiculous. I'm 44 and fully consider myself to be hot. I do have thigh gap and work hard to keep it that way. Age is a number and some women look better as they get older and more confident.

I was still getting carded at 40. People think I'm 10-15 years younger. A lot of Asian women age well so it all depends on genes and lifestyle.

I still get carded at 39. It's not because anyone thinks I'm under 21. Its because it is nearly every corporate policy to iD everyone. It's to protect themselves and having this policy puts all the risk on the employee who is serving the alcohol and removes risk from the company.

Don't flatter yourself, you didn't look under 21 ever since you hit 24.

Theres a difference between ha "we card everyone" even though not everyone at a table is forced to show ID and the no your not getting a drink unless we see some ID. My 42yo DW regularly was forced to show her ID while same aged people in our group did not

The kind of woman the man pairs up with says a lot about him from what I have seen.

The guys who pair up with women their own age and socioeconomic bracket are usually normal, self assured, liberal educated sort who want an emotional and intellectual partner in a wife.

The guys who date twentysomethings once they are no longer in their twenties themselves have issues. They are either egomaniacs who like to be the ones in charge and need a much younger wife to boss around and control. They LIKE having her be dependent on him and they LIKE the fact that she will not offer an opinion or add much substance to his intellecttual growth. They do not talk about his career, their finances or even the children. HE works, earns the bacon, buys properties, and provides her the finances to raise the children. Her job is to look pretty, provide frequent sex, have his children and raise them.

The other kind of guy who likes young women is the emotionally immature types who literally can play the self involved narcissistic games these girls play.

Honestly its self selecting. Like attracts like.


I have never met a man over 35 who dates a 20something and is somehow normal.

Anonymous wrote: To him those extra 5 years of perky tits and a supple face are worth putting up with an inexperienced, self absorbed narcissistic gold digging millennial.

Hate to break it to you, but this doesn't stop at 25.

Sorry to disappoint ladies but I am nearly 32 and nobody ever guesses my age as 'Older than 20 and that's at a push'. Most say 17-18. I am petite, 5'3 and have a very young face. It does happen although rare that women get mistaken as teens in their thirties.

If a 35 year old man seriously wants to date and marry a 25 year old over a 30 year old woman, let him!

To him those extra 5 years of perky tits and a supple face are worth putting up with an inexperienced, self absorbed narcissistic gold digging millennial.

Its his loss at the end anyway, because her youth will not last and he'd have to babysit his girlfriend.

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Anonymous wrote:

Young40 wrote:This post is ridiculous. I'm 44 and fully consider myself to be hot. I do have thigh gap and work hard to keep it that way. Age is a number and some women look better as they get older and more confident.

I was still getting carded at 40. People think I'm 10-15 years younger. A lot of Asian women age well so it all depends on genes and lifestyle.

I still get carded at 39. It's not because anyone thinks I'm under 21. Its because it is nearly every corporate policy to iD everyone. It's to protect themselves and having this policy puts all the risk on the employee who is serving the alcohol and removes risk from the company.

Don't flatter yourself, you didn't look under 21 ever since you hit 24.

NP. Speak for yourself. I had people genuinely think I was 17 when I was 25. Asked if my parents had to give permission for me to marry.

Anonymous wrote:Typical ridiculous replies from the DCUM women that are unsatisfied with their own looks and personalities.

Good on you OP for wanting to better yourself- above all, get fit and get more adventurous.

-30y DH that has been working out for the past year. Went from 6' 165 to 180 lean/fit. Have never felt better!

SO you gained weight? I don't understand why you would think gaining weight, even in muscle is a good thing. You are on the higher end of acceptable weight for your height. I bet you like you wife to be 105lbs.

What a stupid question. It is so easy to be hot in your 30s. Take care of your body, be confident and happy and fun. Mission accomplished. Just remember your years give you way more perspective than some 23-year-old, and that can be appealing, even if she does have firmer tits. In my experience the 30s are so much more fun to be around.

Anonymous wrote:

Young40 wrote:This post is ridiculous. I'm 44 and fully consider myself to be hot. I do have thigh gap and work hard to keep it that way. Age is a number and some women look better as they get older and more confident.

I was still getting carded at 40. People think I'm 10-15 years younger. A lot of Asian women age well so it all depends on genes and lifestyle.

I still get carded at 39. It's not because anyone thinks I'm under 21. Its because it is nearly every corporate policy to iD everyone. It's to protect themselves and having this policy puts all the risk on the employee who is serving the alcohol and removes risk from the company.

Don't flatter yourself, you didn't look under 21 ever since you hit 24.