Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have a tattoo on the inside of my right arm. It's bright, and very noticeable if I'm not wearing long sleeves. I love it - and get compliments on it all the time. My 73 year old mom isn't the biggest fan, though...
Also, I'm a respected professional in my field, and many fellow respected professionals in my field also have tattoos. I'm also probably not the 'type' one would expect to have a tattoo.
The times, they are a'changin', and it's not as taboo as you think.
Nobody thinks it's "taboo", just trashy.
Oh no, someone on the internet is judging me! I'll have to tell my mom she did a bad job raising me, because I turned out trashy...
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Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't really understand why some people are so bothered by other people having tattoos. I think preppy Tory Birch & Lily Pulitzer types are tacky, trashy, and ugly as hell - but if you like it, you like it - different strokes for different folks. It doesn't mean I make judgments about your character.
Not sure you get the difference between caring/bothered and noticing. Tattoos are definitely a social marker and a class distinction. See many on the Upper East Side? The beaches of MV? In Cap Ferrat?
Of course not.
I lived on the UES and have 3.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:they are just stupid. conformist, following the sheep. Before Dennis Rodman, nobody had tattoos. Then he got them, then Iverson. Think I'm going to follow those idiots?
I think tattoos look dumb as hell, but do you really think Dennis Rodmsn was the inspiration for tattoos lately?
he was. look at pop culture. celebrities and athletes. zero tattoos before that time period. Now, everywhere.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:they are just stupid. conformist, following the sheep. Before Dennis Rodman, nobody had tattoos. Then he got them, then Iverson. Think I'm going to follow those idiots?
I think tattoos look dumb as hell, but do you really think Dennis Rodmsn was the inspiration for tattoos lately?

Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't really understand why some people are so bothered by other people having tattoos. I think preppy Tory Birch & Lily Pulitzer types are tacky, trashy, and ugly as hell - but if you like it, you like it - different strokes for different folks. It doesn't mean I make judgments about your character.
Not sure you get the difference between caring/bothered and noticing. Tattoos are definitely a social marker and a class distinction. See many on the Upper East Side? The beaches of MV? In Cap Ferrat?
Of course not.
Anonymous wrote:Trashy. I make hiring decisions and a tattoo is an immediate disqualifer no matter how great the candidate. It's simply not the image I want our organization to portray.
I was really upset when my adult daughter got a tattoo. Her body. Her decision. But it just screams trashy. I would never tell her that. I think I bit my tongue in half the day I saw it for the first time.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't really understand why some people are so bothered by other people having tattoos. I think preppy Tory Birch & Lily Pulitzer types are tacky, trashy, and ugly as hell - but if you like it, you like it - different strokes for different folks. It doesn't mean I make judgments about your character.
Not sure you get the difference between caring/bothered and noticing. Tattoos are definitely a social marker and a class distinction. See many on the Upper East Side? The beaches of MV? In Cap Ferrat?
Of course not.