Anonymous
11/22/2016 22:55
Subject: How many men have you slept with?
Anonymous wrote:Op I don't think 20-25 is a lot. I know people with over 100 partners.
I'm 32 I've had 21 partners not including women.
+1
I agree, 20-25 doesn't strike me as a lot either.
Anonymous
11/22/2016 22:49
Subject: How many men have you slept with?
Op I don't think 20-25 is a lot. I know people with over 100 partners.
I'm 32 I've had 21 partners not including women.
I'm 32 I've had 21 partners not including women.
Anonymous
11/22/2016 22:48
Subject: How many men have you slept with?
I think DH is 13 or 14. I was 31 when we met.
Anonymous
11/22/2016 22:19
Subject: How many men have you slept with?
Around 30. Not chunky, ugly or damaged.
Anonymous
11/22/2016 22:14
Subject: How many men have you slept with?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:For those who have been with several partners, is your significant other aware of your number?
17:18 here. I don't think I've ever mentioned a number to him but DH knows I had sex with a ton of guys in my teens & early 20s .
My wife was a self proclaimed slut before we met. Don't know her number, don't care.
Anonymous
11/22/2016 22:06
Subject: Re:How many men have you slept with?
4 including DH. First time I was 22 in grad school and didn't enjoy it. Second and third guys were OK but needy. Met DH at age 24 but didn't date for two years. Then, OMG! Still going strong many years later. He really aims to please in so many ways.
Anonymous
11/22/2016 21:36
Subject: Re:How many men have you slept with?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm shocked at the amount of "one only" people.
Me, too--and I'm one of them! Dh and I were both each other's firsts in college.
They either met their spouses very young or very physically unattractive (not meaning to be rude but I know some couples like this) or very shy.
Why? Literally everyone I know who has slept with one person fits one of the three categories.
NP- I think the opposite is true. The unattractive, chunky women always have higher numbers. It's a self-esteem thing or daddy issues. The really attractive, undamaged women aren't sleeping around.
they are the serial monogamists.
Anonymous
11/22/2016 21:32
Subject: How many men have you slept with?
Gah, gross.
Anonymous
11/22/2016 21:30
Subject: How many men have you slept with?
Man here, about 30. Seems pretty typical, according to previous posts.
Anonymous
11/22/2016 20:56
Subject: How many men have you slept with?
about 20. I don't remember if DH was 20 or 21. I met him when I was 25, fresh out of grad school. Just him since.
Anonymous
11/22/2016 18:31
Subject: How many men have you slept with?
Lucky 13. DH, too. We are not each other's 13 though (had a break) so that's a good omen!
Anonymous
11/22/2016 18:30
Subject: How many men have you slept with?
1. I grew up very conservative AND met my husband young. Not conservative any more but quite happy I had nobody before him.
Anonymous
11/22/2016 18:29
Subject: How many men have you slept with?
1
Anonymous
11/22/2016 18:01
Subject: Re:How many men have you slept with?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm shocked at the amount of "one only" people.
Me, too--and I'm one of them! Dh and I were both each other's firsts in college.
They either met their spouses very young or very physically unattractive (not meaning to be rude but I know some couples like this) or very shy.
Why? Literally everyone I know who has slept with one person fits one of the three categories.
NP- I think the opposite is true. The unattractive, chunky women always have higher numbers. It's a self-esteem thing or daddy issues. The really attractive, undamaged women aren't sleeping around.
Agreed. Beautiful women don't sleep around, in my experience
I think both unattractive and unattractive women sleep around. Actually, I know both attractive and unattractive women sleep around.
Right, we're talking about BEAUTIFUL women, not merely attractive.
Anonymous
11/22/2016 17:30
Subject: Re:How many men have you slept with?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm shocked at the amount of "one only" people.
Me, too--and I'm one of them! Dh and I were both each other's firsts in college.
They either met their spouses very young or very physically unattractive (not meaning to be rude but I know some couples like this) or very shy.
Why? Literally everyone I know who has slept with one person fits one of the three categories.
NP- I think the opposite is true. The unattractive, chunky women always have higher numbers. It's a self-esteem thing or daddy issues. The really attractive, undamaged women aren't sleeping around.
Agreed. Beautiful women don't sleep around, in my experience
I think both unattractive and unattractive women sleep around. Actually, I know both attractive and unattractive women sleep around.