OP, what about a loan from this guy?

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Anonymous wrote:This is one of the more interesting threads on here in a while.

Everyone has a different value on sex and the act may not be that big of a deal to OP. Plus this is someone that she knows, so is a lot safer than actual prostitution.

This kind of thing goes on in other countries like Japan:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enjo_k%C5%8Dsai

But as others posted I would be careful of how you might look back on this or how others, such as someone you like or kids, might view it if they ever found out. If you're friends with this guy, chances are you will cross paths with him in the future and you both will think back to when you had that arrangement going even though you're in a different phase of life by then and would've liked to put that time behind you.

As a man I'm not going to counsel the OP either way, but I can also say that (when I was a young single man) had I met a late 20's woman who I thought I liked, but found out that she'd been a Sugar Baby for a couple of years sleeping with a guy solely for tuition payments, I'd dismiss her as a potential partner.

I realize that many here will shriek in revolt at my attitude and claim it won't be true, but be assured that many, many self-respecting men will feel the same.

And that's why we would never tell them

That's one way, I suppose, assuming that OP exists in isolation and has no friends or family that might interact with a future BF and somehow let this small thing slip, accidentally or on purpose.

But I guess the question I would ask myself is, would I want to engage in the sort of thing that I'd feel I needed to keep secret from a future partner?

Anonymous wrote:I wish I could see what the alternative universe thread on here would look like where a 37 year old guy proposed the idea of arranging for a 25 year old student to have sex with him a few times a week for 18 months in exchange for paying her tuition.

I'm guessing that wouldn't have been as well received.

. +1000

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Anonymous wrote:We call ourselves feminists and then judge women for using a very powerful resource (their beauty) to their advantage.

Go for it, OP. You can always end the arrangement if things get froggy. Don't listen to the haters - they just wish they'd had an opportunity like this when they were finishing grad school.

Seems an odd viewpoint to me. Not sure how reducing yourself to being some man's vessel in exchange for cash would be some sort of feminist ideal.

Maybe descend from your ivory tower for a moment to realize that, indeed, not everyone has multiple "second chances" and a soft place to land. Supporting women for leveraging the resources they do have is feminist. Judging women for the same is not.

You have a pretty meddled up view of feminism.

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Anonymous wrote:This is one of the more interesting threads on here in a while.

Everyone has a different value on sex and the act may not be that big of a deal to OP. Plus this is someone that she knows, so is a lot safer than actual prostitution.

This kind of thing goes on in other countries like Japan:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enjo_k%C5%8Dsai

But as others posted I would be careful of how you might look back on this or how others, such as someone you like or kids, might view it if they ever found out. If you're friends with this guy, chances are you will cross paths with him in the future and you both will think back to when you had that arrangement going even though you're in a different phase of life by then and would've liked to put that time behind you.

As a man I'm not going to counsel the OP either way, but I can also say that (when I was a young single man) had I met a late 20's woman who I thought I liked, but found out that she'd been a Sugar Baby for a couple of years sleeping with a guy solely for tuition payments, I'd dismiss her as a potential partner.

I realize that many here will shriek in revolt at my attitude and claim it won't be true, but be assured that many, many self-respecting men will feel the same.

And that's why we would never tell them

Anonymous wrote:This is one of the more interesting threads on here in a while.

Everyone has a different value on sex and the act may not be that big of a deal to OP. Plus this is someone that she knows, so is a lot safer than actual prostitution.

This kind of thing goes on in other countries like Japan:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enjo_k%C5%8Dsai

But as others posted I would be careful of how you might look back on this or how others, such as someone you like or kids, might view it if they ever found out. If you're friends with this guy, chances are you will cross paths with him in the future and you both will think back to when you had that arrangement going even though you're in a different phase of life by then and would've liked to put that time behind you.

As a man I'm not going to counsel the OP either way, but I can also say that (when I was a young single man) had I met a late 20's woman who I thought I liked, but found out that she'd been a Sugar Baby for a couple of years sleeping with a guy solely for tuition payments, I'd dismiss her as a potential partner.

I realize that many here will shriek in revolt at my attitude and claim it won't be true, but be assured that many, many self-respecting men will feel the same.

Anonymous wrote:What are you getting your grad degree in OP ? Maybe you should quit school and get a damn job.

I already work 40 hour weeks, babysit on occasion, all on too if school. Quitting grad school would be dumb. I want to be in that career field.

This is one of the more interesting threads on here in a while.

Everyone has a different value on sex and the act may not be that big of a deal to OP. Plus this is someone that she knows, so is a lot safer than actual prostitution.

This kind of thing goes on in other countries like Japan:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enjo_k%C5%8Dsai

But as others posted I would be careful of how you might look back on this or how others, such as someone you like or kids, might view it if they ever found out. If you're friends with this guy, chances are you will cross paths with him in the future and you both will think back to when you had that arrangement going even though you're in a different phase of life by then and would've liked to put that time behind you.

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Anonymous wrote:I did this recently and have been regretting it. I don't suggest this.

x2.

NOT worth the money, that's all I can say.

Did the X2 poster also regret it?

Yes I did regret it. And the guy was attractive and nice.

I actually think it gave me really bad trust issues and possibly PTSD. It's just weird, reducing your value down to just sex. I thought I was fine with it at first and over time I realized how upset I was. Has taken a long time to heal.

I wish we could connect. I also think I ended up with PTSD.

Maybe I could create a temporary email address, if you're serious about connecting? I would definitely be down to talk about it. It's not something I can open up to to anyone else, because of the judgement.

What are you getting your grad degree in OP ? Maybe you should quit school and get a damn job.

Your dad wouldn't want you to do this.

Op you are better than this. And if you feel like you aren't then realize you are.

Op what did you expect coming here and asking this sort of question? I'm a sugar baby and know damn well not to come here for advice. Make your own choice. Own it. And stop asking anonymous people for advice.

Anonymous wrote:A lot of women these days are 'looking for sponsors' or have 'sponsors'.

that's the correct term.

Well, that makes it all different.

And it'll provide OP great experience for later when she wants to screw the boss for promotions.

Well done, ladies.

A lot of women these days are 'looking for sponsors' or have 'sponsors'.

that's the correct term.