Anonymous wrote:Seriously, if someone tried to make me responsible for taking care of their child because they did not plan ahead to make sure they were seated with their minor -- I would do nothing for their child but ring the call button every time the child fussed or needed something. I would certainly not attend to their child myself, because someone that irresponsible and deluded would also probably be ridiculously and irrationally litigious.

Anonymous wrote:If you paid $100 extra for your aisle seat, would you ask OP --- or whomever wanted you to switch to a crappy seat -- to reimburse you the extra fee that you paid?

Anonymous wrote:I think it's really shitty that this is happening in the airline industry. It was NEVER like this 5 years ago. It's all about the money to the airlines.

I don't think a month out is 'last minute', either.

Perhaps OP should declare loudly that her 5 year old has a fever and chills. That would get people moving away and giving up their seats.

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Anonymous wrote:Most of you are ridiculous. No, everyone can't just pay more or take another airline. Those options aren't always available. One month isn't last minute, and sometimes work schedules, family emergencies, etc make it difficult or impossible to plan further ahead. And yet, little kids should not have to sit alone. Airlines created this problem by holding out SO many seats for which passengers must pay extra, greatly limiting the availability of "regular" seats. Guess what? Almost no one wants those seats, so they sit unreserved, until the day of the flight when they are given to whoever doesn't have a seat, without having paid extra. Meanwhile, families can't book seats (either at all or without paying a lot more) together because of the airlines' BS attempts to mickle and dime us for every damn thing. It's the airlines' fault, but it doesn't kill people to be nice and trade seats. With a family of four like OP's, just 2 of 8 possible people need to change seats. It's unlikely they all have some condition making this difficult. DCUMers love to wag their tongues about "entitled" parents who should have just done this or that, but fortunately, most people in real life are nicer and more helpful.

I agree with this. This thread is crazy.

I do like the idea of offering money. Heck, there was a time in my life I would have switched for $20.

So you are, no questions asked, going to switch out of your aisle/window seat into a middle seat for a 5-hour cross country flight?

NP here -- I would if the airline offered me a free ticket or even some $$ toward my next flight with them. Absolutely.

PP--I would as well, but that's not the scenario. The scenario is OP asking you to trade your window/aisle seat for a middle seat.

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So far, we've always had luck. People don't like seeing families separated and most people don't want to deal with a young child next to them on their own.

I think this is a further deterioration of airline service. Don't know what airline you're on, but for United, only by paying a few hundred more could you be guaranteed a seat next to your toddler or young child. Absolutely ridiculous.

DO you have difficulty reading? OP booked a month out, and there were only middle seats available. How on earth is this the airline's fault? The airline is supposed to hold rows open in case a family wants to book a last-minute vacation and needs to fly together? You're an idiot.

Yes the airline should hold rows for this and other similar situations. Because sometimes you do have to travel at last minute with your kids. Things happen. Even when it's just a vacation - flights are expensive and schedules can be tough. Why is so much animosity directed towards OP and not where it belongs - at the airlines that have created these ridiculous situations. 10-15 years ago stuff like this didn't happen because a) airlines didn't charge extra for certain seats and b) they held rows for families and disabled travelers to seat those that needed it together. It's the new normal of charging for certain seats and the free for all attitude that have caused these problems. I actually get that airlines need to make money too and I respect that the rising prices of oil and other factors do make it difficult for them, but the general attitude airlines have towards their travelers (and their own gate and flight employees stuck dealing with these situations) is very much to blame for this situation. The real problem here is not OP - it is the travel environment created by the airlines.

So people who book earlier should not have their choice of seats, because someone like OP decided a month out she wants to take a vacation? I have to sit in a middle seat, even though there are open aisle and window seats, in case a family decides to fly? Bullshit.

One thing you're forgetting - families who fly twice a year and look for the cheapest fares possible are not moneymakers for an airline. Frequent flyers are. There is actually a financial disincentive to procedures like this. And as you've made clear, families couldn't possibly be expected to PAY for this special treatment - so the argument is "cheap seats, help until . . . when? Can others book them 3 weeks out? 2? 1? We all should, in the form of increased fares across the board, pay for parents to have this privilege? And what's the age cutoff? Unaccompanied minors can fly at 5 - but what about little Alexandra, who is 7 and terrified of leaving her mother? No. What you propose is completely unworkable.

Like it or not, airline travel is becoming commoditized. You are not entitled to special treatment, for free, because you are traveling with a child. You may think it is unfair, but it is the reality, and has been for some time. The reason that there is animosity as to OP is that she ignored that reality and is perfectly fine inconveniencing others. That's crap.

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So far, we've always had luck. People don't like seeing families separated and most people don't want to deal with a young child next to them on their own.

I think this is a further deterioration of airline service. Don't know what airline you're on, but for United, only by paying a few hundred more could you be guaranteed a seat next to your toddler or young child. Absolutely ridiculous.

DO you have difficulty reading? OP booked a month out, and there were only middle seats available. How on earth is this the airline's fault? The airline is supposed to hold rows open in case a family wants to book a last-minute vacation and needs to fly together? You're an idiot.

Yes the airline should hold rows for this and other similar situations. Because sometimes you do have to travel at last minute with your kids. Things happen. Even when it's just a vacation - flights are expensive and schedules can be tough. Why is so much animosity directed towards OP and not where it belongs - at the airlines that have created these ridiculous situations. 10-15 years ago stuff like this didn't happen because a) airlines didn't charge extra for certain seats and b) they held rows for families and disabled travelers to seat those that needed it together. It's the new normal of charging for certain seats and the free for all attitude that have caused these problems. I actually get that airlines need to make money too and I respect that the rising prices of oil and other factors do make it difficult for them, but the general attitude airlines have towards their travelers (and their own gate and flight employees stuck dealing with these situations) is very much to blame for this situation. The real problem here is not OP - it is the travel environment created by the airlines.

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Anonymous wrote:I've had good luck and bad luck. The one time I really couldn't get anyone to switch I went and told the flight attendant and the pilot, who happened to be standing there, we needed to get off the plane and have our luggage taken off, as my 5-year old was petrified of sitting alone and I very calmly shared what my experience as a mother to this child told me would happen if we tried to force him to sit alone in a middle seat. The flight attendant, who up to that point had taken a "your problem, not mine" attitude, was quickly moved to action. It helped I think that the pilot was appalled to learn that a scared 5-year old was expected to sit alone (in between two large men, one of whom was already obviously drunk or high or both).
Now I simply won't take a plane if I can't book two seats together at the time of booking. This makes Southwest a no-go from the start. While my family is by no means rich, I am fortunate that I can opt to pay more for this.

Your kid sounds like a spoiled, sheltered brat.